My sister's words stimulated me, but they hurt me. What should I do?

Blame and abuse from close people often do more harm than strangers. From your description, I saw a little girl who was hurt by verbal violence in front of her sister. So you think it's normal to be stabbed, and it hurts. Let's take a look at it first. What's the biggest harm my sister said to you? What is your biggest feeling in the face of your sister's accusation? In your heart, is it because of your sister's attitude and tone that you are hurt, or because of what her sister said?

Everything has two sides. We have seen the back of it, why not try to look at the other side? First of all, let's face what has happened bravely, don't escape, accept what has happened and accept the result now. Even if we have uncomfortable emotions, we should recognize our emotions and face up to the root of the problem-the choices we made and the consequences.

Then, let's look at my sister's behavior. From what we have seen and felt-my sister's behavior may not hurt and insult herself, or it may be useless or a joke in her eyes; But from another point of view, maybe my sister is kind at heart and always hates iron not to produce. I hope you can grow up and be independent. It's just that the methods are useless. Now she understands that maybe challenges can stimulate your little universe.

Thirdly, when we look at things, we always judge a thing or a person's thoughts by our own intuition or feelings, and we always ignore the method of looking at problems from multiple angles, so don't go all the way black. Think about what you think in your heart and find opportunities to communicate with your sister. I believe that when you are willing to open your heart to her, as a relative, she will also be willing to listen and treat you sincerely. Give yourself a chance and give others a chance to get to know you.

Finally, I hope you don't get stuck in the uncomfortable mood before, and you can get the sincerity and care of your loved ones. I can also make myself positive and full of good mood in my later life.