Men's gentlemanly manners are cultivated, and these little details make it easy for you to deal with lovers when dating.

Remember you in your first love? I had a marathon love affair with my first lover when I was young. After half a year, I bravely and shyly held her hand and wanted to kiss her, but after every heartbeat, I always wanted to kiss her again. But you haven't experienced the first kiss, but the love between two people has come to an end.

What is the reason? I only blame you for not knowing the love code in a woman's heart. When you can see through the little secret hidden in her heart at a glance and understand her mind through her little behavior, then you know her best.

Men who are very educated and talented have different quality of life and social levels, and their gentlemanly manners in the process of interacting with others are unparalleled. Women can't help but be attracted to such men inadvertently.

Then we might as well practice some small details of a man's gentlemanly demeanor together.

A gentleman who travels with a lady by car usually opens the door for her when she gets on and off the bus, which is a sign of respect and etiquette.

The correct way to open the door when getting on the bus: the man bypasses the back of the cab and walks to the other side of the door. After opening the car door, he invited the lady to get on the bus and reminded her to meet carefully. If a lady wears a skirt, remind her not to pinch the car door, close the car door after confirmation, and then bypass the rear of the cab by herself.

The correct way to open the door when getting off the bus: the man bypasses the back of the cab and walks to the other side of the door. After opening the car door, politely ask the lady to get off and remind her to meet carefully. After getting off the bus, the lady closes the door and locks the car, and then invites the lady to go to the dating place with him.

At this time, the lady saw such a man's meticulous performance, which further increased her trust in him. The first impression of a man in her heart is absolutely perfect.

After arriving at the appointment place, the man should take the initiative to go ahead and help the lady open the door. If there are curtains, you should open them and hold them above your head. Please let this lady in.

With such a man, it will make a woman feel obviously cared for, considerate, cared for and respected by him, which will make her very happy.

At this time, she has not really started her love journey, and has been attracted by gentlemanly demeanor. Although she knows that she needs to know more about you, she has unconsciously developed a desire to communicate with you more deeply.

When you find that she seems troubled and lost in thought, you don't need to interrupt her thoughts, you just pour a glass of water for her silently.

When she sees you pour her water, she will suddenly pull back to reality from her thoughts, and she will be very grateful to you. Your thoughtful surprise is obvious in her eyes, and she is one step closer to your heart.

She has a feeling of deja vu about you, and she really wants to talk to you. At this point, you want to hold hands with her one step closer.

Everyone will be unhappy sometimes, some people like to cry silently, some people like to bear it silently, and some people prefer to tell others.

As a gentleman, you must be patient as her listener at this time. If she doesn't want to talk, you can persuade her slowly. Or for a small example, make a little joke about Doby, and when she has the desire to tell, she will naturally tell you.

At this point, she has completely trusted you. As long as you express yourself well and make her feel that you are reliable and excellent, falling in love with you is the perfect couple, and she will follow you without hesitation.

But some ladies like to play hard to get, and they have you in their hearts. To save face, you still need to take the initiative to pursue her. From the moment she left, she told you this feeling through her eyes and manners, and you can clearly feel it. Then you can go after her boldly, because she has allowed you to do so.

In the process of love, you don't know what kind of character a lady is. Sometimes your pursuit may be a little too big, or you encounter something annoying, or she does something that makes you disgusted, and your attitude towards her is a little blunt.

You don't know whether she is angry or not. You should react quickly in your mind and apologize to her immediately before she gets angry.

How is she? Maybe I haven't realized the problem yet. When I think about it carefully, I will suddenly laugh and point to you and say softly, "Your reaction is really too fast. I don't even have the idea of getting angry. Don't do this in the future."

This eliminates a misunderstanding, and such a man is more gentlemanly. If the lady is interested in playing a joke on you, she will say, "From this point, I can feel that you are a very manly person."

Your explanation at this time is incoherent. You're really not like this. She will laugh when she sees your embarrassment, which shows that she has come to like you.

When dating, men take the initiative to pay the bill, which is the minimum literacy.

In China, although men and women are now equal, women can be independent, and some women are better than men. However, the idea that men are masters outside and women are masters inside has been deeply rooted for thousands of years, and it is still the mainstream thought in society that men earn money to support their families.

Then, when dating a man, you don't need to care about these gains and losses. This is a man's minimum gentlemanly demeanor.

At this time, the lady will definitely rush to pay the bill, and she will definitely say, "What society is it now? I have a good income from my work now and I am not short of money. I have never accepted a man to pay the bill. Let me pay! " .

At this time, the man should answer, "Then give me a chance today. Will you respect me?" She will definitely agree with you to pay the bill and think you are a very reliable man.

From this, it can be analyzed that a woman may have never accepted an invitation or date from a man before, so if you have a chance, go after her quickly!

But if a lady wants to give you money on the way, it means that she is not a person who gives her heart to others easily. You still have a sense of distance in her heart, and all her gentleness to you is out of courtesy. Then you should stay away from her appropriately and let her take the initiative to find you!

If a lady naturally asks you to pay the bill and says, "It's natural for a man to pay the bill", then you should respect her and say goodbye to her after buying the bill!

Don't hesitate when you go shopping with a lady. You are her protector, her porter and her buyer. Help her reference, help her match, help her pay the bill, and help her carry the bag.

Your behavior will make her very moved. She doesn't know that she is happy when she looks at you tired. Maybe the thoughts you inadvertently reveal will make her have a strange heart.

Moreover, she is also examining whether you are really patient or pretending, and whether your gentlemanly demeanor is disguised.

At a friend's party or business meeting, I saw a lady who was embarrassed or at a loss when she encountered a problem. You should help her out quickly and give her selfless help. She will be very grateful to you.

Even though she knows you are after her, she may want to refuse you, but she really needs your help. She saw your talent in your help, and she has no reason to refuse you. And this has become a good reason to date, and she will take the initiative to ask you out.

If she has no lover for a long time, she will have a good impression on you. If you like her, then act quickly!

If you see a lady with a lot of things in her hand, as a gentleman, you should take the initiative to help her and help her where she needs it. This is a matter of little effort for men.

This is also a good way for men to understand women. If there is more contact, because of your help, she will notice you, see your busy figure, have extraordinary ability and be a gentleman, and will definitely have a very good impression on you.

The eyes are the windows of the soul, and the pheromones in her subconscious need you to pursue and discover.

At this point, ask her out boldly! Even if she refuses you once, she won't refuse you the second time or the third time.

If you meet a lady who is sick, as a man, you are very concerned and ask her, "Are you sick? Did you take your medicine? Don't be busy, take medicine on time. "

If she answers "I'm really too busy to buy medicine". Then you say, "I'm going out now, and I'll buy it for you, okay?"

If she wants to refuse, you can say "No way, I'm not a bad person, I'm really doing you a favor". She can't refuse you any more. She will gladly accept your help.

At this time, you are a considerate and good man in her heart. If I fall in love with you, I must be very happy.

Of course, if she doesn't have a partner, she will definitely pay attention to you. Through her investigation, you can naturally come together.

Since everyone is looking for a partner, why not find someone who knows the truth? You say so!

Women are not for chasing and fooling. Good men don't lack women. Why?

Because of his handsome, because of the success of his career, because of his external resource conditions, but also because of their gentlemanly demeanor.

Their thoughtfulness and behavior make women feel how happy they are to live with such a man.

Do you still need men to actively pursue it? All combinations are natural.