Taboos for married women to get along with the opposite sex

1, women can't have an ambiguous chat with the opposite sex. In real life, some women have the wrong feelings because of chatting with friends of the opposite sex, and finally some women have a tragedy. For these women, they also hoped to love their husbands all their lives at first, but it was because they didn't control the distance between themselves and friends of the opposite sex that they made mistakes. For example, some women just joked with some friends at first, and then some ambiguous chat words appeared, and then moved the truth. In the end, some women will have tragedies. Therefore, as a married woman, we must learn this lesson in life, know how to keep a distance from friends of the opposite sex, and it is best not to have some ambiguous chats. Only by maintaining this attitude can she embrace happiness. For example, women should keep simple friendship with friends of the opposite sex in their lives, and absolutely must not have any inappropriate words. After doing this, there will be no wrong emotions, and no wrong behavior will be made because of these emotions. When a woman can follow this principle in marriage, there will be no problem in her relationship with her husband and it will not lead to a marriage crisis. Finally, a woman and her husband can have a good result. 2. Women should not meet friends of the opposite sex alone at night. In this open era, many women think it is normal to meet friends of the opposite sex. Even many times, they think there is not much mistake in dating friends of the opposite sex. This is part of women's inner thoughts. It is normal for women to have this idea. After all, this era is also very open, but women must understand what kind of identity and what kind of things to do, and never do inappropriate things at the wrong time. Imagine that a married woman often meets her friends of the opposite sex alone at night, or even goes to play alone with her friends of the opposite sex. On the one hand, this practice will make the husband suspicious, on the other hand, it will also lead to wrong feelings. Therefore, married women should not meet with friends of the opposite sex alone at night, let alone play with friends of the opposite sex, otherwise they may make some wrong behaviors and lead to their own marriage tragedy. For example, a married woman is asked out to play by a friend of the opposite sex at night. At this time, she should decisively refuse and tell the friend of the opposite sex that this practice is not desirable. With this attitude, women can avoid marriage crisis. In the future, if women can be so strict with themselves in life, they can avoid having wrong feelings, and there will be no marriage crisis in the future. Finally, both women and husbands can have a very good future. 3. Women should not accept gifts from friends of the opposite sex. In real life, there is a phenomenon that some women still accept gifts from friends of the opposite sex after marriage, and they will feel particularly moved. At this time, they had feelings for this opposite sex friend, and then they ushered in a marriage tragedy. Some of these examples do exist in real life. Women still don't put themselves in the right position after marriage, so many times they still accept gifts from friends of the opposite sex as before, and eventually women will usher in their own marriage tragedy. Because when a woman accepts a gift from a friend of the opposite sex, it is equivalent to giving a vague hint to her friend of the opposite sex, and in many cases, her relationship with her friend of the opposite sex will become less pure, and eventually there may be some serious consequences. Therefore, married women should never accept gifts from friends of the opposite sex after marriage, let alone things that represent love. Otherwise, their relationship with friends of the opposite sex may have problems, which will eventually lead to tragedy. For example, when a married woman sees a gift from a friend of the opposite sex on her birthday, she should politely refuse it and not accept it easily, so as to make her relationship with her friend of the opposite sex more pure. Of course, it is not that married women can't accept gifts from friends of the opposite sex at all, but the reason why they can't accept ambiguous friends of the opposite sex. This is a problem that every woman needs to be aware of, and it is also a manifestation of being responsible for her marriage. Women should not talk about their troubles with friends of the opposite sex. Many married women will have a depressed mentality after some disharmony with their husbands. At this time, they will reveal their worries to their friends of the opposite sex and help them to decompose their depression. At first, women may just regard their opposite sex friend as a friend who confides in their hearts, but after a long time, women may have impure feelings with this opposite sex friend and then make some wrong decisions. We should know that the feelings between men and women are uncontrollable, and they are often revealed through some words and deeds, and there is no way to make the right decision in the end. This is a mistake made by many people in their feelings, and it is also the beginning of a marriage tragedy. Therefore, married women should not confide in friends of the opposite sex or open their hearts to friends of the opposite sex. Only in this way can they avoid too many problems, which is conducive to the development of marriage. For example, if a woman encounters unhappy things in her life, she can talk to her best friend instead of a friend of the opposite sex, otherwise there may be a marriage tragedy. With this awareness, women will not have wrong feelings with the opposite sex outside marriage, and will not affect their marriage because of this feeling. Finally, the relationship between women and their husbands will achieve a good result. If a person wants to make his marriage happy, he should not only manage his feelings and life well, but also make certain demands on his words and deeds to avoid doing things that are not conducive to the development of