What etiquette should you pay attention to when offering tea to your elders?

I don't know if you have noticed that as the most important part of the wedding ceremony, offering tea to parents and then calling them parents, such a seemingly simple part actually contains a lot of knowledge.

Remember to pay the change after the couple offers tea to their elders.

Choice and posture of tea set when offering tea to newcomers.

Therefore, today, Sister Xixi will talk about the matters needing attention when offering tea according to the actual situation of the couple's wedding.

After all, the bride and groom, as their daughter-in-law/son-in-law, always want to show their decency when they offer tea to their parents-in-law/parents for the first time. How to say tea, how to prepare tea set, you need it very much.

First, don't use these tea sets.

Tea has various types and styles. Improper selection and collocation of tea sets may make you lose face unintentionally.

For example, in Kevin Yan's works, white cups are used to make tea at the wedding, but Sister Xi does not advise the bride to learn. On this festive wedding day, the existence of white in the eyes of some elders is unlucky.

Disposable double happiness paper cups are very popular in the bridal circle, suitable for many people to pour water on the wedding day. If you give this tea to your parents, it will be a little disrespectful to your elders.

It is best to use a tea set with a lid. The number of cups is arranged according to the number of elders present on both sides. Tell the elders in advance how to use a cup of tea set, and don't drop the cup.

In addition, the design and color of tea sets should avoid such patterns as Shouzi, Dulong and Song Qing Bai Cui. , and it is best to be simple but elegant or festive monochrome.

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Second, the content of tea worship

Tea, the essential material for tea worship, is not clearly defined when choosing. It is generally safer to choose Tieguanyin, Pu 'er and other teas to worship your parents.

Different from drinking tea at ordinary times, wedding tea will add some' necessary' materials, such as red dates and lotus seeds.

Jujube symbolizes good luck, early birth of your son, and lotus seeds symbolize marriage.

Folklore emphasizes that red dates cannot have pits, because pits are seeds and represent future generations; Don't cut, let alone peel, the lotus seeds must be intact, because cutting in half means separation.

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