The ancients said: Enemies in the past life are father and son in this life.

The ancients said: Enemies in the past life are father and son in this life. It is a metaphor that the son in this life is collecting debts from his father. In the previous life, he was an enemy and he is here to collect debts in this life.

The sharp opposition between father and son is explained by fatalism. Father and son were enemies in the previous life and will continue to fight in this life. In the eyes of a father, his son is the continuation of his life and the inheritance of his thoughts. As a successful father, he always hopes that his son can inherit his father's career; but as a father who feels that he has failed, he will unconsciously impose his unfinished ideals and ambitions on his son, dreaming that his son can help He goes to achieve it. However, as a son, he has lived in a different era and social environment from his father since he was a child. He must have an independent mind. According to developmental psychology, a son should eventually be rebellious and break away from his father's control in order to grow on his own. Therefore, From this point of view, the confrontation between father and son is inevitable. It cannot be said that father and son were enemies in the past life, but if the relationship is not handled properly, they will really become enemies in this life.

However, for children who grow up in an environment full of father's love and encouragement, their father is their role model. They have a strong sense of security, are confident and sunny, have the courage to try and break through, and often have more success. High ceiling. In this way, father and son are not enemies in the past life and enemies in this life, but can treat each other well and achieve each other's success.