A 36-year-old leftover woman got married at a classmate's wedding. Why does the bride slap the groom?

Really experienced a "marriage fight."

I have always believed that the marriage quarrel has a lot to do with the groom's family. If the groom's family declared from the beginning that they could not get married. If the groom's family saw the sign and stopped it immediately, then such an excessive thing would not happen.

I experienced a marriage quarrel. In order to get rid of us bridesmaids, the bride began to drink with those who had a marriage quarrel. And those who are married have embraced the bride in front of the groom. The groom doesn't mind at all. What is even more frightening is that when the bride refused to cooperate with the marriage, the man even said, "People have cooperated well. Why are you so ignorant?" If you do this, I will lose face. "

It really subverted all my three views at that time. Do people like him really know what face is? His bride went to cooperate with a strange man's marriage to save his face. Such a man is ignorant and stupid.

Yulan never dreamed that there would be such a thing as marriage when she got married. Her best friend attended the wedding as a bridesmaid. Her best friend is 36 years old and has never been married. Usually, she doesn't attend such occasions. However, Yulan is her best friend. Even if she doesn't like such an occasion, she still comes.

She said to Yulan, "How can I not come to your wedding? I must witness your happiness. "

Because of this friendship, Yulan repeatedly stressed to the man's family that to be kind to his best friend, he must not neglect others.

But she never expected that a group of noisy people came on her wedding day. Those people first invited her best friend to drink. She thought it was a big day, so she stopped drinking. Then they started looking for the shoes hidden by the bride.

Several men directly said, "The shoes must be hidden in the bridesmaid's skirt." . So they started looking for the bride's shoes. Yulan's best friend was scared at that time, crying and screaming. And Yulan was scared silly. After the reaction, she began to stop those people, began to scold, and even smashed the chairs.

Yulan's best friend was finally saved, but people were so scared that they just cried. Yulan was livid before questioning the man. The group of people began to boo: "just looking for a shoe, as for it?" We are all bridesmaids. "

Yulan went to find her man, and the man even smiled and explained to the married person: "She is from other places and doesn't understand our rules."

He said to Yulan, "Don't make her cry, the big day is hard. This is what we are doing. They dare not do anything. Why don't you two be sensible and cry? "

Yulan rushed up and slapped the groom in the face. She scolded, "you are shameless. They are shameless, and so are you. If you make trouble again, I'll leave at once. "

Yulan's wedding banquet broke up in discord. She stayed with her best friend until she was sent away. Her heart was full of guilt, and she didn't expect to put her best friend through such a bad thing.

She didn't burst out at the wedding reception because both relatives were there. She doesn't want her parents to be talked about. But when she sent her best friend away, she filed for divorce directly with the man.

She said: "They don't think they are wrong. Both male and female parents think this is normal. My best friend and I refused to do as the Romans do. "

She also told her parents the reason for the divorce. Her parents are not very supportive. They feel that things have passed and will not lead to divorce. And Yulan's best friend also called and said, "I don't want you to get divorced because I just got married."

Should women divorce because of such a "marriage"?

I want to say, what happened to the bride in this marriage I experienced?

She has been married for more than ten years and has given birth to four daughters. She has always wanted to have a son. That man insisted on being stupid and ignorant when he got married, and always felt that if a woman didn't give birth to a son for himself, he would never lift his head in his life.

And what my classmates often say is: "I have no feelings for men for a long time." Now I live for my children. "

I want to say this. When she got married, I knew she wouldn't be happy. Because having a husband who doesn't know how to protect his wife, sacrificing his own interests to please others and take care of his face, can't give women real happiness.

He is too selfish.

Whenever he thinks from a woman's point of view, whenever he can bear it, he will not abandon his wife for the sake of so-called face and so-called customs.

This thing is actually very simple, depending on the attitude of men. If both the man and his family don't think there is anything wrong with marriage and condemn your non-cooperation, please treat your marriage with caution.

Because this is a three-view disagreement. For the rest of your life, you will have many quarrels because of this inconsistency. Think about it, do you want to stick to such a "not very harmonious" marriage.

The funniest thing is that I heard that a man asked to divorce a woman because she didn't deserve to get married.

He feels that it is completely ignorant to ask women to do or not to do anything. He also said to the woman: "If you want to get married, get married. If the knot is not good, don't knot it. "

He said to his relatives at home, "It's a shame to marry such a daughter-in-law. What it's like to cry when you're married. On a big day, no one will be happy because of such a woman. How can she be so different? No one else is like this. "

If you meet such a man, if such a man abandons you, you should be grateful. Because such a man is too selfish to allow you to protect yourself.

When you get married, you don't have marital troubles. When my family got married, there were almost no marital troubles. Everyone is careful to safeguard the bride's happiness. Even the person in charge there will say, "No one is allowed to make trouble."

When the bride got married, everyone was happy. The bridesmaid blocked the door and asked for some red envelopes. The groom happily took the bride away.

Women are attractive guests when they go to their parents-in-law's house, but taking it seriously and standing on the bride's side will not support the so-called marriage.

What's more, marriage is a bad habit, but any reasonable person will think that what we should give to the bride and groom is blessing, not such embarrassment and humiliation.