24 love words, it is better to offend women than to offend villains.

24 love words, it is better to offend women than to offend villains.

0 1, I like him better because I know many people.

I really want to be with you forever.

In today's society, it is better to offend women than to offend villains.

Where there are flowers that symbolize love in full bloom, there is a thriving life.

Sunflowers silently follow the sun, not only for survival, but also for admiration.

06. Gamble the future with memory.

07. All difficulties are episodes in life.

08. You can't give me the love I want, so what was the love at that time?

09. A great man is not how many back doors he has, but how many people he can support.

10. Later, I finally understood in tears that some people are gone once they miss it.

1 1, the best may not be able to live together, but the one who can live together must be the most suitable.

12, years have erased the frivolity in my eyes and given me confidence in raising my mouth.

13, change of heart is instinct, loyalty is choice.

14, in the future, more calm and calm, less immature and dependent.

No matter what happened in the past, the best hasn't come yet.

16, love and not love always have feelings, but feelings can't last.

17, people who can make you fuck around will never make you lonely.

18, you are popular at ordinary times, and only a few people can help you when necessary.

19, there are not only love but also loneliness and wine in life.

20. Some habits always take a lifetime to correct.

2 1, simple us, the first secret hidden in our hearts is like.

22. Many times, the more you want to do well, the worse you will do, and so will your feelings.

23. A boy who doesn't take the initiative must not love you as you think.

Tell me about those who are afraid of offending people.

I'm afraid of offending people, but I can't control myself. I'm not young, but I just have no brain and emotional intelligence. Always believe in the reincarnation of the world. It's not that we don't report. Not yet. Each has his own life. Great things should be done by all rivers. Oil and salt don't enter.

Tell me about those who are afraid of offending people.

1. Actually, I'm really afraid that my acquaintances around me will refuse to introduce me, but I'm afraid of offending people, but I really don't want to know them. I am not in the mood, have no time or feel the need to sacrifice my time and hobbies to please another person. So I dare not say that I am single. Sorry!

Second, I am particularly afraid of offending people now, and I don't like being unhappy. If I can talk well, I can talk well, but I can't just smile and be silent. If you like it, say you like it very much, and if you don't like it, say yes; Happy is doubly happy, unhappy is childish.

Third, it is now clear that the methods of scum are: using people's sense of security, using emotional bugs (emotional feelings) and using ignorance (not knowing routines and being afraid of offending people).

I think I have changed. I have become more cautious than before. I talk and do things. I live in a gregarious environment. I'm afraid that my behavior will offend people. I know they are all very nice, but I don't know why, I'm just a little afraid to get along with them. I think I'm not only afraid to get along with them, but also afraid of the world. I think the reason why I have been unable to look people in the eye is because I have long lost it. ...

Five, you! I just care too much about what other people think. You are afraid of offending people, and others don't like you. There are so many things to be afraid of, in the final analysis, you are not confident! If you don't like it, you don't like it. You are not money. Why does everyone like you? If you don't get along, you won't get along. Anyway, I will live by myself in the future. If you don't praise you, you won't praise you. Think about your own advantages. Much praise is not much, little praise is not much. Compare less with others and more with yourself! You don't live for others and you don't imitate others. It is my life goal to keep my personality and strive for progress today than yesterday. Put aside all distractions and go forward!

I had a nightmare. I went out to play with my mother and another group of classmates, but I was killed one after another. Everyone is afraid that it will be themselves who are killed in the next second. My friend mysteriously disappeared at night. Is it because my friend is too talkative to offend people and get revenge? The wall clock on my wall suddenly disappeared. Is it my turn next? The kind of life that may be strangled immediately is that your feelings suffocate you, and everyone is in pain and fear.

Seven, it really grows weaker and weaker. I never cried when I was young. I am not afraid of growing up, but I am not sure when I will secretly wipe my tears. I am particularly sensitive to everything around me, afraid of saying the wrong thing, doing the wrong thing, offending people, cheating, indifference and no good result.

