There is a kind of human nature called: I can't see how you are.

Use the simplest words to give you warmth, accompany you, lead you to grow and help you to be strong.

Once upon a time, you always foolishly thought that everyone around you was sincere to you and sincerely hoped that you would have a good life. However, when you have experienced something, you finally understand that the people who can't see you the most are often the people around you.

? You have become excellent, and you have become rich. Although they envy you, what they give you is not praise and blessing, but resentment and injustice. They have changed from being kind to being cynical, even pointing fingers at you behind your back.

At first, you thought you had done something wrong. Later, you found that your Excellence and wealth made them look unhappy. They can't stand that you are better than them, but they don't consider that you work harder than them.

The stronger you are, even if you do nothing, they don't like you and crowd you out in every way.

Sun Juan is a kind girl, and the happiness of her family makes her naive. She is not only kind, but also diligent, and has achieved excellent results since childhood. She is the "other people's girl" in the large population. In the face of her own Excellence and praise from others, she is never complacent, let alone get carried away, but remains modest while working hard.

It was not until she went to college that she saw human nature a little bit, and kindness began to have a sharp edge. When she was a freshman, she was loved by teachers and classmates because of her sweet appearance and good study, and many boys pursued her.

? She had a roommate who was jealous and started playing tricks on her behind her back. Always stealing from her when she is not looking; While she was unprepared, she secretly put diarrhea medicine in the cup. At first, she didn't doubt that it was her roommate. After all, we are usually talking and laughing together, and people are also very good. She never thought that her roommate would hurt her.

? Until one time, she came back from the bathroom and saw her roommate tampering with her water. At that moment, she flew into a rage and shouted, "What are you doing?" The roommate was shocked and instinctively hid his hand. Sun Juan stepped forward and grabbed her hand. He said to her, "Are you still human? Fortunately, we are still roommates. "

My roommate lowered his head and suddenly said indignantly, "Who made you grow up so well and study so well? Everyone likes you so much. I just want to be bad to you." At this point, the two people had a quarrel, and the students at the same level came to pull them away. I still remember a news that I went to the exam with people in the dormitory, and one of them couldn't find the admission ticket.

Later, it was found that someone in the same dormitory stole it, and it was not good for her to deliberately prevent her from taking the exam. Envy a person, it is easy to breed jealousy; Jealousy of a person can easily breed hatred, even distort nature, do some unnatural things, and even violate the law and crime, while harming others, it also harms itself. People around you, who were together, will instinctively think that you should like him.

? Once you surpass him, be better than him, be superior to him, it will breed his envy, jealousy and cruelty to you and become a secret enemy from now on. The people who can't see you the most are not people who have nothing to do with you, but often acquaintances around you. Seemingly good roommates or girlfriends, seemingly close blood relatives and seemingly perfect colleagues are the people who can't see you.

? One thing they have in common like that is hypocrisy. In the process of getting along with you, I wear a mask, often one on my face and one behind my back.

Such people want you to get worse and worse, to see you make a fool of yourself, to see you embarrassed, and to see you down and out. Keigo Higashino said, "There are two things in this world that you can't look directly at. One is the sun and the other is the human heart. " The greatest evil of human nature is being unkind to others. Even the people around you, some people expect you to be good, others expect you to be bad.

When you are excellent and rich, be careful of the little people around you. They may try their best to harm you and try to drag you down from a height. Being a man, you can't harm people, but you can't prevent them. We should be a kind person and not hurt others, but at the same time, we should be careful of others and be careful of being hurt by others.

Life is short, make more people who are sincere to you, stay away from those who can't see you at all, and know how to purify. In most people's minds, they hope that others will have a bad life, and those around them will have a worse life than themselves. Therefore, the only people who really want you to be well may be your parents and your children.

But, on the other hand, you can't stop trying because of the envy of others. You still have to be a better self, work harder for your life, and constantly become a better self.

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