My husband refused to accompany me back to my mother's house. What attitude should I take towards my mother-in-law?

"My husband doesn't agree with me going back to my family at the age of 30. Can I talk to my in-laws sincerely? " Since ancient times, when a woman gets married, it means "marry a chicken with a chicken, and get married for family reunion." People in China, far apart, are rushing home without special circumstances. In order to deal with the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, we can say that we try our best to please our husband and parents. No matter what they want from me, as long as I can do it, I basically won't hesitate, but I always feel that such a mother-in-law relationship is not what I want.

This is a happy return trip and the most anticipated moment of the year. Similarly, your husband is no exception, and he has not been sold to his husband. I thought your husband had no right to interfere with your personal freedom. If your personal freedom is unreasonably restricted and you are not allowed to go back to your parents' home for the New Year, you may be suspected of illegally detaining and stalking dogs. "Into the husband's family, is the husband's family. In other words, once a girl gets married, she is no longer a family member in terms of household registration, concept or tradition. The real family is her husband's family.

You can go back to your parents' house on New Year's Eve, but you'd better not spend the night at your parents' house. This is a taboo in the whole custom. It is said that a married girl is like spilled water. When she comes back that day, she will eat the poor family, which is not good for the family. Prepare for a happy reunion year. There are old people in the world, and there are very few under them. You can't miss your wife, sitting at the round table and sitting around. The family speaks freely and is happy. Bless each other, celebrate the reunion, show next year and make great achievements. New Year's Eve, originally a reunion dinner, can reduce the number of pro-wives, and parents-in-law can reduce the number of daughter-in-law.

Twenty-seven, send your daughter, twenty-eight, quack. These are two very important nodes in the old customs. On the 28th day of the twelfth lunar month, people began to paste couplets, hexagrams and ancestral stickers. This shows that the new year has begun to believe that your parents will understand. It's not a day, the traffic is convenient, the communication can be connected by video, and the mood is understandable. It's best not to be embarrassed during the New Year, just be happy! The ancestors of God were invited to our home. At this time of home, there is no room for outsiders. Therefore, the married daughter will be sent away on the 27th of the twelfth lunar month, so that she will not appear at home after the 28th and be seen by the ancestors of the gods, which is not good for her family.