Happiness exists. Tell me about it.

You should learn to be happier than before, and smile even if you are sad. Learn to be cold-blooded, only for those who are good to me. Learn to be lonely, no

You should learn to be happier than before, and smile even if you are sad. Learn to be cold-blooded, only for those who are good to me. Learn to be lonely, no one will protect you as a treasure. Learn to be cruel, kill it, and let it go. Learn to be rude, get out of here and stay. If you work harder than others, you will have one more grade; If you are more ambitious than others, you will be more promising. In this world, someone must be happy when you are sad, and someone must be working hard when you are lazy and degenerate. Ironically, people who are happier than you may not meet any good things. The terrible thing is that people who are better than you work harder than you. Later, someone in this world must be doing what you like, and someone is living the life you want. The point is, what kind of person are you going to be from the beginning? What you can withdraw depends on what you have saved. Without storing friendship, you can't get help; Without storing knowledge, you can't withdraw your ability; If you want endless happiness, you should save gratitude and pay. Gentleness is necessary, but it is not compromise. Life can't be without pursuit. Without pursuit, the motivation of life will be lost. But you can't force it. If you insist, you will make yourself feel bad. Life depends not on time, but on treasure. Hope for the best, try your best, prepare for the worst and hold the best attitude. Remember what should be remembered, forget what should be forgotten, change what can be changed and accept what is true. The sun is always new and every day is a beautiful day. The more you try to forget, the more you remember. No matter what you do, you should be prepared to suffer. After walking some roads, I know hard work; Climb some mountains before you know the difficulties; After crossing some rivers, I learned to trudge; Only by crossing some hurdles can we know how to surpass them; There are some things that we don't know until we experience them; I didn't know wealth until I read some books; Knowing that happiness takes a lifetime. Life is the process of practice. It is this heart that is cultivated. If you soften your heart, everything will be complete, your heart will be clean, and there will be no bodhisattva around you. A bitter thought, a happy thought, a lost thought, don't think, a thought down, so comfortable, no one can dominate your emotions, be your own master, be a wise master, and be generous. Kind and happy. Don't worry. Obviously you live in the present, but you cling to the past and worry about the future; Insist on carrying the past, the future and the present, and life will be so slow. Simply living in the present, there is no truth or falsehood in the present: there is no right or wrong, and there is no trouble; If there is no truth, there is no need to forget and worry. That's true or not. Isn't it like dreaming? Yes, just think of life as a dream. With a good mood, you have confidence, and then you have youth and health. I just have a yearning and expectation for my future life. Let us have a good mood, because life is lucky and happy. Give yourself a good mood and let the world smile at you: give others a good mood and let life smile at us. Laughing it off is the indifference of life and the elegance of life. If you can't tell, don't say it, it's rare to be silent; If you can't figure it out, you don't want to, and it's hard to worry; Don't do it if you can't. It's hard to be quiet. Life, many people and things, many feelings and righteousness, there is no need to entangle, it is best to laugh it off. Free and easy, you will see more; A little more elegance will be more beautiful; A little sunshine will make you smile more brightly; Giving up a little will bring more happiness. A person's heart, occupying the area of the body, is actually only the size of a fist, or even bigger. You don't need to pack too much. Love and compassion are enough. Don't resent others. Hatred is illusory and intangible. It's just a period of anger that stays in my heart, and it doesn't do any good. Why not drive it away and let love and sympathy fill all the gaps? With love in your heart, it will be as vast as the sea, and a compassionate heart can help you be safe and happy! When we can see how persistent we are, liberation begins. If you always complain about this and that, you will have endless resentment and pain. Impermanence is the truth of this world. The more greedy you are for this world, the deeper your troubles will be. The wise man said: contentment is always a joy, which is not negative, but a calm to see through the illusion and let go of gains and losses. If you can really let go of your gains and losses, you can live easily. The worker complained to his friend: we did the work, but the team leader was praised, and in the end it all became