How should a daughter educate her by comparing herself with her classmates?

For the comparison psychology of girls, in fact, as long as parents guide them correctly, they can correct the comparison psychology of girls in time. Parents should let girls realize the positive significance and harm of comparison, form a correct outlook on life and values, and let girls gradually learn to enrich their spiritual world, maintain their mental health and improve their personality in today's increasingly rich material life.

Suggestion 1: Cultivate girls' good habit of saving.

Nowadays, girls often don't know how to save, and they have developed the bad habit of extravagance and waste. Children don't know the family's financial situation, and often ask their parents for too much material needs because of comparison. Parents love their children and want to fully meet their needs, which eventually leads to children's tendency to compare with others and not know how to save.

Girls' minds are not fully mature, and comparison is mostly induced by external environment. Parents should set an example, let their children know how to save, don't buy luxury goods, don't blindly compare, gradually cultivate girls' saving habits, help girls get out of the quagmire of comparison, and promote girls' healthy physical and mental growth.

Recommendation 2: Turn girls' comparison into healthy competition.

The comparison psychology of girls will not only have a bad influence, but also stimulate girls' self-motivation. Parents should guide girls' comparison psychology and turn it into the basis of healthy competition. . Parents should use the girl's comparison psychology to encourage her to develop in a good way. Parents grasp the girl's psychology of keeping up with others, encourage her to keep up with others in study, ability and morality, and make keeping up with others become the driving force for her progress.

Recommendation 3: Let children realize that it is not easy for their parents to work.

The phenomenon that girls blindly compare with others is mostly because they don't understand their parents' hard work and only think that their parents are ATMs, which can meet their various needs. Many parents complain that their daughters are psychologically serious about keeping up with the joneses. In fact, as long as girls are allowed to relate their money to their parents' hard work, they will reasonably control their comparison psychology. Parents should tell their children how to work hard to provide a better life for girls, tell girls that their work is not easy, try to talk to their children about the details of their work, and talk about the ups and downs in their work. Children will not take their parents' money to satisfy their material desires and keep up with the joneses.