Relatives are too snobbish. How should I get along with them?

Not everyone in this world wants you to have a good life, and not all your relatives are reliable. Many times, some relatives are not even comparable to ordinary neighbors. Even if there is no blood relationship between neighbors, most of them will help each other, unite and be friendly. But some relatives always like to compete with you, like to compare with you, and always want to show off in front of you, so that you envy him and envy him. This seems to be his victory. People's life, these relatives don't care, stay away as soon as possible.

1. "Rogue" who borrows money and doesn't pay it back

There is a kind of relative who usually doesn't talk much, even arrogant, and doesn't like to talk to people. Even if he meets you on the road, he doesn't want to say hello, but when he has something to ask you, he becomes very enthusiastic and asks you for help and money. Anyway, good things don't think of you, but they like to look for you when they have problems. He likes to owe others a favor and takes it for granted. A relative likes to borrow money from others. When he borrowed money, he said it was nice, saying the date of repayment, but he didn't keep his word, delayed paying it back, and called you stingy. It's also your bad luck for such a relative to meet him. Lending him money is tantamount to throwing it away, and there is no response at all.

2. "Two-faced people" who speak ill of others behind their backs

Have a relative, the family situation is average. He looks warm and easy to get along with. In fact, he is a crocodile who likes to gossip behind others' backs, especially between relatives. If you offend him or make him dissatisfied, he will make irresponsible remarks behind your back. Tell others' faults behind your back today, and tell others' faults behind your back tomorrow. Such people are two-faced, seemingly harmless, good for you, in fact, a lot of thoughts. It is really unlucky to meet such relatives in one's life. If you don't know the difference, you will think he is very good.

3. The "snob" of small groups

There is a kind of person who openly opposes you. Relatives should live in harmony, help each other and be harmonious and friendly, but there is a kind of relatives who don't like to live in peace, so we must break this balance and beauty. They always like to form cliques, don't talk about intimacy, and only do things according to their own preferences. Especially snobbish, rich people like to be with rich relatives, and people without money like to walk next to rich relatives. Whether you have money or not, you must stay away from such snobs' relatives.

4. A peacemaker who doesn't distinguish right from wrong.

There is a kind of relative who is particularly easy to get along with and very kind to people. Everyone is willing to send him a "good friend card". But in real life, such people are actually not good. They seem to be making peace, but in fact they will only aggravate the contradiction. They think what they have done is right, they don't know right or wrong, and they don't want to participate in quarrels between relatives. Indiscriminately, I only know that I want others to stop making trouble, I won't say anything, and I won't do justice for anyone. They want to please both sides and offend no one. Relatives who don't know right and wrong, it's best not to contact too deeply.