Dear pregnant mothers, is there anyone who doesn't want his mother to take care of the confinement?

Confinement is our traditional custom and it is also very necessary. Only after confinement for 30-42 days can the pregnant woman return to the pre-pregnancy state at the best time.

However, confinement is not a woman's business. Need the help of other people in the family, for example, let the mother-in-law take care of it, let the mother take care of it, or invite the new moon and relatives, or even go to a professional month center.

Dear pregnant mothers, is there anyone who doesn't want her mother to have a baby? When you haven't experienced it, you certainly don't know how much your mother can take care of. Only when you have experienced it will you know whether you want your mother to take care of your daughter's confinement, because not all mothers can take care of their daughter's confinement.

for instance

A friend of mine gave her first child to her mother. After coming out, she complained to us and even regretted letting her mother take care of her. She also said that she would never take a second child again.

Her mother is a simple person and asks her to cook some nutritious moon meal. The old man always said it was unnecessary. She refused to buy some mutton, beef and pork tripe, and gave chicken soup and eggs every day, saying it was the most nutritious. That's how she got here.

The most exasperating thing is that every meal is filled with a big bowl, and then the pregnant woman is full and not hungry, but the snacks between meals are not arranged. She felt that she was not hungry when she was full, and the pregnant woman secretly asked her husband to bring bread back from outside to eat.

At the end of the month, her mother asked her to get up in the morning to make breakfast, because the old man was going out to catch up with the early gathering and wanted to buy some farm food. It was past 8 o'clock when the old man came back, and the nursing mother was hungry.

This way of confinement, if it weren't for your mother, who would dare to let such a mother take care of confinement next time? No matter how difficult it is, you should save enough money to have a confinement, so that you can have a confinement comfortably.

Tell me about my experience.

I gave birth to two babies with the help of my mother. My mother loves me more. When I was pregnant, she allowed me to stay at home for confinement. I didn't have much experience when I gave birth to my first child. My mother took care of me very hard, but with the help of my father and sister at home, everyone wouldn't be too hard. When I gave birth to a second child, I had the experience of bringing a baby. My mother helped me cook and bathe the baby when I was confined. In the last few days, if we are not at home, I will cook by myself.

Therefore, no one knows from the beginning what it is like for a mother to have a baby.