Get married and live alone.

Marriage leads a personal life. As we all know, marriage is the combination of two people who love each other and want to live together for life. But in most cases, women are supporting this kind of feelings and living a personal life, just living a personal life through marriage.

Married but living a single life 1 the lonely record of a married woman;

"I am married, but I live alone."

Loneliness level one:

Take on housework alone

Because life is not easy, it should be the true meaning of marriage to find someone to help each other in the same boat, but unfortunately, some men have obviously not adapted to their roles, shared the benefits of marriage and forgotten the responsibilities of marriage.

Married men talk about their married life like this: it's good to have a wife. Every time they go home, they have rich meals, clothes hanging on the balcony, soft quilts, clean floors, warm tea and a warm and comfortable life.

When a married woman talks about her married life, it goes like this: I cook and he plays with his mobile phone; I wash the dishes and he plays with his mobile phone; I sweep the floor and he plays with his mobile phone; I hang clothes and he plays with his mobile phone; I help my child with his homework and he plays with his mobile phone. .................................................................................................................................................................

The loneliness of married women often deepens in such trivial and busy days.

Loneliness level 2:

Two babies, one to take care of.

When going to the toilet, the child cried outside the door and had to go to the toilet while coaxing the child.

Finally, I put the child to sleep, so I have time to eat a fast food. I didn't expect the child to cry again, so I had to hold the child in one hand and eat in the other. She often holds the baby in her arms, and her hands are still in plaster.

Walking in the street, under everyone's pointing eyes, I realized that I was sloppy and bowed my head unconsciously, only to find that there was a pair of socks in my sandals.

The child is ill and must be sent to the hospital. In a panic, he wore two different slippers and rushed to the hospital.

If the short film hadn't finally received a text message from my husband, I would have thought it was a single mother. I forgot to mention that the text message said "Don't go home tonight".

I don't know how many women have experienced or are experiencing this mother's experience. One person takes care of the children, and one person supports life and all the ups and downs.

Women are weak, but mothers are just. This compliment sounds too mean. If the child's father and his wife's husband can bear it together, she won't have to work so hard.

The helplessness and loneliness that can only be supported by oneself in a difficult situation makes people desperate.

Loneliness level 3:

Husband lines up for no reason.

In fact, in family life, women often don't care who takes on more chores. What really makes them psychologically collapse is emotional neglect.

The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is the most difficult to get along with, and friends are living examples. As a precious mother who just gave birth to a baby, in order to return to the workplace recently, after discussing with her husband, she invited her mother-in-law to come home to help with the children.

But recently she has been telling me: I can't stand it! The contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is escalating, but her husband will only follow the mud.

The cause of the matter is this. Mother-in-law is used to taking care of children according to old ideas, and Xiao Xiao put forward some of her own views. In the concept of parenting, the two had some minor frictions.

But no matter every quarrel, the husband stands in the position of his mother-in-law and accuses his wife. Xiaoxiao was asked to apologize more and more times, and became more and more wronged.

I can't stand her husband's partiality any longer. After a large-scale quarrel, Xiao Xiao said: I would rather take care of the baby full-time than continue to live with my mother-in-law!

When a man gets married, there is one more person in the family. When a woman gets married, she wants to marry a big family. She should carefully learn to get along with everyone and take care of all her relatives.

At this time, the people she relied on not only did not rely on her, but made her feel wronged. Her husband stands on her opposite side, which will make women feel lonely.

Loneliness level 4:

Close at hand, my heart is like Wan Li.

Cousin was originally a career-oriented woman with a decent job. After she got married and had children, she resigned as a housewife under the persuasion of her cousin. Cousin earned a lot of money and should have lived comfortably, but recently divorced.

A few days ago, my cousin invited a friend to dinner and my cousin prepared a meal. Because of the rush of time, a dish was burnt, and my cousin casually complained, "I can't cook well."

It's not the first time my cousin said this, but it sounded particularly harsh that day, because my cousin suddenly found herself working so hard that she had never been faced up to and considerate.

In fact, the appearance of the two people and the state of separation have long been clues. Since she resigned, my cousin has devoted herself to her family, especially after giving birth to a baby. She has been obsessed with trifles and has less and less communication. At the last family reunion, my cousin talked about work, but she was worried about which kindergarten her child should go to.

Cousin said that sometimes she really wants to chat with her cousin, but the other party always puts on a "you don't understand" refusal gesture. Whenever this time, she will feel very lonely. It is a family, but I feel that I have been drifting away from his world.

Two people who live together day and night seem to live in two worlds, so they are lonely.

Chun Wu, a good father, once shared his way of getting along with his wife in an interview with Lu Yu, and that is to keep in touch. His wife is not in the entertainment circle. In her early years, she spent a lot of time filming, but she told her what happened on the set today every day.

Even if two people are far apart, two hearts can be very close.

