Classic discourse on the defense of love

1. People all have a certain nature, greed and vanity. Greed is wanting to get more, and vanity is fearing that others will know that they get less. But in a certain sense, this kind of sexual nature has also made many people's lives successful, and of course it has also destroyed many people's lives. In the midst of achievements and destruction, how many people have become heroes, and how many people have sacrificed for it.

2. It is right for a man not to give up because of his principles. For these other small things, do not treat them as such big things in life, and do not completely lose sight of the watermelons and sesame seeds.

3. We have to tell the truth, but if the truth is only half told, it is a big lie.

4. Sometimes, you are misunderstood and you don’t want to argue, so you choose to remain silent. Not everyone needs to understand you, so you think there is no need to shout to the whole world. But sometimes, you are misunderstood by the person you love most, and you are so sad that you don't want to argue, so you can only choose to remain silent. The whole world can not understand you, but he should understand. If he can't understand, what else can he say? There are often moments in life when even Schubert is speechless. After all, not all right and wrong can be clearly defined, and there may even be no real right and wrong at all. So, if you don’t want to talk, just don’t. When talking more is useless, maybe silence is the best explanation.

5. In fact, life is about pursuing maximum happiness in constant compromise, trade-offs and giving up.

6. People who keep talking about borrowing money have no self-esteem; people who always talk about breaking up have no true love.

7. When you hit the bottom of your life, everyone around you tells you: Be strong and be happy. Strength is absolutely necessary, but happiness? In this case, I'm afraid it's too difficult for you. After all, who can still feel happy when they fall to pieces? But at least you can be calm. Look at this matter calmly and deal with other matters that need to be dealt with calmly. Peaceful, without happiness or unhappiness.

8. Two people whose lifestyles are closest to each other are the most stable when they live together.

9. In fact, the most painful thing in the world is not that you can’t be together when you love each other, but that you only find out after falling in love for a long time that the other person doesn’t love you at all. This is not the best thing. The most painful thing is that the other person not only If I don’t love you, I will always take advantage of you.

10. People who don’t know how to refuse will be easily despised while having good popularity.

11. If a woman wants to manage a man, she must first impress him. To impress a man, she must first make him feel guilty.

12. People with eyesight tell lies, people without eyesight tell the truth, and smart people mix truth and lies!

13. If a man often uses his pettiness to doubt the other party, he can only forcefully push the woman into the arms of other men.

14. Love is never something you pray for, and chasing it is not a business.

15. If you love, please love deeply, if you abandon, please completely, don’t play ambiguously, hurt others and yourself, do it and cherish it!

16. When someone humiliates you, learn to endure the humiliation and bear the burden, but do not retaliate, because in the end you will know how difficult it is to fight for dignity, and how happy you will be when you get dignity! But when you are waiting for an opportunity to retaliate, you will not have the second feeling except the instant pleasure of stepping on it! On the contrary, if you can be tolerant to others after success, you will gain double happiness!

17. In love, if you bear too much or give too much, it will be a tragedy; if you bear too much, it will be a debt; if you give too much, it will be heartbreak!

18. In a certain period of life, a person should make three choices: one is what you can do; the other is what you can do; and the other is what you should do. The person who chooses what to do should be a person who follows the rules. The person who chooses what he can do is the person who knows himself. The person who chooses what to do is a person who makes rational choices. Among the top ten people on the Forbes list, there are many rich people who did not originally want to be rich. Some want to be poets, some want to be musicians. But in the end, they discovered a truth: what they are good at is often what they don't like, and what they don't like is often what they are good at. Therefore, after many people create their own careers, they silently keep their dreams in their hearts.

19. It is selfish behavior to deprive the other party of the right to share the joys and sorrows with you.

20. While some people are born with something, we have to struggle for decades to have it. But there is one thing that you will never have in your life, that is, we once had nothing.

21. When people are in adversity, they will think, why am I always the unlucky one? But when life is in good times, few people ask themselves why am I the lucky one? This is human selfishness.

