Salute to Mother's Day: My mother prefers boys to girls, but I love her. A woman who is at peace with herself will be very happy, right?

Everyone's mother is not perfect, she may prefer boys to girls, she may be grumpy, she may be weak, but as long as she loves you and gives you warmth, then we will remember that warmth. Remember, love is always happier than being immersed in hate.

Once on Mother's Day, a girl said to me:

"My mother prefers boys to girls. I don't want to buy her a gift or celebrate Mother's Day. "

My mother also prefers sons to daughters, and I don't want to celebrate Mother's Day for my mother many times. I even hate my mother very much.

My mother prefers boys to girls, and she didn't like me since she was a child. She despises everything I say and do. Once, I slowly picked leeks, and my mother said to me, "What can you do? Nothing can be done well. "

Therefore, when I was very young, I dared not work under my mother's nose. As long as she looks at me, I'm nervous.

If I don't listen, my mother will hit me. I remember one particularly clear time when she hit me in the face with a racket, which prevented me from going to school the next day.

My mother once ruthlessly said to my father, "I am not strict with this girl."

She is so bad to me, but she is especially good to my brother. My mother couldn't bear to hit my brother when he was a child. He only eats what he likes when eating, and my mother never cares. My brother doesn't study well or excellently, but my mother just likes him very much. My mother said that my brother was her heart, and she was afraid that it would melt in her mouth and drop in her hand.

Almost all children who are not favored are more independent. So I belong to the kind of children who have been particularly strong since childhood, because our unloved children lack the approval of their parents.

But no matter how good I am, my mother still likes my brother better. When I was in college, I was the only girl in the school who didn't have a cell phone. All the other roommates have them. At that time, I wanted my mother to buy me a mobile phone. My mother said there was no money at home.

There is no money to buy a mobile phone at home, but there is money to buy nutrition for my brother. At that time, my brother never grew up, so my mother bought him all kinds of nutrients, two bags of milk a day, plus thousands of shoes and medicine.

She doesn't care that I am laughed at by my classmates and squeezed out by my roommates. Her mind is full of her son.

At that time, I hated her.

Obviously, I was born by her. Why does my brother get all kinds of good treatment and I don't even have the right to own a mobile phone?

I haven't spent a penny at home since my junior year. Up to now, no matter what I buy a house or do, my mother has never given me another penny. All her money was given to my brother. When my brother got married, my mother bought him a house and a car and was still angry that I spent less money on my brother.

I just got married at that time. In the most difficult time, I didn't have a car, a house or a job, and I took care of a child by myself, but my mother never thought about my difficulties. She just wants my brother to get married once in his life. She gives all the good things to my brother.

I hated my mother at that time, too.

In my most difficult years, I almost never went back to my parents' house. They won't help me anyway. Seeing that I am not doing well, they may feel ashamed and look down on me.

I used to hate her, but I still buy her presents every Mother's Day. It's not that I'm too tolerant, but that I remember that she was bad to me and good to me.

Although my mother is eccentric, I have never been hurt since I was a child. At that time, our family had land in the countryside, and many children worked in the fields with their parents. But my mother never let me go down.

My mother never lets me do housework, so when my husband married me, my mother said, "My daughter really didn't touch her fingers."

Although my mother never gave me financial help, she gave it to my brother. But when I was pregnant, I had severe morning sickness. My mother didn't go to work for several months and took care of me at home. Mom will buy whatever I want to eat.

When I gave birth, my mother couldn't stand being outside. She was afraid that something would happen to me. After I gave birth, my mother said that I would never be allowed to have children again. Which parent can stand this punishment?

Every time I quarrel with my mother, I will say that my mother is partial. Every time my mother would say, "I bought you beautiful clothes when you were young. When you were young, I never let you do any work." Why do I prefer boys to girls? I have a clear conscience for you, too. "

Every time my mother says this, I think of her kindness to me. It's good that she prefers boys to girls, but she gave birth to me and never treated me badly.

It's almost Mother's Day. My mother prefers boys to girls, but I will still buy her a present. My mother prefers boys to girls, and I still love her. Because she gave birth to me.

In this world, there would be no me without her.

Now that I have children, I understand my mother better. When I was a child, I slowly presented myself. I made a mistake. My mother tried to hit me. I approached her, but I didn't admit my mistake. She can't even hit me.

My brother made a mistake, and when my mother tried to hit him, he began to cry for mercy, or simply ran out.

I was stubborn when I was a child, which should also give my mother a headache.

Are those parents who prefer sons to daughters unworthy of forgiveness?

I forgave my mother, because when I became a mother and grew up, I found that you hated her only because you loved her.

Only Su Like Mingyu finally saw her mother's love for herself in the doorframe. Instead of making peace with her mother, she finally made peace with herself.

Because of this reconciliation, the rest of our lives can be warmer.