What's it like to be beaten by your mother in junior high school? Who can tell me?

Hello, my name is Jin Tuo. I am a senior, studying in Tsinghua.

Recently, I have been solving parents' problems on WeChat, which is the topic of junior high school students' addiction to games in the last article. I found that parents are worried not only about their children's addiction to games, but also about junior high school students' puppy love. Some junior high school students came to tell me that they had someone they liked, fearing that their parents would know about it. ...

Junior high school is the key moment of children's adolescence. Children are too simple to get hurt easily. This "injury" may be brought by the outside world or given by parents! Let's take a look together ~

Junior high school students lack sex education, and adolescent children are easy to go astray.

Junior high school students may not understand the sentence "liking is enough appreciation". In adolescence, they are full of curiosity about all unknown things, and their parents deliberately avoid this topic, which aroused their children's curiosity. In addition, the lack of sex education for junior high school students may make children unable to confirm their inner thoughts because of a teacher's praise! Often at this time, parents will not know the child's inner thoughts for the first time, leading the child to enter the "blind zone" stage. At this time, parents should play a vital role. I share my personal experience with you!

It was the summer of eight years ago

When I was in junior high school, my father was busy with work and had no time to take care of my study. My grades are always above average. Teachers and my mother always thought that I was in a bottleneck period, so they recommended me to make up lessons. But this was originally a stopgap measure, but it was actually an accidental opportunity. I found that the literary and art committee members in our class also like listening to Vae songs. Because of the common language, I found myself falling in love with this lively and lovely girl after getting in touch slowly. But paper can't cover the fire, and my mother knows it after all …

I thought I was greeted by ruthless abuse, but on the contrary, my mother was going to invite her to my house for the weekend.

After seeing her off after dinner, I thought my mother would talk to me. I think everything is so abnormal. Not only did I not blame her, but I also invited her to dinner. Why?

"Mom, actually ..." I volunteered to my mother.

Mother said, "She is a very quiet girl, and your child and your father have the same vision!"! Mom and dad met in college. At that time, we agreed to enjoy the best time in college together and get married after graduation. You are still young, and you may not understand the sentence "When you should have worked hard, you met someone who wanted to take care of your life". Your father was very poor at that time, and he was still a bookworm. He only knew how to read. But he loves playing basketball very much. Every time he plays basketball, he asks me to watch it, and he also asks me to bring him two bottles of water to drink. Although he is a nerd in his studies, he especially amuses girls. In this way, I became your mother! Son, you have grown up, and your mother can't interfere with many of your choices, but your identity is still a student, and there is still 1 year before the senior high school entrance examination. Think about it. If you really like her, you should give her space to study hard. You too! You have to change your destiny like your father to give her a better future life. "

Yes, I can't imagine how difficult it is. Now eight years have passed, and I will graduate from Tsinghua in two months. The heroine of the story is in Peking University. As our parents agreed when they were young, we will get married after graduation, because life is too short to meet the right person. My parents' education made me know how to be grateful and cherish. Mother's Day is coming. As a human being, I am grateful to my mother, so that I can stand in the dream school of Tsinghua and learn to be grateful while receiving higher education! As for her, I also have the ability to take care of her all my life! And she happens to be willing! Thanks to my beloved her, we worked together from school uniforms to wedding dresses …

Mother's Day is coming. Jin Tuo wishes all mothers in the world good health and always smile! I will publish original articles every day. If it is helpful to everyone, please pay attention to sharing! Regarding the problems encountered in the process of educating children, please leave a message at the bottom of the article or communicate with me on WeChat. I will also share some learning skills and give you notes on the senior high school entrance examination!