What is a woman who doesn't even want her own children?

A woman who doesn't even want her own children has three situations. One is that the mother-in-law won't let her daughter-in-law have children and won't let her come to see the children. This is a helpless move. One is that the woman gave up the custody of the child because she was unable to raise the child financially. And extremely selfish. Don't have children at the best age. Don't raise children, just enjoy yourself.

A friend I know is like this. His wife is a lazy person. After less than three years of marriage, he divorced when his daughter was less than three years old, because his salary was too low for her to eat and drink. Of course, my friend's mother also has something wrong, that is, if her son's salary is low, don't protect him everywhere. This is tantamount to adding fuel to their marriage. So the woman gave up her daughter's custody with empathy. Coupled with her mother-in-law's blocking, she watched it several times and never heard from her again. But some time ago I heard that I came to see her daughter, and her daughter refused to see me.

So women can divorce, but they can't leave their children behind. Because selfish results come at a price.

Let me talk about it. (1) a woman divorced, don't want to have children, mostly because there is no house, no savings, no one to take care of children, can't go home. Leave the children to men, because men have families, houses and parents. In any case, there are rural farmhouses, innate physique and social tolerance for men. It's not that women don't want children, it's that men can't compete with each other in divorce. (3) Women who are more self-centered, want to relax and are afraid of being dragged down by their children. What is a divorced woman with children like? I am a single mother, raising my daughter alone. When divorced, go out clean. Take children, drift from place to place, have no fixed place to live. Five years later, I remarried (not to mention the details) and gave birth to a son. My son and I divorced. Why is this happening? Because life is really not easy, it is even more difficult to remarry with children. You will wonder, why do you always divorce? If it is not necessary, who has nothing to do? You will say again, why don't you keep your eyes open when you remarry and have children? I said that when there is no pressure and conflict of interest, men are good at camouflage. You will say, for the sake of children, make do? I said, hanging upside down and a bottomless pit full of dissatisfaction, we can't see any hope in the future, and we may even be dragged into the abyss and stop loss in time? Is responsible for the children, but also responsible for themselves. Regarding alimony, a cruel man can really ignore the children and it is not easy to sue. It's better to let go than to be angry. I don't owe him anything. He owes me. I ignored him and told the child that his father had gone to heaven. Turn the page! Life goes on. I clean up the mess step by step. I bought a house, a small apartment. Simple decoration, airy and dry, I moved. I keep my feet on the ground and live with my children. No one changed hands. I walked in the wind and rain, getting up early and greedy for the dark, cooking, cooking, cooking until the children grew up and I was old. You will ask? What do you do? I said, use my own savings. You will say, there is food in your pocket, so don't panic! I said, worry! It really takes a lot of energy and money to raise two children by one person. I can't bear to leave my children. When I give birth to her, he will be responsible for her. Don't praise me for being great, I just did what I had to do. Don't praise me for my ability, that's human potential. Don't make fun of me, because I am busy.

I am 28 years old. I have experienced this kind of thing personally. Originally, my family was very happy, with two children, the older is 2 years old and the younger is 8 months old. I lived in a suite in Shenzhen and a suite in my hometown of Lanzhou. But on February 5 this year, I suddenly had stomach bleeding and went to the hospital. Results It was found that not only gastric ulcer, but also tonsil malignant tumor. My wife filed for divorce on February 7, and his family supported her divorce, but both of them supported it. The restaurant in Shenzhen, she said she wanted to stay, so it was hers. He recovered and was discharged on May 3rd. At present, a person with two children and a logistics company feels numb. Her family kept telling her that she didn't owe me anything and let go of the human accident. I basically paid the down payment for her house, her brother's car and her sister's college education. ...

