Different cognitive levels can't communicate. Can you tell me why?

Do you find that there are fewer and fewer real friends in adulthood? If an adult is still obsessed with pure friendship and wants more and more friends, this shows two problems. This person is still a giant baby who needs to rely on others, and the friend he wants is also the kind of person who understands and accepts him unconditionally. It shows that this person's cognitive level is relatively low, he has never earned any money personally, and he has no clear understanding of human nature, the nature of interpersonal relationships, interests and the realization of personal self-worth. Share some ideas about how to deal with people with different cognitive levels.

First of all, no excuses, no explanations. After things happen, you will find that everyone has his own position and opinion, especially with the improvement of your cognition, it will become more and more difficult for you to find voice and recognition from most people's ideas. What you can do at this time is to listen to him and watch his actions. When you meet different opinions, you don't have to deny them or excuse them. You just need to know clearly what you think. If you act according to your own ideas, you will certainly feel the strange eyes and incomprehensible words of people around you, but remember, don't explain. All your explanations are consuming your efforts, trying to prove yourself, making others understand you and affirm you, so that you will never live an independent personality.

Second, the most powerful love is self-love. You are cute not because someone loves you, but because you are cute. Naturally, many people love you, so the most important thing is to make yourself a lovely person and a person worthy of love. That is to learn to love yourself first, and only those who really learn to love themselves. Only with the strongest sense of security can we truly love others. A person who can't love himself does not really love others, but exchanges in the name of love.

Third, cherish the fate. People who can't climb are dynamic and face everyone equally, including themselves. Don't want to cling to and covet anything when you see people who are better than yourself, and don't look down on people who are lower than yourself. Deliberate principle, for those who are dying fate, let him go, don't regret, everyone has their own life, life is a process of getting it while losing it.