Marital Attitude of Impotent Men (Collapse of a Middle-aged Man)

Over the years, Deng Bin never told others about the hardships of his marriage, so others always thought that Deng Bin must be very happy and have a good relationship with his wife.

It was not until a while ago that Deng Bin suddenly announced the news of his divorce and watched him collapse and cry that he realized that it was a bit bitter and there was no need to complain. When people reach middle age, it seems that we have all learned to resist stress. No matter what big things are, we all begin to learn to hide them in our hearts, especially in front of children and parents, and we are desperate to express ourselves.

Deng Bin, as a middle-aged man, didn't see his collapse until after his divorce. He said: asexual marriage is a pain that men can't say!

Up to now, few friends know the real reason of Deng Bin's divorce. Of course, he just claimed that his feelings were not harmonious.

The day before the divorce, Deng Bin stayed up all night, leaning against the moonlight reflected on the bed outside the window, and carefully looking at the sleeping face of the child. No one knows the disappointment, guilt and bitterness in his heart.

Divorce is not a trivial matter, especially for middle-aged people. There are too many to face and too many to choose.

But in other words, since husband and wife can be together for ten or twenty years, who wants to divorce unless absolutely necessary? Who is willing to give up the home he has run for ten or twenty years?

However, in the face of the torture of asexual marriage, Deng Bin finally failed to persist. In his own words, there is no warmth in a family without a husband-and-wife life. As for marriage and feelings, they will deviate from the track of happiness, and they will only go further and further and never look back!

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When marriage is peaceful, asexual marriage, loveless marriage, mutual admiration, mutual familiarity like strangers, family like hotels, too tired to quarrel, too lazy to divorce, more like a tool to make money for innocent children to live.

Such a life may have become the norm for the elderly, but it is too cruel for the young and too bleak for the middle-aged.

At six o'clock in the morning, Deng Bin got up to make breakfast for the children. /kloc-the 0/0-year-old child was obviously surprised: "Hey, Dad, why are you cooking?" ? Where's mom? "Sometimes I have to say that although the child is young and naive, many times his sixth sense is always accurate enough to make people afraid.

Like children in Deng Bin, it is obvious that the family atmosphere is different and there seems to be a bad feeling.

Deng Bin comforted the child to eat, and he sat quietly watching. At that moment, his eyes were never gentle, but there was a trace of guilt. At that moment, he was ambivalent. He feels selfish and innocent. After all, he is also a victim, isn't he?

Deng Bin sent his children back to school and then went home. His wife still hasn't got up. When she saw Deng Bin coming back, she was surprised and asked, "Why did you come back again? Nothing to do today? "

For a long time, Deng Bin replied in three words: "Divorce!"

When Deng Bin uttered these three words, he suddenly felt that he had no strength at all, so tired. But I don't know why, he still has a very relaxed feeling in his heart, as if the stone that has been pressing on his heart was suddenly removed by a person and he was relieved.

A word from his wife made Deng Bin completely desperate: "Have you thought about it? Think about it, then go away! "

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No one can understand the collapse and pain of Deng Bin at that time. His wife's frankness was unexpected. Even if he asks why, Deng Bin will not collapse later. He also realized that his wife had long anticipated the divorce. In other words, when she rejected Deng Bin's married life, she was ready for divorce.

As a middle-aged man, I don't know the harm of asexual marriage, but I know it is a kind of harm, and I still hurt each other mercilessly. Is the purpose still obvious?

There may be no better reason than not loving!

Deng Bin is 37 years old. He and his wife were married for 12 years, but for 5 years, they were all asexual marriages. Accurately speaking, it is not that there is no husband and wife life directly, but a year, maybe once, at most twice, but this time twice, there is no quality at all, because the indifference on his wife's face makes Deng Bin feel sad.

He is embarrassed to talk to others because he doesn't know how to talk. In addition, the most important thing is that as a middle-aged man, we should always maintain the image of a middle-aged man. So, he suffered for five years and finally couldn't help it!

Until the divorce, Deng Bin didn't understand why. Why do you say good vows of eternal love and forget when you say forget? Why was everything fine before, and then it changed?

When a man makes out with his wife enthusiastically, he is greeted with a cold face and a perfunctory attitude. That kind of injury is better than all sharp knives in the world.

Deng Bin, the collapse of a middle-aged man: Asexual marriage is a pain that men can't say! I'm tired, I can't go on, maybe I'm selfish, but I'm really not as strong as others think. I am a middle-aged man, but I am also a human being.