Words from people who don’t know how to do things

There is nothing impossible in the world, only people who can’t do it. A person who knows how to do things can easily control life situations in complex environments, turn danger into good fortune, make the impossible possible, and finally achieve his or her goals. The key is to see what methods, techniques and means you use.

Those who are good at doing things will have smooth sailing and can handle all kinds of things perfectly; those who are good at doing things will always have smooth sailing in life and can achieve great achievements.

It is impossible for people to live without things, big things, small things, happy things, sad things, annoying things...these "everything is wrong" is not dependent on our will, we must face it, must be resolved. And if you want to solve some difficult things, you must learn to ask others for help. So, how do you ask for help?

There is nothing impossible in the world, only people who can’t do it.

First, get over the psychological barrier

Since you have to ask for help, it is better to ask for help confidently. You have to ask for help in a free and easy way, and you don’t need to be bluffing or talking nonsense. There is no need to be depressed, beg for mercy, and let others ridicule you.

Second, choose the best route and method

Nowadays, the professional division of labor is clear. Looking for people everywhere may not be able to get things done. You must find out the situation and find the right one who can help you. people.

Third, be patient

Asking for help from others does not necessarily mean that everything will fall into place. It is possible for the other person to be embarrassed, have a cold attitude or even express rejection. You must not As a result, I felt that I had lost face, been insulted, and lost my patience.

Fourth, understand others

Some people who ask for help always think that the person being asked for something must have great powers and can do anything with just a word of wisdom and a stroke of a pen. This is not the case. Everyone has their own difficulties. If you can share and understand these difficulties, you won't find it too difficult to ask for help.

There is nothing impossible in the world, only people who can’t do it.

Fifth, don’t have too high demands on others

Don’t chase after others to do things. You must ask others to achieve a certain level, otherwise you will feel that it is not interesting enough. In other words, you should be content when asking for help. Do as much as others can do, and don't force others to do difficult things. For example, when asking for help, you should start with the simplest thing. If you set a goal that is too high and makes it difficult for others, it is best to do the next best thing; if you fail to achieve the second best goal, then try again. Even if it is a little effort for others, you should cherish it very much. Yesterday when some of our friends were chatting, we accidentally came up with the topic of asking for help.

Some said: "I never like asking for help"; some said: "It is impossible to do things in today's society without asking for help." I agree with the latter statement.

There are too many helplessness in our real life, you have to ask for help. If you are an unemployed young man, you hope to find a satisfactory job; if you are an employee, you hope to be successful; if you are a patient, you hope that the doctor can treat you carefully; if you are in urgent need, I hope that you can Raising a sum of money...these many, big and small hopes constitute life. Life will force you to ask for help from others, and whether you can get "support" from others depends to a large extent on whether you have the skills and strategies to ask for help.

There is nothing impossible in the world, only people who can’t do it.

Some people frown when it comes to asking for help, and are even ashamed to tell others. They have a certain prejudice against asking for help, thinking that it must be groveling and condescending. In fact, this is not the case. Asking for help from others must be based on self-respect, self-respect, and self-love. Ask without being humble, and ask without relying on others. I believe that there are two basic principles that must be followed in order to successfully solicit help from others. First, be sincere and polite. As the saying goes, where sincerity leads to gold and stone, being polite to others is a prerequisite for success in asking for help; second. Avoid taboos. Everyone is wary of certain words and actions due to their different personalities and life experiences, so be sure not to offend them. "The Art of War" said: "Know yourself and the enemy, and you will never be in danger in a hundred battles." This sentence also applies to the skill of asking for help.

When we ask for something from someone, we might as well first do some reconnaissance on that person's hobbies, temperament, knowledge and experience, and then go there calmly. You will get unexpected results.

We sincerely ask for others, but it is not certain that others will be able to meet our requirements. When we are rejected, don’t get too hung up on the reasons. Indeed, it is very uncomfortable to be rejected, and everyone wants to know the reason. However, if you pursue the other party relentlessly and ask for the reason, it will often destroy the relationship between both parties. Don't be too insistent when you're asking for help. Since the other party has refused, there must be a reason. If you insist on your request too much, it will not only make it difficult for the other party, but also make you passive. There are many unsatisfactory things in life, so why bother worrying about trivial matters? After being rejected, you should be open-minded and unbiased.

When you understand the other person's refusal, you might as well interrupt the conversation yourself, simply say it doesn't matter, and then comfort the other person with a few words, asking him not to mind. The other party will feel sorry for you, and maybe he will take the initiative to help you in the future!

In life, there are both wind and rain and sunshine, so everyone needs the "help" of others. However, we must not kneel down when asking for help, but we must ask without being humble, and ask without relying on others. This is a perfect life without regrets!