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About "white lies", you need famous sayings and 3-4 famous examples (preferably with names).

A white lie will not hinder honesty.

Speaking of lies, I dare say that none of us has never lied since childhood. Yes, everyone has lied, but some lies are white and some lies are malicious! A white lie has a good starting point, and it is a lie that has to be fabricated when lying and cheating in white.

First of all, a white lie will not hinder honesty. Let's start with our country:

In the late 1950s and early 1960s, there was a dispute between China and the former Soviet Union. The former Soviet government tore up the contract and withdrew experts, which paralyzed China's industry for a time. In order to pay off the debts owed to the former Soviet Union, Chairman Mao called on the people to practice steel and launched an unprecedented Great Leap Forward. At that time, no one in China would know that our country was still in debt to others, thinking that our country was liberated. You will live a carefree life, but the party and state leaders shoulder this burden. At that time, the state leaders lied to the people in good faith and honesty. At that time, the people of China worked hard without pressure and created an unprecedented miracle. At that time, the Iron Man Wang Jinxi was created, and Wang Jinxi led his oil drilling team to drill the first oil well in China … ..

Second, speaking of us personally, I will give two small examples here:

I watched a TV report that an old mother had kidney disease, and her life would be in danger if she didn't change her kidney. At this time, the eldest son stood up and asked for kidney donation, which hurt the old mother, who strongly opposed it. She said that if so, she might as well die. No way, we can only wait for a kidney source that matches the conditions, but it is really not easy to wait for such a kidney source. My son was afraid of delaying his mother's illness. After discussing with his family, I cheated my mother. I donated a kidney from my youth to my mother. After the operation was successful, the family kept it from their old mother. The most touching thing is that my mother and son live in the next ward. My mother doesn't know. When my mother wanted to see her eldest son, my family just lied to her that her son was on a business trip. After reading this report, I was moved to tears. Friends, does such a lie hinder honesty?

A little girl with leukemia, at the end of her life, when the doctor asked her what her greatest wish was, she said that she wanted to go to Tiananmen Square to watch the flag-raising ceremony. How can doctors and parents not satisfy a dying girl's last wish? However, because her family lives in a distant Xinjiang, if her requirements are met, the doctor is afraid that the girl can't stand the fatigue of the journey, so a collective fabrication activity organized by more than 2,000 volunteers, doctors and the girl's family began. From boarding the train to taking the tour bus, along the way, from reporting to the waiter serving tea, and even to the conversation of passengers, everyone deliberately arranged. Finally, they came to a school, accompanied by the national anthem of a military band. The blind girl thought she really came to the long-awaited Tiananmen Square. When she was unable to raise her little hand to salute the national flag, all the people present shed tears. This collective lying action organized by more than 2,000 people, can you say that their white lies hinder honesty?

Also, many elderly people are uncomfortable and refuse to let their children know at the first time, for fear of affecting their normal work and study! Many children say that falling doesn't hurt, just to let their parents say they are brave! There are many women who silently contribute behind the successful personnel, tired but not complaining, so that their husbands can do their work better with peace of mind and care less about their families ... There are countless examples in our country with a long history of civilization, and facts speak louder than words. To sum up, they are all lying, but their lies are well-intentioned and do not hinder honesty. ...

A white lie will not hinder honesty.

Lies are called "lies" because they are false, untrue and deceptive words. If a person often lies in his mouth to deceive others, he will lose people's trust over time. Just like the children in "Lying Children", they cry "Wolf" every day, seeking excitement and happiness. When the wolf does come, he has to face it alone and bear it alone. No matter how much he shouts, it won't help, and no one will come to help him again. Because people who might come to help him are used to his yelling and think that he is "teasing you" again. It can be seen that lies hinder honesty

But today we say "lies", and there is another attribute-goodwill. After adding this qualifier, the nature of lies has changed fundamentally. "White lies" are people's good wishes for things, a dialogue between people's kind hearts, the warmth of people comforting each other, and the tenderness revealed in people's hearts ... No one will investigate its credibility. People who hear a white lie will try to believe it even if they know it is a lie, and will not feel the hypocrisy of the liar, and sometimes they will be grateful from the heart.