22. A man is most likely to cheat when he is most frustrated, because at this time he is very confused. He really needs a woman who can firmly support him and help him. Does he love this woman? Love is not important, the key is that this woman can recognize his value.

23. A man’s responsibility to a woman is to rely on him for life. He often holds his woman in his arms like a daughter and hugs her tightly. You will feel all the responsibilities of a man!

24. Love is the end of friendship, and friendship is the prelude to love! Friendship can be converted into love, but love cannot be converted into friendship! People are emotional animals, and it is human nature to not be able to help themselves. But before the ambiguity and betrayal happened, everyone said that I could not help myself, but then it became an excuse! Determine your role and abide by your role. This is the wisdom of love!

25. If you can’t get what you love, love what you get, but don’t provoke those you don’t love! You get something without asking for it, and often you don't get it when you ask for it. You have to fight for the inevitable, but also let nature take its course!

26. Walking in the forest, you see a vine clinging to a tree trunk. The softness and solidity are intertwined. You are moved by this quiet and beautiful scene. Let happiness and belonging stop here. you think. I wonder what kind of ups and downs the future will bring? Maybe the vines will break and the trees will fall. Maybe the sky will be barren and the earth will grow old. You think again. So, please stop time at this moment. Stopping is eternity. If there is this quiet and beautiful moment in eternity, all kinds of disasters that may be encountered in the future will have been comforted and rewarded.

27. When kindness encounters evil, kindness must be hurt first! Therefore, we must be evil and good people, so that we can protect the people we want to protect!

28. What you like may not be what you are good at, and what you are good at may not be what you like. When you find that you are not good at this thing, you have to work hard to think clearly: What should I do? What can I do? What can I do?

29. Truth is a kind of moral character, but truthfulness does not mean that you should not be polite. People must be consistent in what they say, but the prerequisite is a tolerant heart.

30. There is nothing wrong with vanity, but it should not be extravagant; there is nothing wrong with being thrifty, but it should not be spent without money...

31. The most painful thing in life is never having a light. Light up for you, there will never be a door open for you, there will never be anyone waiting for you.

32. If your relatives oppose your love, if you want to gain their blessing, you must first gain their respect; to gain their respect, you must first respect yourself.

33. The life of a couple with short-term parents is to maximize happiness in the process of exposing problems and solving them.

34. We will meet many people in our life, but there is only one person who will really accompany you to the end, and the others are passers-by.

35. In love life, the person who bears all the pain alone is the stupidest person, because you simply question your partner and he cannot bear it with you, and you also Deprive him and you of the right to bear those responsibilities together. I really appreciate those couples who have discussions and discussions. Maybe they often quarrel, but that is real life. Real life should be together. In the face of it, both men and women advance and retreat together, not to mention your boyfriend.

36. Many times we envy each other. However, if you really open the cover page of everyone's heart, you will find that we all live very helplessly. When you don't understand love, Sometimes, love passes you by. When you get married and start a business, you suddenly find a real person waving to you.

Many times we take the wrong path but cannot look back. We choose a career but find that it is not what we love. We are born in wealth and want to experience the satisfaction of the poor. We are born in poverty but do not know the troubles of the rich. We often dream, but we always Difficult to wake up, often fantasies are always hard to realize, often complain, but always don't work hard, often plan, but never have the courage to practice, don't like studying, but have to run for a diploma, don't like sports, But it’s hard to bear the fat on the body, and I don’t like talking, but I have to promote myself. Life is actually like this. It’s a pity that we who can’t afford to die must live strong. Since everyone is helpless, let’s let each other be helpless and see who is the one. Being able to live a more wonderful life in helplessness. When people come into this world, aren't they just competing with each other to see who can bear more?

37. For a man, there are three most important women in his life. They are mother, wife and daughter respectively. The mother gives him life, the wife accompanies him throughout his life, and the daughter is the continuation of his life. It would be incomplete without any part of it.

