My daughter is nine and a half years old and has a very stubborn temper. Every time she loses her temper, she gets very violent and says she wants to die. Sometimes she even has thoughts of suicide, s

My daughter is nine and a half years old and has a very stubborn temper. Every time she loses her temper, she gets very violent and says she wants to die. Sometimes she even has thoughts of suicide, saying she wants to jump off a building or commit suicide.

In fact, my suggestion is to take her to see a psychiatrist. Teenagers generally have these phenomena. For example, when they encounter setbacks in life and do not receive timely care from friends at school [you should pay more attention to your children’s friendships at school] ] On the other hand, let the teacher give more greetings and care, because the children have a kind of resistance. They don’t know how to express their dissatisfaction, so they choose to express it in an extreme way and are ashamed to tell their parents about their own affairs, resulting in reluctance to speak, etc. Or is it that she has encountered something unpleasant or has a secret love recently [does not rule out the phenomenon of early love among children now]. Sometimes it is undeniable that at this time, parents should tell more jokes to their children and communicate with them in the tone of friends. If you have a temper, you don't need to control it. If you ignore it for a while, she will find it boring. Of course, it doesn't mean that you don't care at all, or is there something happening in the family recently that makes her feel pessimistic? As a parent, you should pay more attention to her inner world, just like going out for a walk, finding time to go shopping together, and then wait until she will say what is in her heart unintentionally. If she commits suicide, I often said that when I was a teenager, it would be too extreme, and she really needs to be disciplined in time, or tell her the story of Chicken Soup for the Soul [Chicken Soup for the Soul] at night.

I had such a situation when I was a teenager. In fact, sometimes it is okay to pretend to be real. If you pretend to be sick one day as if you can't take care of her, she will understand. Also, you can't pamper your children too much and criticize them harshly. Corporal punishment is still necessary, after all, he is so young and cannot continue like this.

I hope the suggestions are helpful to you.