8. Mr. Cat in Downing Street said: I used to be afraid of offending people, asking questions, saying the wrong thing, being silent, being ignored, being unhappy with each other, and facing everyone with trepidation. Unfortunately, I didn't get the corresponding respect.

Dad, I want to tell you that not only graduation, but also all kinds of things. I won't refuse others, which makes me very tired now, doing a lot of thankless things, lacking in ability and afraid of offending people. I have never been free and easy. You don't know that I haven't graduated yet. Every time I call, your wife emphasizes money with me. You don't know how inferior I am in the eyes of relatives and friends. I always try to make myself become.

Ten, like a person who is not afraid of loneliness and closeness, it is most comfortable for me to keep single digits. I won't affect my original life track by accommodating another person's various living habits. Admit the differences and seek common ground while reserving differences, but you make me uncomfortable. I will fight back and refuse directly, not afraid of offending people.

1 1. I'm afraid of blind date. Every time I find someone to accompany me and help me out, it is estimated that many people introduce me to sinners. I really lost the feeling of liking someone. I have to live my own life. In fact, I envy people who are together. How did they do it?

Twelve, please be too tired. After reflection, I found that I had never quarreled with anyone in the real sense when I was so big, and I always gave in to each other. To put it mildly, it is a good temper, but it is actually cowardice, lack of self-confidence, fear that others will not like themselves, and fear of offending others. You can't refuse other people's demands. After you refused, you felt sorry for him. The point is that you still feel wronged after accommodating each other. You said you were passive with Nuo Nuo. What face do you have?

On the first day, I made progress, not because I wanted it, but because the reality forced me to be helpless. I am angry because I am afraid, afraid of offending others, afraid of saying the wrong thing, afraid of loneliness, afraid that everyone will ignore me, afraid that I will fail again, afraid that I can't face my mistakes, and afraid that I have no future.

Fourteen, there are always people who say that you have changed, but no one has ever asked you what you have experienced. Before, I was afraid of offending people, asking for trouble, saying the wrong thing, being silent, being ignored, being accused, being unhappy and facing everyone. Unfortunately, I didn't get the corresponding respect. Later, I began to indulge myself and indulge myself. If you are late, I'll go first. If I don't want to do it, I will never be forced. I just play with my mobile phone when I break the ice, and I only care about my personal feelings. People care about my fart. Then I found that I was not only valued, but also happier. Someone asked me whether I was introverted or extroverted, and I could only say that it was a two-way street.

Fifteen, to make some changes, always think of others, afraid of offending people, afraid of this annoying, afraid of that angry, when can you worry about yourself. Honey, let's call it a day.

Sixteen, a person who can't control his own words is also a person who is afraid of offending people.

Seventeen, most of the time, I am afraid to speak. Afraid of saying the wrong thing, offending others, and not understanding others. Especially after going to college. I often feel that I don't understand some people's Chinese, so I didn't participate in the discussion at one time.

Eighteen, the circle of friends is so boring, except for the occasional selfie of a real pretty girl, the rest of the time is basically boring. Is it because everyone is old and afraid of telling lies and offending people?

Nineteen, when you are fighting for justice, and the collective interests are ahead, and you think that the people you trust are timid, afraid of offending others, and even have no courage to cooperate with you, you can only doubt what life can do, but someone's image in your mind has plummeted, then he is a coward, hehe! ! !

20. Never offend people or friends. If you make a little mistake, you will die behind your back. It's scary, because when you really have a heart-to-heart, you won't say anything, but you will say everything. Many things can be guessed without saying. Sometimes you don't know what to do. Maybe you should say nothing in the future. The first step for adults to socialize is to have secrets.

Twenty-one, every day is endless. I am exhausted and worried. I am afraid that he will not handle the relationship well, offend people and be afraid.

22. People who are afraid of offending others are either indefensible or insecure, but they must know that the sense of security is given to themselves, so that they can have an independent personality and not be influenced by others.

