How to beat around the bush

Some things, if personal, or involve the privacy of the other party, direct questions will cause the other party's resistance. At this time, it is best to beat around the bush and beat about the bush. The following small series collects the skills of beating around the bush for everyone.

1. Take the expression "playing the edge ball" for example.

Avoid the main side when talking, but the meaning in the words still points out some problems. If your friend is lovelorn and can't accept this fact, comfort him and say, "It's just lovelorn. Who hasn't been lovelorn?" Maybe it's easy to cause his rebellious mentality.

Then you can say this:

"A lot of things in life, it is not difficult to cherish, always have. Girls cherish their looks again, and their faces will grow old; No matter how much the old people cherish their health, after all, born to die. Learning to accept what has happened is a compulsory course in our life. "

In this way, maybe you can inspire the other person to come up with the answer by himself.

Step 2 talk in a suggestive way

For example, if someone plays a joke on you and offends you unwittingly, you pretend to be careless and say:

"How do I feel like swearing after listening to your words?"

People with high emotional intelligence naturally understand what you mean; If you are a person with low emotional intelligence, just say how you feel!

3. Set a language trap for the other party

This technique must be used with great confidence, otherwise it will be counterproductive.

For example, if you propose to your girlfriend, it's too abrupt to ask directly. At this time, you can set a language trap for the other party. No matter how the other party answers, you can't escape from your "Wuzhishan".

"Honey, there is one thing I want to tell you, that is, will you wear my ring with me forever, or will you wear a wedding dress to accompany me to church?"