How do families educate their children?

Lead: Family is an integral part of society, the first environment of children's life and the truth of children. The first teacher? It's your parents Family education has a great influence on children's development, and parents and elders should master the necessary parenting knowledge.

How do families educate their children? 1. Create a warm and harmonious family atmosphere.

Family atmosphere affects children's life, psychology and study from both positive and negative aspects. A quiet, harmonious, United and enterprising family atmosphere is conducive to children's healthy life, growth and efficient study. Noisy, quarrelsome, suspicious and backward family atmosphere is difficult to cultivate healthy and enterprising excellent children.

The family atmosphere in which family members love each other, trust each other and live in harmony gives people a sense of security and happiness. Such a family environment can give children a warm and safe living harbor, and children will have more power to struggle and forge ahead. Parents should set an example in everything, set a good example for their children and stay in their hearts as decent people. So, to shape your image and be a good boy? The first teacher? .

Second, explore children's intelligence and cultivate children's imagination and creativity.

Every child has creativity, and the development of human creativity begins in infancy. Childhood and school age are important periods to cultivate and develop children's creativity, because this is the period when children are eager to create and discover actively, and the foundation laid at this time may affect the whole life development process. Therefore, this is not only an important period of intellectual development, but also a period of attaching importance to cultivating and developing children's creativity.

Children sometimes have some good ideas, and sometimes these ideas are often unexpected for us adults. For example, children look at the white clouds in the sky and constantly change their views. One minute they said they were like ice cream, another minute they said they were like hot wheels, and another minute they said they were like monsters? But this has nothing to do with what adults think. If parents often correct their children's statements, it will inhibit their imagination and creativity. Therefore, don't deny or oppose some children's ideas or practices just because they don't agree with their own ideas for a while. Parents or parents should spend more time thinking about their children's ideas and try their best to discover the uniqueness and originality of their children's ideas or practices. Any unique and ingenious ideas of children should receive positive attention and evaluation.

Third, build up confidence and start from an early age.

Children in early childhood have not yet formed an internal force to push them to adhere to some activities that need to overcome difficulties. At this time, family education should set some external factors for children, such as encouragement and praise. Children who are encouraged will often improve their work efficiency or enhance their courage to overcome difficulties.

Children in early childhood are born with a lack of self-confidence. When his behavior is praised by his parents, his self-confidence will increase, while when he is criticized by his parents, his self-confidence will decrease. On the question of whether children should learn to brush their teeth, wash their faces and wipe the table by themselves, if they are afraid that their hands are dirty, their clothes are wet and they can't even touch the tap, that's all the more reason not to work. But create conditions for children to exercise by themselves. For example, prepare a small bench for children and say to them: I know you love cleanliness and want to wash your face yourself, but the faucet is too high. I have prepared a small bench for you. The child is very excited, and will soon sit on the stool and happily imitate the appearance of adults to wash his face. Therefore, the cultivation of children's self-confidence, as parents, should guide children from the dribs and drabs of life.

Fourth, education is fun and learning is fun.

Playing is a child's nature. However, some parents don't understand and respect their children's nature. They don't let children play or teach them to play, for fear of hurting children and destroying things? Children are deprived of the right to play for no reason. Successful parents can treat their children's play correctly, be good at guiding their children's interest in playing and cultivate their intelligence and living habits. For example, children like to hide and seek. Parents should not be afraid of boredom and trouble, but should cooperate with their children. In this process, not only the relationship between children and parents is brought closer, but also the good habit of children to understand their brains is cultivated.

Fifth, start from yourself and become a good example for children.

Children like to imitate other people's actions and behaviors. In fact, the formation of many children's behavior habits and the development of their personality almost all come from imitation learning. Confucius, a great educator, once said: just don't make it; His body is not straight, although he disobeys. ? As a child's first teacher? Parents are not only children's idols, but also role models for children to imitate and learn.

When educating children, set an example? Than? Word of mouth? More important. Parents' words and deeds are different, and children will naturally not obey, and parents will understand this truth. For example, if you promise your child to go out and buy him toys or other things today, then you must do it, instead of fooling the child casually.

If parents can lead by example everywhere, then your words and deeds will become role models for children, which will not only establish and improve your prestige in the eyes of children, but also help you firmly grasp the initiative in educating and managing children. Therefore, parents should re-examine themselves when educating their children, and strive to find problems in time and correct them in time, so that parents can truly lead by example! I hope that parents can make progress with their children in the process of educating their children to learn and be good pilots in educating their children!

Sixth, the necessary suffering for children to grow up.

Suffering is really a disappearing word for children nowadays. However, the necessary suffering education is sometimes necessary for the healthy growth of children. Plato, an ancient Greek philosopher, advocated painful training for children. He said: When happiness, friendship, pain and hatred are rooted in children's hearts, they certainly don't understand the essence of these feelings, but once they are obtained, they will find that they are all in harmony with each other. ? Therefore, when children encounter difficulties, parents don't have to come forward to solve them immediately, but should give them the opportunity to deal with them themselves. For example, if a child falls, parents don't have to make a fuss to help and feel distressed, but should encourage him to stand up; When children are learning knowledge, or when they encounter difficulties in life, parents should also learn not to appear prematurely and solve problems for their children. It is necessary to develop the habit of letting children face and solve difficulties by themselves. Let children develop a correct attitude and a sense of hardship in the process of suffering. That is, to cultivate children's good perseverance and strong will.

In short, children's family education is very important and a systematic and comprehensive education process. Combined with the characteristics of children's family education, from the above aspects, we can promote the healthy growth of children and cultivate their all-round quality. Moreover, in the process of educating children, it will have a far-reaching impact on the overall quality of family members, thus forming a more harmonious family education environment and promoting the continuous improvement of the civilization of the whole society. Early childhood education seems simple, but it is difficult to start. For the sake of children, for the future of the motherland, start from the dribs and drabs of life, start from yourself, and give children a better tomorrow!