Can women recruit sons-in-law?

There are generally two kinds of people who ask their daughters to find a son-in-law. One is to let the child take his surname and call him grandpa, and tell others loudly that this is my grandson when he takes it out.

One is that she doesn't want her daughter to be wronged by marrying someone else. She wants to be with her and her parents can take care of her.

Different situations are analyzed in different ways. Our family is the first. I made it clear to my dad. First, I won't stay in the countryside to farm. I will work outside all my life. Secondly, I will buy a house in the city in the future. When you are too old to walk, you can either live with us in the city or go to a nursing home in the countryside by yourself. I won't abandon my children and go back to my hometown to take care of you day after day. I've waited for you for a hundred years, and I won't come back here. Whether I get married or recruit a son-in-law, what matters is only the number of times I come back to see you and my happiness in the future.

Don't think that you don't have to be angry with your husband's family if you don't get married. I tell you, if you are angry with your husband's family, you can also go to your mother's house to complain and recruit a son-in-law. You are more angry with your parents and your husband. Who will you complain to then? Looking for mother-in-law

I have a son-in-law and will live with my parents for the first few years. There will inevitably be some quarrels between husband and wife, right? It is inevitable that there will be times when husbands and parents don't like it. Guess who your parents would say at that time? It's you, it's you or you!

If you quarrel, your parents will say you. Ignore him. What if you drive people away? Do you take care of your children to support your family alone? Therefore, you should put up with the quarrel between you, even if it is his fault.

If he quarrels with his parents, no matter who is right or wrong, both sides must be at fault, and the boy will feel very uncomfortable, but your parents will hold you back and let you tell me where he has gone too far. Are you old at this time? Just like a married girl living with her mother-in-law, there will always be arguments. At that time, boys were caught in the middle, and girls were caught in the middle when recruiting sons-in-law.

It is not recommended to recruit a son-in-law who has no wit. Even if your marriage is unfortunate in the future, you dare not tell your family, because they will say you are wrong. It's no use talking. Parents won't think they hurt you. What do you expect him to figure out at 50 and 60?