May you be more calm and calm in this complicated world

Text/Lin Jiangyingyue

01.

Walking in the noisy and chaotic world, experiencing the ups and downs of life, the years not only engrave the vicissitudes It's on people's faces, and it's engraved in people's hearts.

I have gone through the high-spirited boyhood of "I was just a classmate and was in my prime", and also the passionate youth of "In today's world, who else would I be?", inadvertently, I have come to The autumn of life when things are clear and you feel your destiny.

Although the heart cannot be as calm as still water, people have become much thicker and calmer. There is less restlessness in the mood and more tranquility. There is less arrogance in the expression and more peace in life. There is less fantasy and more reality, the person is less angular and more rounded, the character is less assertive and more restrained. Suddenly, I realized that calmness is the best state of life.

This kind of calmness is the magnanimity and magnanimity after experiencing hardships and vicissitudes, and it is also the calmness and calmness after going through ups and downs and ups and downs. This kind of calmness is the lack of seeking and self-sufficiency of "the great beauty of the world without saying anything", the detachment and peace of "being indifferent to clarify one's ambitions, and the tranquility that leads to the distance", and the open-mindedness of "looking back at the bleak place where there was no wind, rain or sunshine" and detachment; it is the spontaneity and freedom of "picking chrysanthemums under the eastern fence, leisurely seeing the Nanshan Mountain"; it is the calmness and Zen of "walking to a waterless place, sitting and watching the clouds rise".

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It manifests itself as an attitude: don’t be arrogant when you win, don’t be discouraged when you lose, don’t judge a hero based on success or failure, do your best to obey destiny, and have peace of mind;

It manifests itself as a kind of demeanor, being relaxed and calm when dealing with problems, not being impatient or impatient, treating others with kindness and restraint, and being obedient and steady. Don't do to others what you don't want others to do to you;

It manifests as a kind of cultivation, being kind and generous, tolerant and generous, open-minded, plain and restrained. Don't be happy with things, don't be sad with yourself;

It manifests itself as a kind of strength. Facing the chaos and noise of the outside world, it is calm and perseverant. Winds from southeast to northwest".

03.

Calmness is not indifference, it is looking at all the glitz and glamor of the world with a cold eye and maintaining a quiet and peaceful life. Don't be arrogant when you are proud, and don't be depressed when you are frustrated. It is the calm and calm determination cultivated in the experience of life;

Calmness is not weakness, it is the state of being open-minded and humble, and it is the embodiment of calmness, maturity and self-confidence. As the saying goes, "The benevolent do not worry, the wise do not be confused, and the brave do not fear";

Calmness is not stupidity, it is the awakening after experiencing all the vicissitudes of life and the calmness of understanding. It is the interpretation of great wisdom as if it is foolish to be confused. It is a kind of great wisdom that I cherish from the perspective of watching fire from the other side, watching others busy and chasing others.

Calmness is a kind of ability. Calmness is a kind of accumulation. Calm people know how to filter out troubles and worries. As the saying goes, nine out of ten things in life will be unsatisfactory. In other words, only two out of ten things will go well. However, a calm person will "always think about one or two, but not about eight or nine". What he sees in his eyes is the scenery of the world and the beauty of life. .

In fact, people do not need much. Although it cannot be compared to Yan Hui's "one basket of food and one ladle of water is enough", simple life is the most flavorful. "A benevolent person enjoys picturesque mountains, and a wise person enjoys boundless water. A glass of wine calmly and a cup of tea in an ordinary way." In the end, I came naked and left naked, unable to take anything with me.

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It is not easy for a person to go through this world, so don’t make it too difficult for yourself. You should learn to enjoy life, not ask for things that don’t belong to you, and don’t force yourself to do things beyond your capabilities. Some desires can be suppressed, some disputes can be compromised, some people can be alienated, some things can be dispensed with, and some words can be disdained...

If you deserve it, fight for it with all your heart and effort. If you don't deserve it, look at it. , just think about it, there is no need to go to all the trouble. I am lucky to get it, but I am not lucky to get it.

Of course, being calm does not mean pursuing nothing, being passive and deliberately indulgent, nor is it self-enclosed and self-admiring.

Calm people care more about inner abundance. No matter how busy they are, they must learn knowledge. They do not seek to be proficient in chess, calligraphy, and painting, nor do they seek to be rich in knowledge. They only seek to enrich their own connotations, be more refined, and less philistine. Learn to build a rich and noble spiritual world and make your life more poetic and warm.

Lin Jiang Yingyue, Class 3, Camp 1, Qiyue Dream Community, Week 47, Part 2, 140 articles in total

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