When a terminally ill patient is sentenced to death by a doctor, his parents, lover, children and all relatives will not directly tell him, "Life is hopeless" and "How long can I live in this world at most". Although all this is true, who will tell the truth to their already miserable relatives as cruelly as a judge sentenced a prisoner to death? At this time, everyone will form a United front, keep silent about the truth, and use white lies to make patients full of hope for treatment and let patients spend the rest of their lives with peace of mind. Does this hinder honesty?

When a dead child suddenly encounters misfortune and loses his loved ones, how can he explain to him where his loved ones have gone? We think the best way is: don't tell him the truth for the time being, just say to go on a business trip in a distant place, or study and work abroad. When the child is sensible and has a certain tolerance, he will tell the truth, and the child will understand the practices of his loved ones and will not be angry because he did not know the truth earlier. Don't such words also hinder the integrity!

How I wish I could see my son for the last time when his mother was terminally ill and dying. However, my son can't come back, and he can't do a little filial piety for his old mother and take care of the mother who once broke his heart for his son. He regrets and misses it. The old mother understands her son very well and tells her relatives around her not to tell her distant son after she leaves and not to distract him. She should say that her condition is stable, reassure him and do her best for the country. Don't interfere with honesty with such white lies!

Therefore, I insist that white lies not only do not hinder honesty, but also greatly enhance the friendship and feelings between people and have an indelible effect on social stability. I suggest that you use white lies when you should, and there is not much serious conflict with honesty.

White lies do not hinder the four arguments of honesty.

Good evening, Chairman, Judges and Students:

A serious debate needs a serious stand.

Next, I will make a concluding statement on our position.

First: White lies are out of goodwill, with the purpose and starting point of safeguarding the interests of others. As we all know, contradictions can be divided into universality and particularity, and particularity is contained in particularity and different from universality. The essence of a white lie determines that it is not a bad benefit, but is based on sincerity and kindness in the heart, while a malicious lie is an act of seeking benefits for the liar, which only regards others as a means and does not hesitate to hurt others, with a strong desire for profit and weak rationality. The lies that people who are kind in themselves are "forced" to tell in a certain state are well-intentioned and a kind of friendliness and concern for the subject. However, unscrupulous people, no matter how to disguise, how to rhetoric, how to rack their brains to crown their malicious lies with malicious purposes. Obviously, a white lie does not hinder honesty.

Second: White lies are a way of life and a reflection of considerate quality.

Relatives and friends of terminally ill patients always tell their illness lightly with white lies and encourage him to cooperate with doctors. I'm sure none of you here will accuse them of dishonesty, will you? ! On the contrary, it is malicious and true. A prisoner was lured by the enemy to tell about his troop deployment. Does anyone think he is honest? Sincerity to the enemy is betrayal to the country!

The director of the judicial expertise department of Guangzhou Brain Hospital said: "Lying is a human instinct. As for honesty, the key is what kind of lies to use. "

A lie that rejects love without directly hurting the suitor; An expressive lie that is unwilling to disappoint the inviter under the attentions of men is indispensable in interpersonal communication. It makes us more handy when dealing with the world, instead of cutting off other people's heads and scratching ourselves like a hard stone with many edges.

It can be seen that people need a layer of protective color and lubrication. Since being expelled from the Garden of Eden, people are not naked but surrounded by bark and grass leaves, aren't they?

Third: white lies are a kind of lies, but not telling lies will definitely hinder honesty. It is necessary to analyze specific problems.

Honesty is respected by everyone because it is kind and does not cheat. On the surface, white lies seem to hinder the principle of honesty, but in essence, they exist because telling the truth hinders the principle of good faith.

White lies and honesty are actually the relationship of unity of opposites, and the so-called violation only provides a useful supplement to honesty, not an obstacle. For example, it is stipulated that pedestrians in the same direction can only occupy half of the road, which does not hinder everyone's passage!

Fourth: A world without lies is like a dust-free earth. We agree that white lies do not hinder honesty, but this does not mean that we advocate honesty. The key is the degree.

