Go back to your alma mater and walk the red carpet.

With the improvement of living conditions, people's quality of life is getting higher and higher. From solving the problem of food and clothing in the past to now, I want famous brands, so I have become more competitive. Some parents have won at the starting line for their children since childhood. In addition to giving them interest classes and cram schools, they will also give their children high-end kindergartens.

I saw a video on the internet that a kindergarten was holding a graduation ceremony, but this graduation ceremony was different from the general graduation ceremony. This graduation ceremony is very luxurious and grand. First of all, it was held in a five-star hotel. Another activity of graduation ceremony is to walk the red carpet. In the video, you can see many parents dressed up for this red carpet event.

Some parents dressed in suits and ties, and the whole family dressed up beautifully and led their children down the red carpet. Some parents even bought a dress for their children's graduation ceremony from a private tailor, which looked very imposing. But some parents and families are not rich, just look at the back.

This video became popular on the Internet, and many netizens commented after seeing it:

Many parents just have the psychology of keeping up with the joneses. Everything is better than this, which is very bad for their children. So, what harm do parents do to their children?

1, projected on children, children also become a comparison.

Parents have the psychology of keeping up with the joneses, so it is the children who have the greatest influence. Children will think that their parents' comparison is right, so they will also develop a comparative psychology and compare everything with others.

2. Children feel inferior

Parents' comparison will make children fail to meet their parents' requirements and will never be treated well, which will make children feel inferior and is extremely unfavorable to their growth.

3. The father-son relationship is incompatible

Parents' comparison will make children feel that their parents love other people's children and do not love themselves, which will lead to children's lack of love. It is very bad for a child to lack love. If children don't feel the love of their parents, the relationship between parents and children will go further and further, which will eventually lead to discord between parents and children.

It is very undesirable for parents to compare, and the harm to children can be said to be very great. So, how should children educate their parents?

1, guide children

Children's comparison psychology has a great influence on the family. The most basic thing is that it will increase the financial burden of families and lead to financial difficulties for parents. Therefore, parents must promptly guide their children to quit the comparison psychology.

2. Reasonable selection of comparison objects

Children like to compare. Parents can reasonably choose to transfer their children's comparison objects, let their children compare with children who are better than themselves, and aim at excellent children. Then children's comparison will bring many benefits to their children.

Adults or children are less desirable than themselves. Parents should educate their children not to compare with others in life, so as to avoid the danger of arrogant comparison.

So how do you view the topic of how children should educate their parents? If you have some good ideas or suggestions, you are very welcome to leave your comments in the comments section.