Talk about chronic temper

I started camping, but I don't know where to start. I feel that I have no direction, and I don't know if I am eager for success.

As a matter of fact, I have been learning slowly.

Of course, there are advantages to being slow.

I think people who are slow to respond are more stable. For example, if they do something, they will study it repeatedly in their minds. How to do it from beginning to end? What problems may be encountered? How to deal with the problem? How to solve it? What are the details that must be done strictly according to the requirements? Anything can save time and effort, speed up, and do anything.

If you think it over, you will get twice the result with half the effort when you do it.

Don't be impatient, just do it when you get it. Maybe you haven't even thought about the key points clearly, or you still have a little knowledge of how to do it. If you try to solve the problem, it will delay time, affect efficiency and even affect your mood. Or in an unexpected situation, you may be caught off guard when you are unprepared.

Give a simple example: warehouses often pile up goods, and impatient people take them away and put them away. It looks fast and efficient. But sometimes you may need to rework in the middle. The correct way is: first, how many pieces are there in this batch? How many floors are you going to build? How many pieces do you put on each floor? Be aware that. Planned superposition, although it may be slower at first, will save time and effort.

Also, speaking slowly can be more comprehensive. Especially in crowded places, most people who are slow to respond are talking at the back. Only in this way can we listen to other people's opinions and have a reference. Second, we have more time to think, and we can consider it more maturely and summarize it more comprehensively.

Speak slowly and there will be room for thinking. Sometimes when we speak too fast, we feel that our tone is too strong or our opinions are wrong as soon as we speak. For chronic patients, thinking while talking, word for word, not dragging their feet, can leave room for consideration, or change opportunities.

For example, a girl wearing beautiful new clothes one day makes people feel bright at first sight. I blurted out, "Hello …" I wanted to say sexy, but in the middle, I didn't think it was appropriate. I don't know this girl very well, and she doesn't like joking. This may cause embarrassment. When I think about it, what I said becomes "You are so happy".

Girls may smile and ask, "Why are you happy?" In fact, she is happy to ask this question. So we can talk.

Of course, I am not advocating chronic diseases here. Chronic diseases also have many shortcomings. Most chronic patients have procrastination, and later things may accumulate more and more, or they may give up slowly and become lazy. Slow response has almost become a habit. In case of emergency, the response is not so fast, giving people the impression of not being active or enthusiastic.

For example, when a friend is in trouble or unhappy, the first person to come forward to comfort and help will definitely be warmer and easier for friends to remember. Although chronic people are also very enthusiastic and sincere, they just don't express it so quickly.

Sometimes even miss the opportunity. Sometimes some opportunities are fleeting, so we have no time to hesitate. When you think about it slowly, maybe the daylily is cold.

I still envy those who are impatient. They are smart, wise, responsive and decisive.

Whether you are impatient or slow, as long as you treat others sincerely, do things sincerely, be fair and sunny, be positive and optimistic, you will have more and more friends and your road will be wider and wider.

After talking for a long time, I suddenly felt that I was not a chronic patient. I belong to the kind that is half a beat slower than others. Even if others are on the road, I am on the road. Others have reached the other shore, and I am still on my way.

In fact, I want to say, 365 extreme challenge, I have been on the road!

Day 2 of 365 Extreme Challenge Camp without Ring