My mother-in-law said, "Divorce my son and see who marries you?" How should I deal with such a mother-in-law?

The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is the most difficult of all relationships, and it is also a particular headache for men. You know, the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law have changed from two unrelated strangers to two families living under the same roof for one lover.

"Don't marry Ma Baonan or a helper when you get married." Modern young people's criteria for choosing a spouse are almost inseparable from this sentence. Take Ma Baonan as an example. Ma Baonan listens to his parents in everything and never has his own opinion. When the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law have conflicts, he will only stand on the mother's side and never think of his wife. If a woman is with such a man who always puts her parents first, she will get no benefit at all.

Seven years ago, Yong Guang married his ex-wife, Lan Shu, and forged a friendship with Lan Shu in college. At first, Lan Shu's family was very good, but shortly after their engagement, Lan Shu's father became seriously ill. In order to treat his father at home, he spent most of his wealth, but how can money compare with human life?

You can have more money, but you only live once. Although Lan Shu's father always resisted treatment at that time, because he didn't want his family to spend so much money to treat him, and his daughter had such a heavy burden. But no way, Lan Shu's temper is also very stubborn, and her father finally compromised with her.

Unfortunately, contrary to expectations, Lan Shu's father still didn't come back, and Lan Shu's father died shortly after the operation. Money is almost spent, but people still can't save it. This kind of sadness may only be deeply felt by the parties concerned.

Mother-in-law has been reluctant to let this daughter-in-law in since she knew that Shulan's family had come down in the world, because Yong Guang's family was poor, and wanted to point out what this daughter-in-law could change for this family after taking the door, but the result was as poor as her own. At that time, her mother-in-law said to Lan Shu, "We have no money either. If you get married, you can just get rid of the bride price. You have no dowry anyway. There is no need for a wedding. After all, your father just left not long ago, and it's not good to hold a banquet now. Just take a card. "

Lan Shu is actually a real girl. As long as she identified a person in her heart, she never thought that she would change her mind. She has no house, no car and no bride price, but she still married Yong Guang. She thought she married love, got happiness, and treated her husband's family well, but after marriage, everything was not as simple as she imagined.

Because there is no house, Lan Shu can only live with her mother-in-law. My mother-in-law was very disdainful of Lan Shu from the beginning. As soon as Lan Shu entered the door, her mother-in-law immediately showed her host's superiority. She often orders Lan Shu to leave all the jobs at home to Lan Shu. Lan Shu actually has her own job, but as long as she is free at home, her mother-in-law will always ask her to bring tea and water, and Lan Shu will never be free.

All these behaviors of her mother-in-law made Lan Shu endure, but the only thing she couldn't endure was her mother-in-law's mouth. She often said bitterly that Lan Shu's maiden always raised her home and belittled Lan Shu's maiden. What Lan Shu couldn't accept most was that her mother-in-law talked about Lan Shu's late father that day.

"You say, your dad's illness is a trap, the disease is incurable, but also take home money to vomit, all this money is wasted? It's unlucky to have such an old man at home for eight generations. I don't know what your father thinks. If I were you, I would definitely find a place where there is no one to dig a hole and wait for death, and I will never drag down the younger generation. "

Lan Shu cried angrily because of her mother-in-law's words. She didn't know how to refute, so she had to complain to Yong Guang and silently wipe her tears in the room. Although Lan Shu sought comfort from Yongguang, Yong Guang's attitude made Lan Shu even more disappointed.

"My mother is actually like this. You don't have to take it to heart. What she said was not intentional. You don't care much about her. As a daughter-in-law, just let her know more. When she said this, she naturally stopped talking. "

Lan Shu, without her husband's support, is weak and can only endure it. My mother-in-law is used to being strong. She always made decisions for her son since she was a child, and his son listened to her. Naturally, she also thinks that the daughter-in-law should be the master. So she decided to control the economy.

Wages in Lan Shu and Yong Guang are separate, but Lan Shu thinks it doesn't matter. After all, everyone should respect everyone's privacy, and it is best for both sides to manage their own money. But when her mother-in-law asked Lan Shu to hand over her salary card, Lan Shu could no longer calm down. She directly questioned her mother-in-law: "Why should I give you my salary card? If I give it to you, what will I live with? "

Mother-in-law naturally replied: "After you give me the salary card, I will keep it for you without spending your money. Why are you so excited? I will give you pocket money every month. Don't be as kind as a donkey's liver and lungs! "

Mother-in-law added a sentence behind, which directly drove Lan Shu crazy. My mother-in-law added, "I'm not talking about your family, just your father." You see, your father suddenly fell ill and all the money at home was gone. There is nothing left. If I hadn't saved it for you, would you have any money left in the future? " Don't you need to end up like him? "

"What are you doing, how to treat my mother like this? Even if my mother is wrong, did you do it? Can't you make way and argue with her? I understand you well. My mother is my mother-in-law, and you are just a daughter-in-law. Can you clarify your position? "

Lan Shu sneered: "You said I was not sensible? I can't be as sensible as you want in my life. Let's get a divorce! "

When her mother-in-law heard Lan Shu say that she wanted a divorce, she was very happy and shouted, "Well, if you have the ability, you can get a divorce. Who else would want you from a divorced woman? My son doesn't have to worry anyway. He can find someone better than you in minutes. Just wait and cry. "

Lan Shu and Yong Guang are still divorced, but Lan Shu is not unable to get married as her mother-in-law said. Instead, a man with better conditions is pursuing her. Lan Shu's love career has had a double harvest. He lives with that excellent man. Now he has given birth to two children, and his family life is happy.

Yong Guang is different. Even though Yong Guang's mother introduced her son very actively, she didn't succeed. Not only is Yong Guang's family condition poor, but more importantly, this evil mother-in-law is notorious and has been talking about other people's dead father. Who can stand such a mother-in-law?

The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is never simple, because it is a "game" between two women.

Two unrelated women, because of a man, have since become a family. If both sides have no determination to tolerate each other, it is easy to disagree on some things in the process of getting along with each other day and night.

When there is a contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, a man should take the responsibility of solving the problem, otherwise it will not only make his wife cold, but also further worsen the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and may eventually ruin the marriage himself.

So at this time, men's attitude is very important. After all, women marry you for you. If something goes wrong, you should have your own opinion, which is responsible for your life and marriage.