I didn't help my daughter-in-law with her grandchildren at first, but now my daughter-in-law is in hospital. Should I tell them?

My name is Wang Chunli, and I'm 60 years old. Currently living in the countryside with my wife. We have lived in the countryside all our lives. We all have a son. Although our family's conditions are not very good, we are not willing to treat him badly since childhood. My son went to college and stayed in the city after graduation.

Sons and daughters-in-law are also free to fall in love. When they got married, my wife and I took out all our savings and bought them a house. After they got married, my son and daughter-in-law came back. My wife and I are very happy every time they come back. Although my daughter-in-law seldom buys anything for us, even though she bought some fruits at a discount in the supermarket, my daughter-in-law and I still feel very happy. We also understand that it is not easy for their young people to make money, so they leave every time.

Later, when my daughter-in-law got pregnant, I sent all the delicious food at home in batches, such as chicken and eggs. I was supposed to take care of my daughter-in-law. I was there to take care of her when she was confined, but before confinement, my wife got sick in the countryside. He was in hospital for two months. Life after discharge is also in a state of semi-self-care, so I can't leave her at home.

However, at that time, my son and daughter-in-law said that they would ask the nanny to spend money, and they were not at ease. Let me send my wife to a nursing home, and then I will help them with their children. Let's talk about it May I agree? Finally, I left them alone at home to take care of my wife. Since then, my son and daughter-in-law have never come back, and my son occasionally calls back.

My wife was ill again, so I took him to the hospital. The hospital is in the city where my son lives. I called him. He was away on business. Then he said he would call his wife. Not long after I put the phone down, my daughter-in-law really called. I wanted my daughter-in-law to come over. After all, I am so old that I don't understand many things, but my daughter-in-law said directly on the phone: I asked you to take care of my children, and now you are sick, you come to us. I'm telling you, whether you live or die is none of our business. Don't call us in the future. Put the phone down, I was in tears. I said that raising children to prevent old age is such a way to prevent old age.