I am a very timid person, very timid, cowardly and incompetent. I have been bullied by everyone since I was a child, and girls don't like me. I

How can people become better? Let's summarize the steps.

First, I didn't realize my own shortcomings.

Second, consciousness has got its own defects, but it has done nothing.

Third, realize your own shortcomings and start to change.

Fourth, stick to the road of change and finally change.

Where are you? Is it the third step already? Then there is only one step left, try to take this step! Of course, it must be difficult. Unlike me, I'm just being sarcastic here. You may face all kinds of problems, and you may be beaten back to your original shape several times or even lose hope. But it's hard to say yet. Gan Kun hasn't decided yet You just started to change your plan. The future is full of opportunities. The stars in the night sky are waiting for you to pick, and the clouds in the sky invite you to pick. And whether you can succeed or not depends on your consciousness! Every powerful person was bullied and grew up, and every master failed the most times.

You have sound limbs and normal IQ. Why are you being bullied? Why does everything have to be laughed at? Why aren't you the main character?

I think the main reason for this situation is that you are too kind to attack and hurt others, so you have always played a good and unfair role. But people should be gentle and strong, so that they can live more comfortably in their own world.

Try to do something small to start your path of change! Just start with the little things around you. If the road ahead is extremely difficult, please think more about the things that bring you the greatest happiness in your daily life, and don't force yourself too much. If you really can't hold on, take a rest and move forward with enthusiasm.

I won't say "come on" to you, and I won't give you pressure. I only hope that you can love and be loved and live a life that is not tiring.