Is it annoying to do housework at home during the long vacation? Play tricks to let children do housework, and mothers save effort to benefit children.

Tik Tok saw a video that I envied for a long time: my eight or nine-year-old son went to his mother's bed and said, "Mom, get up and I'll cook." Then the son turned and went to the kitchen. Father and brother were busy in the kitchen. The son is talking to his mother while working. "The child's holiday mother stays in bed, like a holiday mother." After dinner, the children go to clean the floor again. They are experts in housework.

Netizens have commented that such a son gave me a dozen. Why do other people's children love to do housework so much that their own children can't do anything but make trouble?

There are still differences on whether children should do housework. Some people think that children are too young to do any work, but the more they help, the more chaotic they are. You might as well do it yourself. Some people think that it is very hard for children to go to school, and they also think that children are very sorry for themselves when they do housework. Some people think that children should do some housework, which can not only improve their self-care ability, but also make them more responsible.

It doesn't matter much to parents whether their children do housework or not. It's just a matter of doing more and doing less. But doing housework or not will have a far-reaching impact on children's growth.

What happens to children who don't do housework? I am a negative textbook.

I seldom cook, and I'm not very good at cooking. During my stay at home, what worries me most is cooking. In the past, my children went to school and I went to work, so I had limited opportunities to cook at home. Now stay at home every day, three meals a day.

No foreign aid, no take-out, everything can only be done by yourself, and the children are full of mouths. Cooking every day is really racking my brains. If I could cook since I was a child, things in the kitchen would be easy. It seems a little far-fetched, so let's get back to the point.

Children are taken care of at home, and their self-care ability is worrying. Although children focus on learning, the lack of self-care ability will directly affect the learning state and effect.

For example, children who have just entered kindergarten will not eat by themselves, wear simple clothes and go to the toilet. Everything needs the help of teachers, which will make it difficult for children to integrate into kindergarten life. Children in primary schools are so poor in self-care, they can't even pack their schoolbags, they are left behind, their organizational skills are poor, and it is difficult to be organized in their studies.

The family is busy every day, and the child does nothing like a little emperor. He is always self-centered, and it is difficult to understand the hardships of others and lack empathy. In the long run, children will only think about themselves and ignore others.

David from SNH48 graduated from Tongji University, and he also got a master's degree in Canada, but since he returned to China, he has been eating at home and being raised by his 80-year-old mother.

The old mother couldn't bear to take him to court, but he pointed the finger at her. "It's all your fault. When I was a child, everything was arranged for me by others, which made me too dependent on you. Your love ruined me! "

Selfish children can only see their own grievances and can't see the efforts of others. This is the legendary baiwenhang.

Go to college to check the dormitory hygiene. On one occasion, the counselor randomly checked the dormitory hygiene, and there was no news at all. This is completely natural. The dormitory next door is on fire. Everyone of them is glamorous when they go out, but their dormitory is really terrible.

There is no wasted space in the dormitory. The ground is covered with pots, dirty clothes, dirty socks, all kinds of shoes and even underwear. The bed is also a world of garbage and dirty clothes.

People who have been spoiled and idle since childhood have no basic ability to live.

If you don't want your child to live in a pigsty and let his life fall behind, you should give him a proper opportunity to learn to do housework and manage his own life.

Some parents will say, I also want my child to do housework, but who can do it if he doesn't? I can't make him work with a stick. Parents should be careful when asking their children to do housework.

Let the children do housework, there is no need for the lion to roar, and there is no need to hold a small whip. Parents only need to work hard so that their children can work well.

When assigning tasks to children, we should consider the degree of matching between the difficulty of the tasks and the children.

Don't let children do housework that is too difficult and dangerous. Children don't want to do it as soon as they listen. For example, never let a three-year-old cook, or let a five-year-old clean himself.

Assign tasks to children so that they can finish them quickly without too much effort. For example, 3-year-old children will throw garbage, 5-year-old children will sweep the floor and vacuum, 6-year-old children will wash clothes and make beds, and 7-year-old children will clean the room.

Let children take charge of a certain job and set daily tasks for them. Such as sweeping the floor, tidying up, washing dishes, throwing garbage and so on. In order to make children more willing to act, certain incentives can be taken.

Some parents will set a price for housework, how much money the child will give for doing one thing, and the child will earn pocket money for doing housework. This method is discouraged by many parenting experts. Housework pricing actually makes children special. After all, mom and dad did a lot of work, but they didn't earn pocket money by doing housework.

Incentives for children should be what children should have, such as eating snacks and playing electronic products. Just changed their time.

We can make an agreement with our children that you can't play with your mobile phone until you finish the housework. If the child's daily tasks are in line with his age, he can finish them quickly and the child will actively do housework. After all, he can still play games after finishing housework.

Children sometimes don't want to work. We should appease their emotions in time, show sympathy to them, and let them know that their ideas are accepted.

My sister is very good at showing sympathy to children. She asked her 9-year-old daughter to clean the glass, and the child was exhausted. My sister was chatting with her daughter while cleaning the floor. "When I was a child, I was particularly reluctant to clean the glass. Your grandmother asked me to clean the glass, and I wanted to run. But in fact, as long as the glass is cleaned quickly at the beginning, it is quite happy. "

When her daughter heard this, it turned out that I was not the only one who didn't want to clean the glass. Anyone can, so she went to clean the glass.

Parents should thank their children after they finish the housework. You can directly say to your child, "Thank you for helping me sweep the floor today, or I will be busy until midnight." Children will feel that their labor is very valuable and go to work.

Children are born to love labor. When they walk unsteadily, they will work, wiping the floor with their own clothes and wiping the table with rags. Children's enthusiasm for work is often stifled by parents who are afraid of trouble.

Take advantage of this long vacation to let children stay at home and actively participate in housework. It can not only combine work and rest, but also make children change their sports style, cultivate their self-care ability and life ability, and make them more responsible. At the same time, you can free your hands and reduce the burden. Why not?