Listen carefully to others.

Read more Carnegie books. There is a book called How to Deal with People, which is very important for making friends.

1. When you want to listen to others seriously, you can lean forward a little, which will make the other person feel that you are respecting him. The most important thing for everyone is the taste of being respected.

Your eyes should move between each other's eyes and lips instead of staring at each other all the time.

You should listen to the other person patiently and don't interrupt him. When in doubt, you can put forward your own opinions when the other person catches his breath or stops, such as "I want to add something to your statement." . . "Wait, if you respect others.

You should occasionally repeat what the other person just said, which will not cause silence, and will make the other person feel that you are listening to him carefully, which is a kind of respect for him.

In short, we should be sincere, patient and interested when talking and listening to others. We can learn a lot from what others say, which will be very beneficial to ourselves.

PS: Senior two students have many fantasies. This is the best time of your adolescence. I used to be like this. You should cherish your time. I remember that my previous fantasies were also rich, and I almost wrote them into my novels. I think you are the kind of child who is a little impatient, but also bold. I like this kind of boy very much. You should learn patience slowly, which is very important in the future. Be patient when you listen to others and do things in the future. Take your time and learn slowly. As for talking to girls, it's adolescence, so we should be exposed to how to talk to them. You can hang out with more boys and girls, learn the skills of other boys talking to girls, write it down yourself and use it for other girls in the future. But it's normal if you can't talk to the girl you like.