I have always been a good person, and I often sacrifice my time for the benefit of my friends. Even if my friends need to borrow money urgently, I have no money to borrow it myself.

1 There is something wrong with your thinking. It should be a pleasure for you to help others. Don't think about who owes you. Mix some water.

You are too kind to refuse at the right time, but simply compromising others' character will inevitably bring a lot of trouble to yourself and others.

I can see that my buddy is very kind, enthusiastic and willing to help others.

The suggestions are as follows:

First, become independent and learn to control some things by yourself. Second, learn to refuse. You must refuse when it is time to refuse. The definition of "three good people" is not adulterated with anything bad. They are willing to pay instead of involving interests.