Do I need to pay back the money I spent on my parents when I got married?

#Do I need to pay back the money I spent on my parents when I got married#

? Regarding the cost of marriage, I believe it is a big burden for people with average incomes. They even have to go into debt, so most of them have support from their parents. So the question is, should I pay back the part of my parents’ financial support?

I asked my friends and relatives around me and most of the answers were: "1. Why do my parents need to repay it? I don't need to pay it back by default; 2. They are also anxious about our marriage, otherwise I You can save enough money to get married and so on." Anyway, the summary is that there is no need to pay it back. Of course, this is only the opinion of a small number of people I collected.

? Next, let me talk about my personal opinion: I think it needs to be paid back. 1. We are adults with independent financial capabilities, and it is our own marriage; 2. Our parents are old and their financial income is definitely not much. This money must be their savings for many years, and they will have their own uses. ; 3. If there are younger siblings later, their parents will need to finance their marriage. Do your parents still have that much money? Even if this is the case, it will be a big burden for them. How can we shift our burden to our parents? I don’t think we should; 4. It doesn’t have to be repaid immediately, but we must consciously repay the money slowly. superior.

The above only represents my personal views. More friends are welcome to exchange opinions.