Twenty-three, afraid of offending people, afraid to ask, afraid to say the wrong thing, afraid to face everyone. Unfortunately, I didn't get the corresponding respect. Later, I began to indulge myself and indulge myself. When you were late, I left first. I don't want to do anything, but I can't bear it. I only care about my personal feelings. Others don't care about me, and then I find that I am not only valued, but also happier.

In the past, I wronged myself for fear of offending others, and I was even more afraid of losing friends. Not now, because a true friend won't leave you and won't play tricks on you.

25. I find that I am a likable personality. This is a curable disease. I want to care more about myself and love myself slowly. Dare to face the true self, dare to express their views loudly, and no longer be passive to Nuo Nuo and Nuo Nuo, and no longer be afraid of offending others.

Twenty-six, afraid of not doing well, afraid of offending people, afraid of offending friends, only fear in my mind, afraid to think, a little pressure will make me feel chest tightness and numb. I spent all my energy just telling myself to calm down.

The more correct you are, the more people you offend! (Good depth)

Text/Ceng Shiqiang

China people want perfection, not right or wrong. In fact, this is the hardest thing to do. China people hate right and wrong people, but China people hate right and wrong people. Anyone who knows right from wrong is unpopular and can't do anything.

We are a demanding country. We should distinguish right from wrong in perfection and right from wrong in imperfection, then you give up all your efforts. Westerners are very simple. Right is right and wrong is wrong. There is absolutely no such thing in China.

In China, it doesn't matter who often makes mistakes, but those who are often right are unlucky. Isn't that weird? You know, the more correct you are, the more people you offend. I must make it clear that you should be very careful when you listen to China people. We definitely don't want you to be in cahoots, and we definitely don't want you to be opportunistic. But we want you to take care of everyone's face, be able to improvise, and be able to endure temporary anger, otherwise this right and wrong will never make sense.

In China society, right and wrong is a very difficult thing. To be clear, we are right and wrong. If this person is right, he must be wrong. A waiter quarreled with a guest. If you have other reasons, it is still your fault. Why? You made him unhappy, and you were wrong. No matter how right you are, you make him unhappy, then you are wrong.

When westerners quarrel, right and wrong will be clearly distinguished. When two brothers from China quarrel, it is difficult to judge who is right and who is wrong. Because you are wrong after me, brothers will not be United and have no feelings in the future. We see that the affection between western brothers is not as deep as ours. When adults deal with this kind of quarrel between brothers, they must say that neither of them is right and both of them should scold, and then tell them that brothers are right only if they don't quarrel. As long as they quarrel, both of them are wrong. This is called right and wrong.

People in China talk about right and wrong. As long as they are brothers, they can't quarrel. Let's discuss it carefully. Small is right and wrong, that is, to distinguish who is right and who is wrong, divide it into half a day, and finally leave Germany. Although we live together every day, sometimes we are not as good as passers-by.

Nowadays, children will close the door and tell their parents that you can't read my letter. But parents in China will not accept this statement, and how can they know what their children are doing? It is a foreigner's business to allow children to have personal privacy. Foreigners are responsible for children's affairs, because in foreign countries, children have little relationship with their parents after they reach the age of 18. In China, children are still parents' children when they are 30 years old; When a child does something wrong at the age of 40, his parents will be even more humiliated.

When foreigners see children, they will first ask: What's your name? Every time I see this, I feel very funny: what is the child's name and what does it have to do with you? China people don't ask this question. In China, when people see a child, they will ask: Who is your father? Who is your father is more important. What's your name?

It can be seen that people in China are always connected. In China, when people see a child, they are more concerned about who his father is. As for his name, we don't pay much attention to it because he is not heavy enough. And we can change who your father is at any time according to this. My father is a leader. Please come in and bring him the best chocolate candy in the house. Some people say that people in China are snobs. Excuse me, everyone: is snobbery good?

You don't know. Then I tell you, it is because of snobbery that we respect others; That's why we will live up to expectations and make continuous progress. Otherwise, if everyone is the same, why do you have to work so hard? Wherever we go, China people always think of one thing, and that is: ancestor worship!

You said yes. Then you are too shallow. Do people live to make others think highly of themselves?