What is lying? If it is indiscriminate, it is defined as: not seeking truth from facts, telling lies, exaggerating, covering up and distorting the truth. Then our life is full of lies, big and small, from inflammatory advertisements to sweet words between lovers, full of exaggerated words, and even Lian Wenxue's works have become lies. Everyone has a standard of lying in his heart. How to grasp this degree is our first consideration. Compared with lies with bad motives, white lies will make people's feelings more harmonious and harmonious, and life more interesting. It can skillfully avoid conflicts, realize emotional communication and communicate smoothly. How can it interfere with honesty?

So learn to distinguish malicious lies and protect yourself from harm; At the same time, improve your self-cultivation and think about the best way to solve the problem. "The way of a university lies in virtue, being close to the people and stopping at perfection". As for those that are warm and make life full of interest; As for those lies full of kindness and compassion, let them bloom!

I believe that under the sky of goodwill, our world will be better! !

Thank you! ! !

B-ultrasound is finished. "Please help the patient out of trouble." The doctor with a big mask and glasses on his face told me. I was anxious to know the diagnosis, so I hesitated and didn't move. "Help the patient out first!" The doctor said it again in an imperative tone.

Help my father sit in the chair outside the door and return to the B-ultrasound room immediately. By this time, the doctor had taken off his big mask and said to me with a newly written diagnosis, who are you? I said he was my father. Judging from the results of B-ultrasound examination, it is a space-occupying lesion in the liver area, that is, liver cancer, and it is advanced. "Can you be so sure?" The accuracy can be said to be 99%. How much we hope this diagnosis is wrong and belongs to inaccurate 1%. I went to another hospital with luck and the result was the same. Father is too old to have an operation, so he can only be treated conservatively. Liver cancer is a malignant tumor, and it is estimated that he can only live for three months at most. A bolt from the blue, a thunderbolt, I don't know how to face this reality, I don't know how to tell my father.

We know that many patients can't stand this heavy blow after learning that they have cancer, and their mental breakdown suddenly aggravates their illness. After careful study, everyone agreed not to tell mom and dad the truth. I asked a familiar doctor to write a false diagnosis of gastric ulcer, telling my parents that there was nothing serious, just take some medicine. In order to hide people's eyes and ears, we tore off all the labels on the medicine bottles and asked my father to do "iontophoresis" once a day. Although "iontophoresis" is of no benefit to my father, we still insist on doing it in order to create an illusion of being treated and support our lies.

Father is still easy to fool, he can't read, even if he was taken to oncology department, he didn't notice. I don't know what "iontophoresis" is, but I still insist on walking to the hospital for treatment every day.

Mother is the first person to find a lie. One night after dinner, my father went back to the back room to rest. When my father was away, my mother said that your father's illness was getting worse and worse. Why don't you do something? Anshan cannot be cured. If you go to Shenyang and Beijing hospitals, you can't stand it! Seeing my mother's eagerness, I had to tell her the truth. The main reason for hiding the truth is that my parents can't stand it. Unexpectedly, my mother was unexpectedly calm. People who live to 100 will die. It was right not to tell your father. I agree, but tell me so that I can make some preparations. The next day, I informed the elder sister and the second sister to go home, and our five sisters got together. My mother made arrangements for my father's funeral.

My father's health is getting worse every day. Finally, one day, he suggested that he could not go to the hospital for "iontophoresis", then he stayed in bed, and then he began to have severe pain, which was maintained by injecting painkillers. We kept our mouth shut about our father's illness, and he never asked him about it. When I was in front of my father's bed, I didn't dare to look at his dull eyes. I was ashamed of my father's kind eyes, because I made up a lie, a white lie, and cheated an illiterate old man.

The painkiller worked, and my father was not as miserable as other patients. My father is extremely weak, has difficulty eating, has a dry abdomen, and the tumor in his liver is hard-bagged. Until the day before his death, he stroked his abdomen with dry hands and said to me, "This is my illness. If only this bag could be removed. " I am speechless. what can I say? Does it make sense? My father looked at me with tears, and then he said, "Don't be sad. It's only a matter of time before people die. I know this disease can't be cured, and you did your best. I am very satisfied. " It suddenly occurred to me that not only are we lying to my father, but my father is also lying to us. He knows he has an incurable disease, and we are lying to him, but he doesn't want to expose the scam.

A white lie between two generations. Lying is the filial piety of children; Lying is a father's deep love for his children.

Respondents: Black Maple Leaf Quiet-Level 2 2008-10-110: 01.

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