Going home for dinner at the weekend and hearing my brother and sister-in-law quarreling at the door, what do you think of my marriage coming to an end?

Going home for dinner at the weekend and hearing my brother and sister-in-law quarreling at the door, what do you think of my marriage coming to an end?

My sister-in-law didn't go out to work because she was pregnant after she got married, and my brother stayed at home with her. Sometimes she helps with some farm work. All the expenses in the family are given by her parents. Seeing that two people have no income at home and the children are ready to give birth, there will be more places to spend money. My parents are going to buy a van for my brother and help others pull goods, so that I can earn more and my brother will take on the heavy responsibility of the family.

Later, my sister-in-law began to have a second child. Besides taking care of the children every day, she just helps with some housework, but it doesn't last long. She always hates the east and the west, often complains and quarrels with her brother, saying that he doesn't care enough about her and doesn't help her with housework, so she knows to drink with lonely friends, because the van driven by her brother often runs long distances, sometimes comes back in the middle of the night, and sometimes doesn't come back. She thought her brother was outside.

They often divorce, and their younger brother is stronger, so they don't quarrel with her every time they quarrel. This time it was particularly serious because she saw her brother's friend send a video of them playing in a bar in a circle of friends. In the video, she saw her brother and a woman playing cards, having a good time, with their hands on each other's shoulders. She immediately took a taxi to the scene and quarreled with her brother. And it is very serious, and the scene is unsightly. My brother was so angry that he went home to pack his things.

The next day, my sister-in-law sent a message to my brother saying that she would abort the child, and then they went through the divorce procedure. My brother began to worry and said that he would not agree to divorce, so he called me to ask what to do and asked me to help persuade him.

I'll tell him what you did. Why didn't you think of the consequences at first? Now that I'm pregnant, I have to take care of my children and do housework. Forget it if you don't help. Go out and have fun. Do you have time to go home with your children and wife? If you have some money, go outside to play. Do the wild flowers outside have the fragrance of flowers at home? I have always ignored my feelings and pointed out my brother's fault. He didn't say a word on the other end of the phone. He repeatedly assured me that it wouldn't happen again and that he would care more about his wife and children.

I called my sister-in-law for a long time to do ideological work. She gave up the idea of aborting the child and divorcing him, saying that only by looking at his performance can I forgive him.