My own experience, my wife and I have been married for ten years. When she left, the child was nine years old and the youngest was six. We just couldn't speak our minds and didn't hit her. In 1996, I went out to work, and I was leaving on 18. She left in early April, abandoning two children. On April 22nd, I wrote home, and my two children were so hungry that they cried as soon as they saw me. The next day, I went to her parents' house to find out the situation without asking any questions. In this way, my heart froze and I stopped looking for her. Children's filial piety is particularly good. As for her, she got married three times after she left. What I know, and what I don't know, are the two children who are 20 miles away from me, the Yao family, and their second marriage. They were born to their former mother. I don't know why. She called me on 20 15 to apply for a divorce handbook, and I agreed. When she got home to the court, she filed another lawsuit. Also for my grandson, I plan to struggle for another ten years. end

I immediately divorced my woman, who abandoned her husband and son once. Unfortunately, my son and I were abandoned by her again. After her marriage, she lived with a man fourteen years younger than her, and I sued after I learned about it. I have been married for ten years, and my feelings are average. She is a sensitive little woman and very lazy. Pay attention to appearance, selfish, romantic, clever and complaining. I can't meet her requirements, so I play with others and find some reasons to separate from me and live with others. I am 44 years old, and I still can't believe that she would do such a shameless thing. I have a house, a car and a craft. All her friends told me: Is your wife crazy? I think she's crazy. My son fainted in the hospital and didn't wake up. She took him to the hospital and ran away without spending a penny. Her little lover broke his leg and was taken care of in the hospital for half a month. She said, because he believed in her, loved her, helped her and understood her. This is ridiculous. I think adultery is love. Although I am in pain and helpless now, I work hard to earn money for my son. I believe I will live better than her in the future! !

Your question brings back memories.

Once, a friend of mine had two children in a stable marriage. The eldest is a girl, only 6 years old, and the second is a boy, 1 2 months old. They have been married for ten years. Because of the bad relationship between husband and wife, they finally divorced. According to a friend, when the court was in session, the dean asked the woman, which of the two children do you choose? The woman replied, neither is needed.

Hearing this, I think this woman is not even as good as the lowest animal. Real people and things happened in front of me. I don't believe there are such women in the world, and even men don't have such a heart of stone. This woman is the scum of women and the sorrow of women.

I didn't just spray at first. Let me give an example of someone I know. This woman has been with her grandfather for more than ten years and has given birth to two children, one is ya and the other is Xiao. As a result, her grandparents met a woman outside and didn't want her, so they used tricks to turn the house and money into his parents' property, and then divorced and drove the woman out. The woman didn't have a baby at last, because she was almost forty years old, and finally there was nothing. I don't think it's necessary to kill everyone with a stick. It depends. This man is my cousin's shop assistant and now lives in the shop. Anyway, it's really pathetic … I've been ruined by that old man (scum) all my life.

Just divorced for half a year, her 8-year-old son doesn't want it. She called me during the divorce negotiation. It is written that any expenses of my son will be paid by my man in the future, and she also wrote this sentence, "Any major accident of my son in the future, any major accident, has nothing to do with her." Hehe … Isn't this a curse for my son's accident? I have written that all my son's expenses will be paid by me, but she has to add such a cruel sentence. A woman who cheats and changes her mind is terrible!

I'm divorced, too. When my ex-wife divorced me, I remember the clearest sentence:

The daughter is yours. You take it away, pack your things and leave with your daughter. After the divorce, the child was under 18 years old, and I didn't ask her to pay child support and school expenses. I believe I can raise my daughter.

Girls graduated from college and didn't spend much money. She tried every means to please her daughter and sow discord every day. The savings in the house and home are hers. When I divorced, I asked her to give her the house. She said my daughter is mine, and she is still alive. It wasn't long before the house was transferred to her name.

Recently she remarried, regardless of the children.

I don't blame her, as long as I stop making trouble,

Husband and wife, I hope she is also happy.

So is my ex-wife. Two twin sons, everyone loves them. That's great. I gave birth to two sons in your family. I want to be the host during my marriage. What she means is that I agree with her about my parents' money, but I don't agree with her about my parents' money. Later, every day at the end of the quarrel, she deliberately provoked trouble and said that our family beat her. She called her family to beat us and forced me to sue for divorce so that she could get compensation. I sued the court and refused to support her request. After two months, I found a small foreman to come back and ask me for a divorce, on the condition that the child did not need any alimony and compensated her for 5000 yuan. I didn't say anything, as long as you signed. Their family is really amazing. The shameless thief shouted to catch a thief and did a lot of things to slander my family. It's time to leave. Now that both children are 10 years old, it is better to suffer than to be with such a woman.