38. You are unhappy today because someone stabbed you with words. You don't like quarreling, so you leave; but you just leave that person, but you don't leave the situation of being hurt by that person, so you get angrier and angrier. The more angry you are, the less energy you have to care about other things. Many things that should be dealt with more seriously are ignored, ignored and omitted in the midst of your overwhelming confusion. Because, you are just single-mindedly angry. Making a fuss about emotions is a waste of yourself, and it is a very bad waste. After all, being angry also takes effort, and being angry will definitely damage your vitality. So, if you are as smart as you are, don’t let your emotions control you. Before you get angry again, you might as well remind yourself softly: “Don’t waste it.

39. First, you have no wrong thoughts. ;Secondly, you don’t give others the chance to do anything they want.

40. Why does family violence cycle? That’s because men think that taking action can solve the problem, because the woman is there. I flinched under my fist, feeling that ** is effective under certain circumstances.

41. The greatest power of man is not creation, but introspection! If you cannot reflect on yourself, you cannot see your own mistakes. Even with extraordinary power, all he creates is to bury his own grave!

42. If a man does not have a true spiritual support, he will never be able to obtain true love and a happy life.

43. The value of a man is not to point fingers at a woman as an afterthought, but to make a woman feel at ease.

44. It is easy to die for a person, but for a woman. It is difficult to live alone.

45. Marry a domineering woman and you will become an educator; marry a eloquent woman and you will become a debater; marry an eccentric woman. You will become a thinker and marry a gentle and virtuous woman. In order to become a great writer, you will use the most beautiful words to record a happy life.

46. Forgiveness to those who hurt us is infatuation once and twice! It is tolerance, three times is a shame.

47. Reflect on your life three times a day, whether it is career or life, the same is true for love. When both parties are particularly impulsive, they can often gain something by calming down and introspecting. More effects.

48. Girls, don’t cry easily. People who care about you will feel sorry for you. People who don’t care about you won’t care even if you shed a river of tears.

49. It is a very cruel act to deprive the person you love of the right to love you. What you think is happiness cannot be his happiness; what you think is sadness is not necessarily his sadness.

50. I have been searching for a lifetime, but I have found an old friend. I have loved my life and death, but I have fallen in love with my enemy. It is not so much fate, but it is not my own fault. What I am doing today is If you had known the cause of yesterday, why bother in the beginning?

51. Women can be willful, but not wanton; they can be coquettish, but not arrogant.

52. At any age. The most basic thing between lovers who are very different is to use two things: the first is gratitude; the second is appreciation.

53. It is easy to lie, but it is not easy to remember the lies you have told! To lie to others, you must first lie to yourself. Now that you are immersed in it, how can you remember the logic in the lie?

54. In my opinion, the vanity of most modern people comes from hypocrisy, and hypocrisy comes from inferiority! Guys who are well-dressed and awesome in daily life are actually very panicked inside!

55. For any person or culture to be recognized and respected by people, the first thing is tolerance! On the other hand, when I was young, I was extreme and unruly. In fact, it was a manifestation of narrow-mindedness, but I still considered myself to be a personality. I expressed my true self on the basis of tolerance, performed truly on the basis of respect, and reflected on myself!

56. If you have never been in love, you don’t understand love; if you haven’t been frustrated, you don’t understand life! But there are people who have been broken up countless times, but still don’t understand love; they have been frustrated for half a lifetime, but still don’t understand life! Wrong is not necessarily your fault! However, if you make another mistake again and again, it is your fault. If things continue like this, you will only miss out because of your fault!

57. The spare tire must also conform to the size and brand, otherwise sooner or later the spare tire will become a waste tire. It is a bit too cruel to say this, but life is like this, garbage is sometimes misplaced talent, love Sometimes it’s just the wrong enemy! The preparation must be reasonable and reasonable to be valuable! When you give, you must have dignity and a bottom line, so as not to be looked down upon! The colorful world comes into view. This is the first step in life, seeing! Behind the complexity are rules. This is the second step in life, see through! Let nature take its course and be content with things. This is the third step in life. Take it easy!

58. When kindness encounters danger, who will be hurt? Be kind. So should we be good people or evil people? We need to be neither good people nor evil people. We want to be evil and good people.