marriage. Therefore, after entering marriage, women need to regulate their words and deeds, especially when interacting with friends of the opposite sex. They must never do anything that is not conducive to the development of their marriage, otherwise their life will become a tragedy. Taboos for married women to get along with the opposite sex 2 1. Don't get too close to the opposite sex, keep your distance. If you need to go out for a party or KTV, you'd better bring your partner and keep your distance from the opposite sex. Don't get too close and try to avoid going out alone. If you need to go out to eat alone with friends under special circumstances, you should also explain it clearly with your family to avoid unnecessary misunderstandings. Second, refuse to get along with the opposite sex too casually. Two people can say anything. A casual remark may be just a joke, but there may also be other meaning. An ambiguous joke, you may think this is an ambiguous beginning. Over time, it is easy to cross the red line. Therefore, we should reject this ambiguous relationship. Although you are married, you should know how to control your feelings and stop having an ambiguous relationship with the opposite sex. Otherwise, you may not be able to be friends then, which is embarrassing. Third, don't get too involved. Maybe before you got married, you had a close relationship with your friends of the opposite sex. You will discuss everything with friends of the opposite sex, but when you have a lover, it is time to change the mode of getting along with friends of the opposite sex. Even if you are used to the way you get along with your friends, many things still need to be changed. Your other half is someone who will get along with you for life. When you have a deep relationship with a friend of the opposite sex, your lover will not say anything on the surface, but you may feel a little uncomfortable inside. Fourth, without discussing emotional issues, there will inevitably be disputes and quarrels between husband and wife. They often feel that the people they love don't understand them. At this time, they want to talk to someone. Actually, it's normal to chat with friends. However, if they often chat with friends of the opposite sex and are willing to support you, this relationship will gradually become very subtle. You will feel that your lover doesn't understand you, and it is better for this opposite sex friend to understand you. So the rift between husband and wife is easy to form. After marriage, men and women can't get along with the opposite sex in private as before marriage. Even in the workplace, keep a safe distance between men and women. Maybe you will feel that you have done nothing, just chatting with friends of the opposite sex, and you are not afraid of crooked shadows, but in the eyes of your other half, excessive intimacy will lead to misunderstandings between the two sides. It will also bring trouble to your life. Marriage may go through some ups and downs, because every move you make will affect each other's mood. Taboos for married women to get along with the opposite sex 3 The best distance for married men and women to get along with each other is to keep a sense of distance, not to steal the concept of love, not to throw herself at each other, and not to be easily deceived by language. There are many problems and troubles after marriage, and the pressure of work and family will make people feel bored. So some people will have a crooked mind, seek excitement, but feel that they should relax. This is a complete mistake and needs to be avoided. Loyalty to the family is the duty of married people, and it is also the duty we should perform after marriage. How should married men and women get along? 1. Meet and get approval. If your lover is not at ease with you, you should inform your lover before dating or meeting the married opposite sex, and then get the consent of the other party before meeting the other party, so as to avoid many family conflicts. 2. Bring your lover directly. If you are worried about your lover's doubts, you might as well bring your lover directly when you meet the married opposite sex, so that your lover will be at ease with you and each other. At the same time, the other person is also married, so I'm sure I can know the specific reasons why you did this, and I will understand you. 3. Open to each other. Married men and women should be honest with each other instead of sneaking around like thieves. After all, if you look like you're dating someone behind their back, it's easy to be suspected. It is better to tell the truth. After all, this is normal communication and there is nothing to be afraid of. Are married men and women pure in getting along? Normal working relationships and intimate friends are pure, while intimate relationships and flirting are impure. Everyone can't avoid communication with the opposite sex in life, which is part of normal social activities. The difference between married and single is the distance from the opposite sex. Keeping enough distance from the opposite sex is respect for each other, strict adherence to a clean life and loyalty to one's lover. But when you don't care about your identity and responsibility, you will have deviant behavior. Whether morally or legally, this is an unforgivable mistake. What should married men and women pay attention to when they get along? First, male and female friends other than husband and wife should not get along "one-on-one", that is, don't go out alone or be alone in a room, lest others gossip. Second, you can't flirt lightly. Once the number of times is too much, it will become a habit. If you make a joke twice, you will push your luck, so take precautions. Third, don't make faces. Because since both parties have their own marriages, they are neither lovers nor husband and wife, so don't flirt with each other, otherwise it will not only lose dignity, but also be thought-provoking. Fourth, it is not appropriate to whisper. This is the basic social etiquette. Usually in public, if two people often whisper to each other, it will arouse others' disgust, not to mention married men and women, which will arouse people's suspicion.