Rong Er's conversation

I think everyone just wants to be himself. No one wants to be the next, and no one can be the next. It's just that similar childhood experiences make it easier for us to form similar attitudes towards life and conduct ourselves. Neither Xian Jie nor Rong Jie in The Later Happiness will be the next Ming Lan. However, judging from the life experiences of these two young ladies, maybe Fairy Sister is more like Ming Lan.

When it comes to the attitude and standard of living, we have to explain Lan's childhood.

Ming Lan is six maids from Fu Sheng. Xiao Niang Wei Baobao gave birth during childbirth, one corpse and two lives. The tragic death of Xiao Niang cast a great shadow on her heart. She knows that if she wants to live in this big house, she must be patient and humble. Living is the truth. Among the three sisters in the family, Moran has the preference of the monarch's father, for example, Moran has the favor of mistress. A decent, a noble. Only she is different. Since childhood, her father's preference has made her suffer a lot, and only grandma can rely on it. But grandma is not her father's biological mother after all, so she can't always give her trouble. I can only be more forbearing and stupid. Fortunately, Ming Lan knows that life doesn't want to be played by fate, but she is still self-reliant under various pressures. She was careful and insightful all the way. With her wisdom and forbearance, under the guidance of her grandmother's cultivation, she was left out in the cold and bullied at home, grew into an important figure affecting the prosperity of the family, and completed the counterattack from a boudoir girl to a backup mistress.

Let's take a look at the childhood of Sister Rong and Sister Xian.

Sister Rong is Gu's eldest daughter, and Zhu Manniang, her biological mother, never entered the waiting house gate until her death, so she wrote her name on the genealogy. To put it bluntly, it is an outer room, not even a concubine. Although Sister Rong was not born high, she has never been treated coldly and suffered. I lived with my biological parents since I was a child and was loved by my parents. At that time, although the waiting house had no honor, it was also very rich, with maids to serve it, and it was not bound by the rules of waiting house. Later, Zhu Manniang made a mistake and was driven away. Gu has never ignored her for a day. Even if I go out to find Chang's brother, I will take Sister Rong and take good care of her. Gu er was neglected in the cold and cheerless since childhood, so she never let her daughter suffer a little injustice. Even without her biological mother, Sister Rong didn't have too many regrets in her childhood. Therefore, Sister Rong's life is not cautious and humble. Hungry and sleepy, she fell asleep and didn't wake up when it thundered. She's too safe.

Xian Jie's childhood is obviously not as good as Rong Jie's. Although Fairy Sister is the eldest daughter of the Governor's Office, she has more dignity than outsiders and is bound by unexpected rules. Sister Rong's father was sickly since childhood, and her mother was a person with no opinion. The big house looks very noble, and Gu Dalang also inherited the position of Ning Yuanhou, but there is no male heir in this room, and all the scenery is noble when his father is alive.

Once my father died young, the title was inherited by other uncles, and Xian Jie and her mother became redundant idlers waiting for home. She was also the first daughter of the deceased. Yu Yan Ran just lost her birth mother, and her father married her. Even with the support of grandparents, living in Yufu is so difficult, not to mention losing my father, the biggest backer of Houfu. Gu Fu is much more complicated than the general waiting house, and Gu Er Gu San is not her uncle. Although my grandmother Xiao Qin is also a father's mother's sister, she hates Hou Fu and Hou Fu people. Every day Hou Fu adults are fighting, and Sister Xian is caught in the middle. We must be patient and cautious, and don't get involved in right and wrong. Mother will become a ghost waiting for the government to complain.