Why do people know what I'm thinking when I speak? I am so embarrassed.

The reason may be that others will observe colors, so you can know what you are thinking by what you say. This is some of your psychological activities, which can be expressed through what you say.

If you don't want to be found out, you should talk less and observe others more. In this way, you can also know what others are thinking through what they say.

How to get to know a person through conversation?

Many people often use some high-frequency words unintentionally, forming what people call "the mantra", and these language habits can best reflect the speaker's truth, L theory and personality characteristics. Therefore, as long as you pay attention, you can get a glimpse of a person's inner world from his "mantra".

People who like to use buzzwords are keen to follow the crowd and exaggerate. Such people have a weak sense of independence, have no opinions, and are easy to go with the flow.

People who like to use foreign languages and foreign languages love to show off and brag about themselves, and they are very vain.

People who like to use dialects and are confident have strong self-confidence and unique personality.

People who like to use words like "this", "that" and "ah" are more cautious in their words and deeds. Such people are what we call Mr. Nice guy. They are gentle with people and things, and will never get angry casually.

People who like to use words like "What happened in the end" are mostly dissatisfied with their potential desires.

People who like to use "is true" are shallow and ignorant, but they don't know it themselves, and they are often self-righteous. People who often use the word "I" either represent weakness and always want to turn to others, or they are vain and grandiose, looking for opportunities to express themselves and hoping to attract attention.

How to get to know a person through conversation?

People who like to use "actually" have a strong desire to express themselves and hope to attract others' attention. Most of their personalities are headstrong and very conceited.

Most people who like to use such emphatic words as "truth" lack self-confidence and are afraid that no one will believe what they say. Unfortunately, their repeated emphasis will only arouse the suspicion of others.

People who like to use imperative words such as "you must" and "you should" are autocratic, stubborn and arrogant, have a strong desire for leadership and are never satisfied.

People who like to use words like "look" and "I think" are generally kind and friendly, and can be objective and rational when dealing with people, think calmly, analyze carefully, and then make correct judgments and decisions. They will not be arbitrary, but they can give others enough respect and will be respected and loved by others.

People who like to use "I want", "I think" and "I don't know" are mostly simple-minded, impulsive and emotionally unstable, which will make people confused.

People who like to use the word "absolute" are sloppy and easy to make subjective judgments. They are either too lacking in self-knowledge or too self-conscious, making it difficult for others to get close. Most people who like to say "absolute" tend to love themselves. Sometimes, after their "absolute" is refuted, in order to hide their inner anxiety, they always find some reasons to explain and always want their own things to be accepted. In fact, others don't believe in their own absoluteness, and they don't believe in such "absoluteness", just insisting on maintaining their so-called dignity.

Other people who use spoken English frequently are hesitant and weak-willed. What some people haven't said doesn't mean they have never said it. Maybe I had it before, but I gradually got rid of it. This shows that a person is strong-willed and speaks concisely.