Fan Zhiyi doesn't accept her daughter to rent a house to get married. Is it important to have a house?

Fan Zhiyi, a famous football player, made a speech in the variety show "My Daughter's Boyfriend", saying: "It is a matter of principle not to accept my daughter's renting a house to get married."

When the speech came out, it caused discussion among netizens. Some people agreed and some people opposed it. Even the guests present, Felix Wong Yat Wa and Qin Pei, said: Hong Kong housing prices are too expensive, and many young people simply can't afford it, or even give up the idea of buying a house. It is normal to rent a house and get married in Hong Kong.

And Fan Zhiyi's daughter Fan Sijing is in love with Lin Yuhang. Lin Yuhang said that Shanghai's housing prices are too high, and the current strength is not allowed. He wants to rent a house for the transition.

In fact, as the post-85 s and post-90 s, it is normal to rent a house and get married. There is nothing to be surprised about. After all, the housing prices in Beijing, Guangzhou and Shenzhen are not generally high.

Just like the new veil, 13 and her boyfriend came to Shenzhen from Guangzhou. I rented a room less than 20 square meters and lived in Curie for four years. Married, had children, scrimped and saved, and worked hard for five years before buying a second-hand house with all my savings. The old people on both sides don't have a dime. I started from scratch.

Is it difficult? What did you say?/Sorry?

Are you asking me about injustice?

I want to answer you like this: When you set a goal, you won't feel wronged when husband and wife Qi Xin work together towards that goal.

TVB likes to use a line: Husband and wife Qi Xin, Duanjin.

To all struggling young couples. Young couples are most suitable.

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Let's discuss this topic again: do you have to have a house to get married? If you can't afford a house, can you just break up? Is it shameful to rent a house and get married?

In fact, according to the new veil, it is best to have a room for marriage. As Fan Zhiyi said, a house is a guarantee and a matter of principle.

The house is indeed the guarantee of life, not only for women, but also for men and marriage.

I talked about this question in the third article of the new column, 10 The truth that girls have to know before they get married. Do I have to buy a house before I get married? What's the difference between having a house before marriage and living without a house after marriage? I said two choices, two marriage modes.

If you have a house before you get married, you don't have to worry about raising the rent every month, and you don't have to move and live without a fixed place to save the rent.

You don't have to live with your in-laws, which can reduce the contradiction between your mother-in-law and your daughter-in-law.

Children can be born in a better environment, and school is guaranteed. Houses in the north, Guangzhou and Shenzhen generally have school districts or degrees, which saves N more troubles in going to school than parents who don't have a house.

There are still many benefits. Interested friends can read my column.

If you don't have a house before marriage, you may have to go through a long rental life. In order to save more money every day, you scrimp and save, and you can't bear to eat or wear. Just like when I rented a house, I couldn't bear to buy anything but necessities and dared not travel.

In order to save more money, my husband can not buy new clothes for several years. I don't want to buy him anything except clothes that I have to buy because I am worn out.

You may make yourself miserable, you may feel wronged, and then quarrel and complain with your husband, so the husband and wife have conflicts. If the conflict between husband and wife is not handled and escalated in time, marriage will easily turn red, and divorce is not impossible.

And now that the RMB is seriously devalued, the house is the best value-added product. If you can buy a house as soon as possible, the house price will only get higher and higher, not lower and lower.

Take the neighborhood where the new veil lives. Less than a year after moving in, the total price of the house has increased by 400 thousand. Pretty scary.

Marriage without a house, for women, is always hanging in their hearts, as if there is no stable home. Me too. I have been clamoring for a house before buying it, but I have no money. What can I buy? After buying a house, although the pressure is a little greater, at least life is stable, marriage is relatively stable, children have a place to play, and the growth environment is relatively comfortable.

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In fact, having said so much, I still want to make a point. It doesn't matter if you don't have the financial strength to buy a house before marriage. Women don't want to kill men with one pole. In fact, they are also uncomfortable. They also want to give their wives and children a stable and happy home, but they have to bow their heads in the face of cruel reality.

First of all, Fan Zhiyi doesn't accept the topic of her daughter renting a house to get married. It is also a reality that men can't afford a house. If the daughter really wants to get married, as a father, is there any financial strength to help?

For example, it is also a good choice for both men and women to buy a house together, and it is also a good choice to fill in the couple's names in the room book.

Can't afford to buy a house can't be regarded as an inevitable standard for a man to be reliable and worthy of marriage. It can only show that the man's current economic strength is relatively poor, which does not mean that he will be poor in the future, nor does it mean that his character is poor and other aspects are poor. As the saying goes, don't bully the poor.

Whether you can afford a house can only be used as one of the criteria to measure a man, not all.

If marriage is regarded as an investment, a potential stock man is also a good choice.

Take a long-term view, open your mind and measure whether a man is worth marrying. The most important thing is to see if he is self-motivated, has a sense of family responsibility and has a heart that loves you forever.

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Today's topic: What do you think of Fan Zhiyi's remarks that his daughter doesn't accept renting a house to get married? Welcome to discuss.