Actually, not all love will disappear. What are the key points?

Actually, not all love will disappear. What are the key points?

Love in modern society is too sensitive. Whether you are a celebrity or an ordinary person, there will be a day when you can’t love anymore. At this time, people often say: "All love will be disappear”, or “never believe in love again”. But is it? Love may disappear, but this is not absolute. If you use it in the right way, love will of course always exist. If you use it in the wrong way, love will disappear over time. The important thing is how two people get along.

Whether it is love or marriage, the most important thing is management. It does not mean that two people are together, as long as they fall in love. Falling in love is only the first step, and the subsequent getting along and management are the key. is the most important thing, and as long as you get along well, your love will always exist. Some people don't understand this truth. They always think that love is just like that, it comes and goes quickly. They are almost unwilling to seriously think about what the problem is. Instead, love comes as soon as it comes, and they don't feel regret when it is no longer here. , such people will never get true love after all. Therefore, you need to understand that not all love will disappear, the important thing lies in these two aspects. First: Two people must learn to communicate

How can love go further and further? In many cases, it is because two people have become increasingly speechless. You talk to him about things, and he talks about things to you. They are never in the same world. The two people at this moment are actually very far apart. Think about it: when you were passionately in love, did you talk non-stop? Now that you are together, why don't you have anything to talk about anymore? Are you unwilling to slow down and have a good chat with others?

How can love disappear? Most people no longer communicate with each other. I always think that two people have been together for so many years and they still need to communicate. They only need to make do with the surface. In reality, This is an incorrect idea. Two people who truly love each other will not become two people who have nothing to say. Instead, they will have something to talk about all the time.

A good friend of mine, Xiao Fu, and her husband have been married for ten years and are still very much in love. Many friends asked her about the storage tips between husband and wife, but she just smiled and said: "Where are the tips?" It's just a matter of frequent communication to let the other party understand what is going on in their hearts. Fortunately, we all want to talk to the other party about what is in our hearts. Sometimes we can't stop talking when we get excited. This feeling will make us go back to college to talk. When they are in love."

Generally, couples may not talk about each other for ten years, and they may have nothing to talk about after one or two years. Some topics are just about children, or some trivial matters. , but Xiaofu and his wife are different. They often start a "night chat" when their children are sent home. They can talk about college, home, and life plans. They don't want to slow down while chatting. At that time, even they themselves couldn't believe it. After ten years, they still had endless things to talk about, and they still wanted to share their thoughts with the other party.

The two of them are often still in love for ten years, but they are good at communication and often have something to talk about. Of course, such love can be kept cold for a long time, and it will also make people look forward to it. And if you push the other person out of this world, you will never know what he is thinking, and he does not know what you are thinking, and of course that kind of love will disappear. Second: Always keep it fresh

In a relationship, freshness is very important. People often feel that they can’t love each other anymore, or they don’t like each other, but they get along with each other day by day. , the freshness disappeared, leaving only the dullness day after day. Although life has always been dull, people always want to add a little passion to the indifference. This is also a better way to make life better. When you complain that love will disappear, why not adopt some actions to give the other party some new ideas? , let the other party have a sense of freshness, so that such love can last long.

You can give her a bouquet of flowers on her memorial day. For example, you can spend time together as a couple when you are free. For example, you can squeeze in time to take her on a trip to bring her back to her youth. Such a novel idea It will make others want to meet love even more. My friend Sister Liu said that her and her husband’s stable project is to travel once a year. Some people may feel that they are so old and have so many things to do, how can they have time to travel? But Sister Liu said that it was precisely because there were too many things that she had to squeeze in time to do something new and innovative. Otherwise, she would be stuck in the trap of oil, salt, soy sauce and vinegar, and the two of them would just quarrel every day. , where there are emotions to maintain relationships.

It was different when traveling. She felt that she was much younger again. The two of them could still look at the beautiful scenery and take photos as they did in the past, and they cherished this period of time for each other. It was just a short trip, but it made Sister Liu feel very fresh. She also believed that this love could last and that this life was also very happy. In fact, what people wish for is not much, but it is just to give a little freshness to the ordinary life, so that she can look at life and feelings with full vitality. Summary:

There is a saying: "The so-called love is just a momentary game, getting along is a lifelong life." The so-called love is easy to get along with, but only if you get along well with this love and manage it well , your love will last long and your love will not disappear. May you understand this truth, may you cherish love!