Is it so important for a 29-year-old woman to have seven children in a row?

Is it so important for a 29-year-old woman to have seven children in a row?

Before writing this topic, I remembered a proverb? Times are different, men and women are the same. ? This is the slogan that our village played during the family planning period. This sentence means that it is not the old society now, and there should be no preference for sons over daughters.

However, many people, especially the elderly from rural areas, are influenced by traditional concepts, and the concept of son preference is deeply rooted, which will be difficult to change for a while. Not long ago, a 29-year-old woman even gave birth to seven babies on the Internet. After reading it, it was staggering. The reason why this woman has so many children is that all her previous children were daughters.

I remember when my uncle's cousin was born, my uncle said that my son and daughter are the same, and they both like it. But my grandmother said: It's different. ?

My uncle is a man who particularly values boys over girls, so he gave birth to three children in order to have a son, which violated the family planning regulations. Later, I paid a lot of fines.

Today, although the second child has been opened, there are still many families with two daughters who plan to have sons. Despite the great pressure of life at present, in addition to mortgage and car loan, they have to deal with various beginnings in life, but they still have not stopped these people from having three children and having sons.

Of course, some people are more open-minded and don't care much about having boys and girls. For example, our neighbor gave birth to two daughters, but we don't plan to have another boy. It's not that their family's economic conditions don't allow it, but that they really look down on it.

Besides, there are several cousins in my aunt's family who are indifferent to having boys and girls. Although my uncle is seriously patriarchal, my cousin doesn't like him. Cousin and cousin are both civil servants, and their family conditions are OK. Even if they encourage a second child now, they have no intention of having only one daughter.

Therefore, everyone has different ideas and views on this matter, which determines how many babies there will be at home in the end.

And like those who seriously prefer boys to girls, these people like their sons, but in fact, they care too much about face. Especially when many people chat together and talk about their families, it is very sensitive to have a son at home.

Of course, with the rapid development of science and technology, the times are constantly improving. People in many big cities have gradually put down this patriarchal thinking, which has led to polarization. Big cities often don't care about these things, but the farther you go to the county or township, the more prominent your thoughts are.

On the one hand, big cities have a fast pace of survival and great pressure. Some newlyweds can't afford to buy a house, so they can only rent an apartment near their workplace. For them, owning their own house is a great luxury. At this time, they don't even dare to have a baby. How can they have the courage to have a second child?

Relatively speaking, the pressure in cities and towns is much less, and the traditional thinking is more serious. Therefore, most people who want to have a second child and pursue their sons are urban people. For these people, having a son is not necessarily important, but they can't stand the way others look at them, so they are on the road to having a son for the sake of so-called face.