the manager's. Is it unfair? . The friend smiled and said, look at your watch. Do you look at the hour hand first and then the minute hand, but you don't even look at the second hand that runs the most? . The law of life, if you feel unfair, you should try to do the former, and it is useless to complain. Be a down-to-earth person and do things. Look at the gains and losses in life, everything is destiny takes a hand, don't care too much. Life is illusory, empty when it comes, and empty when it goes. Look at the right and wrong in the world, people are warm and cold, care about a state of mind, and when the state of mind is correct, the troubles will naturally be solved, so that I can be obedient and free and easy. We always like to use a microscope to find our own troubles and pains, and use a magnifying glass to see the happiness and happiness of others. So, we tied a knotty knot for ourselves in the depths of our spirit, which is doomed to be an inescapable robbery in our life. We don't need to look up to the happiness and happiness of others. Everyone has disappointment and despair. For your own troubles and pains, you don't have to make much ado about nothing, as long as you are willing, it will eventually pass. When you hold your hands tightly, there is nothing inside; When you open your hands, the world is in your hands. We always want to cling to everything, but as everyone knows, some things do not belong to you. As the saying goes, a small house is too small and a big house is too big. I don't want to give up, but the more I give up, the more I get. It is better to wave your hand smartly and choose to give up bravely than to force it. Giving up can make you more tolerant, wiser and calmer. Who says giving up is not another gain? Sometimes we are unhappy because we care too much about other people's feelings, a criticism and a trivial matter, which let the outside world control our mood. Many times, he may have forgotten what others have said and done, but we are still torturing ourselves. Life is not easy and the road is bumpy, so you don't have to jump out of the trap set by others unintentionally. Live more for yourself, many people have nothing to do with you. Communication between people is more about accepting each other than changing each other. If you just want to change each other, it is not life, it is war. Fate is not a matter of opportunity, but a matter of choice. This is not something we have to wait for, but something we have to achieve. The man who walks straight is smart because he finds a shortcut; People who bend the straight road are open-minded because they can see more scenery. The road is not at the foot, but in the heart. People are most familiar with themselves and most unfamiliar with themselves; The nearest is yourself, and the farthest is yourself. People have two eyes to see the world, everything and others, but they can't see themselves; Can see the shortcomings of others, but can't see their own shortcomings; You can see the greed of others, but you can't see your meanness; You can see the evil of others, but you can't see your own stupidity. Nobel tells you the true meaning of success: Nobel always gets the second place in an hour, and the first place will always be Baiji dolphin. Once the baiji was ill, he had a chance to win the first prize, but he sent his class notes to the baiji, and the baiji won the first prize at the end of the term. When he grew up, he became a chemist and a rich man, and donated all his property to set up the Nobel Prize. The world only knows the second Nobel Prize, but seldom knows the first Baiji dolphin. Success depends not only on a moment's cleverness, but also on your mind. Sometimes, the words and deeds of others are difficult to understand insults and criticisms, just like mud. You see, when I crossed the street this morning, mud spilled all over my coat. If I clean it right away, I'll make a mess. So I put my coat aside and concentrate on other things. When the sludge is dry, it is easy to handle. Listen, a few touches will be fine. A controlling person can't let go of others and liberate himself unless his inner emptiness is filled. A person full of resentment can't stop complaining unless he expresses his inner resentment. What matters in life is who you know, who you walk with, who you share the joys and sorrows of life, and who you have had some important moments with, including the last unforgettable one. There are no assumptions in life, and the present is everything. Life is fair to everyone, and life is a long journey. We should learn to walk happily, no matter how long and hard the journey is, it will be happy and full of flavor, because we have enriched our lives through the journey and made our lives stronger. Everyone is tired, bored and unsatisfied. At this time, we should imagine ourselves in a more desperate, more difficult and more difficult situation. Happiness needs comparison. It has no end, no standard, only depends on how you know it and how you explain it.