So, China people are realistic and snobbish, okay? I think up to now, we have made it very clear that China is neither good nor bad. In a word, be reasonable. There is no absolute: good or bad.

So, finally, I want to remind you, remember: be reasonable and forgive others, and make peace directly.

Why did you finally offend others by lending money to others?

This kind of thing often happens in life. Lend money to others for help, but urge yourself to offend others because you can't pay back the money in time. So people come to the conclusion that it is easier to borrow money than to pay it back. Should I help others or not? I'm really upset.

It must be that the money is due, and you ask someone else for it. Others have no money to pay it back for the time being, or they don't want to pay it back as scheduled, and they want to keep your money for reuse. Both sides are unhappy. Of course, you lent him money and paid back the money you owed him, so you should. Talking too hard and pushing too hard will offend others. He will say in his heart, I will pay back the money sooner or later, but I won't. Why are you so worried, like a death warrant? Isn't it obvious that you don't believe me? Thank them for their relationship for so many years!

Look, all the good things are frozen like this. If it is a person with a normal relationship, the money finally comes and the relationship is stiff. After the big deal, everyone will not continue to associate. The problem is that sometimes you will meet an old classmate, an old friend, or even a close relative who has been friends for many years. This happened to you, and your feelings are very hurt. What should you do?

Would you say, money? If you don't borrow it, no one will! If you can really do this, your life will no longer be troubled by such problems. However, if you do, how can your conscience be reflected? How do you maintain your reputation in public? People will say: that man, a miser, ignore him! Why don't you stay alone?

This is a typical example of being difficult. Then what should I do?

Different people must have their own ways to treat others to borrow money. Here, let's talk about my countermeasures.

If a stranger borrows money from you, you can only borrow a little, and of course you don't have to borrow it. As a stranger, you can't verify the real information of his unit, family and himself in a short time. If you borrow enough money for him to eat, spend the night, or travel home, it is charity. When he sends you the repayment, you will be overjoyed, which is an extra gain of helping others.

If he knows you well, but the relationship is average. He asked you to temporarily lend 30 yuan to 50 yuan, 100 to 200 yuan, and you have to borrow it. What if he doesn't pay back the money? Can take the opportunity to see a person clearly. If he lends you more money, you can prevaricate that he doesn't have that much money on him. You can also say that the wife is in charge of all the money in the family (or the husband is in charge), and you can't make decisions, so you should go back and discuss with her (him). At home, the two of them studied it. It can be said that the change at home was just borrowed by the uncle of the child some time ago. There isn't much now, so I can only borrow one or two thousand. I'm really sorry. This is neither harmful nor risky.

If a good friend comes to borrow it, it depends on whether he has contacted you in the last three or two years, because people will change. For three or two years, you never know what he has gone through. At this time, you should be careful. You might as well hold him steady first, and then inquire through acquaintances to see what he has done recently and whether he has borrowed money from friends and acquaintances and won't pay it back. If not, you can borrow it, but you should control the amount, just in case.

If you are a close relative, you should try your best to meet his requirements without hesitation. However, you should also pay attention. First of all, you should know the purpose of his borrowing money. If he intends to invest or do business, you should help him analyze Qian Jing and risks. Be careful. After all, he lost money, even if he paid you back a penny, you would feel bad. Secondly, it should be noted that the proportion of lent money in your family's total savings should not be too high. Everyone has to live, and no one will meet any accident and spend money. You have a surplus of 200,000, but you can't lend190,000, right?

It can be said that the fundamental reason why a few people borrow money for a long time is the lack of contractual spirit of these people, which is a symbol of the collapse of a person's credit system. The state should use economic means such as credit to impose sanctions. To build socialist spiritual civilization, this field should also be an important position to grasp, grasp and grasp.

In short, money is hard-earned and hard-won. It's safest to put money in your pocket. If you lend money to others, they can't pay it back in time. You should have full expectations. Don't push too hard. Think of it this way. He owes me money, and he will always have a conscience. One day, he will return it.

If you are not such a person, then the day you borrow money is the beginning of your doubts and fears. Why bother?