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Men are worse off than women after breaking up.

Some feelings end in quarrels, some make people cry, some end in sex, and some even insult each other. Breaking up will be awkward anyway. Let's face it: some feelings are meaningless, and the end is to avoid more harm. Then, when the love ark meets an iceberg, who will handle it better? My answer is: women. Several studies show that after breaking up, men are more depressed, sad and anxious than women. Men want to give people the impression that they are strong, but they are actually very fragile. Believe me, I have read hundreds of letters from men asking how to win back their feelings. Here are the reasons why men can't handle breakups well.

Men hide their pain.

When a boy is dumped, his first reaction is: I won't let her know how painful I am. How did he do it? He went out to play with some friends. According to the survey of Men's Health Online, 26% of men will throw a dump party and get drunk after breaking up, but this is only a minority. 36% of men feel that they should see their new rights and thank the person who dumped him. In fact, these two reactions are masks to hide their true feelings. It doesn't help sadness and anger at all. Men have been grieving for their lost feelings, even after their abandoned parties. Women, on the other hand, will cry immediately after breaking up, to be honest. The study found that when women face a failed relationship, they will be very depressed at first, but they will soon get out of the shadows. Many men want to suppress their emotions, but they can't release their feelings.

Men have few friends.

One of the reasons why women recover faster than men after breaking up is that women have an amazing circle of friends. Research shows that men rely on love for emotional intimacy and social support, while women like to take family and female friends as the safest sustenance. Including mothers, sisters, friends, beauticians and drivers. No matter who the other person is, the more times she talks, the faster she will recover. On the other hand, men will behave as if nothing has happened and are not trapped by feelings. Six months later, when a man is willing to be honest about his feelings, all he wants is to go back to the girl.

It's hard for men to re-establish another relationship.

After breaking up, boys are excited at first and can date other women. But after three days, four days and dozens of days, they will realize that it will take a long time to feel as natural as their ex-girlfriend. According to a survey conducted by Carnegie Mellon University in the United States, girls are more adaptable to the end of a relationship because they have considered the possibility of breaking up. However, boys are not prepared. Emotional security cannot be the only reason to be together, which makes him realize how lucky he is to have her, and at the same time, she has left him. By the time he called and said she was drunk, it was too late to admit her feelings.

Men regard feelings as a game.

The breakdown of many relationships is a subconscious reaction, while men regard it as stagnation. They find it boring to go to the same restaurant, face the same person and have sex repeatedly. After breaking up, they will immediately find that being single doesn't mean champagne and half-naked beauty. Even in exciting bars, they feel close in the past. Research shows that women are always better at social, sexual and rational closeness. They tend to achieve lasting relationships based on family ties faster than men, rather than exciting.