Let’s talk about the circle of friends where the husband doesn’t help with the kids

1. Extremely sleepy... This is not the first time that I fell asleep while sucking breast milk around 1pm. I couldn't get up in the morning. I got up late at 8:30 yesterday. I finally opened my eyes at 8:10 today. I don’t want to eat at noon, I just want to sleep, but I still have to pump... I need a husband who can get up early to cook for me and pick up the kids... I haven’t had breakfast for 2 days, and I haven’t cooked anything for breakfast for a long time... and then disappears After becoming my father, I also wanted to disappear without taking care of my children...PS My child's father got off work at 5 a.m. every day and didn't wash up when he came home. He slept like a dead dog. I jokingly called him the "disappeared father" and hoped to change his job. In the future, I will be able to spend more time taking care of our two mothers. 2. Every time I watch a game, it’s like a roller coaster. It makes my heart feel really good. Two of the three teams I have always liked entered the semi-finals this year, which diluted my husband's annoyance of not having a baby. 3. What exactly is marriage? What role does a husband play in a family? Do I really need my husband? When it comes to making money, everyone is similar. Apart from this, the husband has no role in the family. I take my daughter to kindergarten. This road is in the opposite direction from my workplace. What about your husband? He never picks up or drops off the kids, he is always very busy. I never take care of my children or do housework after get off work, and I don’t care about the world. I feel like I am the nanny of the family. What's so good about such a relationship? I don't know how long I can hold on. 4. The baby is 99 days old and I have some symptoms of depression. I am very worried and become suspicious and irritable. My husband does not understand and does not take care of the baby. Although there are many people, I still take care of the baby by myself. I am tired and can't change anything. , I just hope that I will get better soon. I feel very sad. I always understand others but are not understood by others. I can’t find a clue as to where to change. My husband is an outsider and has never truly felt sorry for me. I don’t know. 5. The so-called married single mother is me. Apart from being able to sow seeds, this husband does not fulfill his role as a husband or father at all. Whenever he has free time, he looks at his mobile phone, invites people to watch movies, and helps others buy cars. I never take my children out to play. It’s okay if you don’t take me with you. 6. My husband never takes care of children, and only comes back once a few days. My son is now 7 years old. He asked my mother why she doesn’t want a father anymore. My father likes gambling but doesn’t like us, so let him be someone else’s father. 7. First of all, raising children at home is not about being unable to work, but choosing to pay more for the family. The country has annual leave every year, so why can’t mothers take a break? Secondly, why can’t my mother-in-law take care of the children? When my mother-in-law gets old, can I tell my husband without any shame that you take care of your parents? If you can, it doesn’t matter if you don’t take care of the children. Secondly, does the child belong to the wife alone? Why can the wife take care of the child at home but not the husband? This society is ultimately unfair to women. Men can go out to travel, drink, and have fun, but that is for work, but it is selfish for women to go out. 8. At home, I always dislike my husband for not taking care of the children and for being lazy. When I am not at home, I cook pancakes for my son and squeeze juice. I see him eating so happily. No wonder the kids like him, but he is not good enough. 9. Me It's like there is no husband. I don’t take my children with me, I don’t ask questions on the phone, and I don’t respond to messages. Children don't ask questions either. 10. After a woman gives birth to a child, she really loses herself. All she thinks about is the child and her husband. It is even more sad when you marry an inconsiderate husband. I never take care of my children. During the holidays, I only sleep at home and drive out to play. You hold your child with your panda eyes to put him to sleep, while he drinks wine and brags at the bar, and then falls asleep when he comes back. This is my husband, and I am this poor woman. Moments about husbands not helping to take care of their children 2 1. I hate this kind of life. I get up at more than six o'clock every day and can't fall asleep until 12 o'clock at night. It is really not easy to take care of a baby alone. The most important thing is that he still doesn't understand and doesn't help. I really like a saying, as long as you care, you will have time no matter how busy you are. She has no freedom, her second husband is inconsiderate, her husband's family doesn't help, and she is no longer a soft girl. After having a baby, no matter how pretentious she was before, she will be a tomboy when the baby comes out. Taking care of the baby alone is something I have never thought about before. In short, the pain and tears I feel now are all the water that went into my mind when I made the choice.

2. I am in a bad mood today, very bad. When I was not a housewife, my sister told me that women should have a job no matter what, even if the salary is very low. I didn’t listen at the time, but accommodated his parents. Now I really regret not listening to my sister. I really feel like I’m going crazy raising a baby at home, especially since my husband plays games every day like a child. If he doesn’t help, he is told that he won’t take care of the baby every time. I couldn't help but want to yell. If I don't help, there will be no one to guide me. I give up a promising job to stay at home. Sometimes I feel regretful. I am also a capable female general in the workplace. I started working as soon as my baby was one month old. I prepared a complete set of breast-carrying tools and all kinds of ambitions to prepare for my return to work. In the end, I had no choice but to work from home. In the double year, I resigned and was completely idle. As a result, someone took advantage of me and told me how much I wanted to take care of the child, but I wouldn't let him. 3. My husband who doesn’t help with the baby and only snores, wants to kick him to the door every minute. He feels that life is too tiring: work is so busy! He takes care of the baby, cooks, picks up and drop off, and attends hobby classes all by himself. The native family doesn’t help! Men are like gods in heaven.