59. People who often say they want to resign don't want to resign at all, but they want a higher salary; but to deal with people who often want to resign is to put them in the cold palace.

60. Humane people speak human words, inhumane people speak cliches, and inhumane people speak dirty words!

61. If you hurt her, you are hurting yourself. It's only four years, so you should give her four chances to speak!

62. When you don’t have the strength, if you want to give others face, it becomes an empty promise, and when you don’t have the strength, asking others to give you face becomes begging and pleasing. Face does not exist when it is not supported by strength. Because you have no lining.

63. When your husband changes for you, when he slowly changes his living habits for you, even if it is a small change, you must praise him.

64. After drinking a good wine until you are slightly drunk, when the beautiful flowers are half blooming, a smart woman should know how to stop.

65. Those who are good at talking about myths, those who are not good at talking nonsense, and those who are half full of water talk about stupid things!

66. Whether a woman is beautiful or not does not depend on whether you are beautiful in the eyes of others, but on whether you are beautiful in the hearts of others.

67. Don’t regard the other person’s love for you as an excuse for not working hard, and don’t regard the other person’s love for you as a reason to ask for something.

68. If a person can hide his true emotions, society will give him generous rewards! Hiding is to be betrayed at any time. Although it seems despicable, if you can persist in it, it can be regarded as a life choice, and there is even a trace of sadness! I'm just afraid that if I hide my true feelings and my true intentions, I will show my cowardice and my dreams will come to nothing in my life!

69. I married you because I love you and want to take care of you! I leave you now because I love you and want to give you freedom! This is a passage written by a woman when she was divorcing her cheating husband. She was deeply in love and infinitely tender, but she was hopeless, hopeless and heartbroken! Why do infatuated and heartless women and long-lasting and passionate men end up like this? cherish!

70. Although marriage is a reality, remember firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea. Why does tea come last? Because although the first six are realistic, tea still requires freshness and elegance in your life to adjust a certain amount of spiritual life.

71. The most painful thing in life is not being able to tell who truly loves you.

72. There are three types of love between men and women. The first type is that he does not necessarily love the other person, but he must ask the other party to love him unconditionally; the second type is that he loves each other and treats each other sincerely; the third type is that he loves each other and treats each other sincerely; Kind of, he doesn't care whether the other person loves him or not, he must love the other person unconditionally, even if he is deeply hurt and cries miserably.

73. Why does domestic violence cycle? That's because domestic violence plays a role. The man feels that using his hands can solve the problem, because the woman shrinks under her fist and feels that sex is effective under certain circumstances.

74. If you love, please love deeply; if you leave, please love thoroughly; if ambiguity harms others and yourself.

75. The circle you choose is the life you choose! If you are surrounded by harmony and happiness, your family and people will naturally be prosperous! Divorce is everywhere around you, so naturally you are ready to take action! Choosing friends is the first step in life. Although birds of a feather flock together, there is no need to follow the crowd!

76. Some people are good at managing money, but they are exhausted mentally and physically. Some people are good at relaxing, but they will be poor all their lives! Is there anyone who is both rich and comfortable? If so, I would like to give it a try. Integrating resources is a lifelong job!

77. Sometimes breaking up is like a knife. If you say it once, it is equivalent to cutting someone else once. It is no different from Ling Chi's execution.

78. If a person can’t do it for you, it’s yours, and what’s mine is mine. Even more so, what he can’t do for me is yours, and what’s yours is mine. In the end, it can only be you. What's mine is mine, what's mine is still mine.

79. I think the biggest problem between you is that boys don’t trust each other, while girls don’t talk to each other.

80. When it comes to dealing with problems between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, the smart husband hides the issue from both sides, while the stupid husband spreads the word from both sides.

81. If you can’t get what you love, love what you get, but don’t provoke what you don’t love.

82. What you like may not be what you are good at, and what you are good at may not be what you like. When you find that you are not good at this thing, you have to work hard to think clearly: What should I do? What can I do? What can I do? Selfish behavior.

83. When you encounter a problem, please face yourself and correct yourself to solve the problem!