In fact, the loneliness of married women is far beyond our imagination.

She does the soaking of daily necessities and housework alone, and the whole family needs her to do it. Besides facing the pressure of life alone, she may even suffer emotional neglect.

Most of the loneliness they don't have to bear comes from the man at home. I thought I had found someone who could shelter me from the wind and rain, but I found that most of the storms in the rest of my life were brought by that person.

In fact, in marriage, as long as men can take on more responsibilities, women will not feel so lonely and helpless.

When a woman prepares a delicious meal, she says "hard work"; When the child is crying in the middle of the night, take the initiative to appease and let her have a rest; Buy a dish with her at the weekend, and carry the daily necessities for two people.

The most important thing is to cherish and sympathize with her, and don't let her feel lonely.

Married but living a personal life 2 talk about the depressed mood after marriage.

1, married life is so tired every day, there seems to be no other communication except quarreling! I want to be understood and cared for, but I feel that these two words are far away from me! I have been giving, but I have got nothing. What I got was taken for granted!

2, the mood is very low, especially want to cry, how has married life become like this, this is not what I think of married life, what should I do, I feel so tired!

3, some things, some words, do not know how to say, do not know how to solve. I thought my married life was wonderful, but everything went against my wishes. I'm really tired and annoyed!

Everything in the world can be lost, not hope, nothing in the world, let alone confidence.

You gave me a promise and I cried. You gave me a love, I really can't bear to leave here.

6. I don't see any virtue contrary to justice in the structure of rational animals, but a virtue opposite to the love of happiness, that is, temperance.

7. Really happy people are busy experiencing, and no one is busy showing off.

8. In our life, no matter how beautiful it is, it can't stand forgetting, and no matter how sad it is, it can't stand time.

9. I thought love was sweet, marriage was happy, and married life was simple, but now I know that everything is not as simple as I imagined, and sometimes I feel so tired, especially tired!

10, now life is really boring, strange things happen every day, so tired! There is a big gap in life before and after marriage. I'd rather be alone if I can!

1 1. What is the meaning of marriage? Married life is really not as beautiful, so tired and so boring as I thought, so I don't like it.

12, I won't blame you or hate you, even if my world only has memories.

13, whether it's friendship or love, you come and I hug warmly. You go, I let go.

14, a person can do anything as long as he is not afraid of losing, such as losing his dignity.

15 If what you give me is the same as what you give to others, I won't accept it.

16, when you are stormy, I have nowhere to hide. You left the four seasons, and my old illness is hard to cure.

17, in fact, I have never been happy since I entered the married life, and I am so tired every day!

18, married life feels so tired. I am not the most important person in the mind of my favorite person, far less than the affection of my relatives. No matter how much I love him, I found that it was not me who hurt him the most, but my relatives. I'm not sad, I just feel a little pathetic. Let nature take its course, I can only remind myself not to invest too much love!

19, don't let yourself be full of grievances in the best time.

20. Men's hands are not used to wash clothes, but to hug women.

2 1, life is not an idol drama, but fate after all.

22. Life is short. Buy what you want and find what you want. If you are happy, don't wait.

23. Behind many smiles, there are efforts to bite the bullet.

24. Some people always say that you have changed, but no one asks what you have experienced.

25, don't drink or get drunk, because the feeling of being half drunk and not drunk is too sober, which reminds people of old love or old love. .

26, slowly, grow up, but feel silent, know more, but not happy.

27. Nothing you really like and want can be easily obtained. That's why you work hard.

28, angry fan yourself two big face twice? Looking back on my married life for more than a year, I have been making concessions, changing and refreshing the bottom line. However, I don't know if it's worth it! So tired, so tired, when did I become a nanny!

Married but living his own life.

1. Marriage, an eternal topic, has been the focus of everyone's attention for many years, and it is also one of the most unclear things in the world, and it is also a major event in life that people must experience in order to survive. Marriage, some people say it is beautiful, some people say it is ugly. Those who succeed in marriage praise it, and those who fail in marriage curse it. After entering marriage, people began to manage their marriage carefully in this besieged city that determines their later life.

2. Marriage must be as plain as a long stream of water to last, and a long stream of water can last, but plain doesn't mean tasteless, and thin water doesn't mean complete calm. Otherwise, it is the other extreme of marriage, another dead corner of marriage, and blandness is the biggest fatal wound of marriage.

Husband and wife love each other and are loyal to each other. This is the most basic requirement. Of course, we must do it first, but the quality of marriage is more reflected in the details of life. It is not difficult to work out the details. The key is not to turn a blind eye, let alone turn a blind eye.

Marriage is: an optimistic woman marries an optimistic man and eventually becomes two pessimists.

When you walk through the sacred door of marriage, you don't need to worry and regret, and you don't need to doubt and complain. Hand in hand, shoulder to shoulder, * * * through every ups and downs of life; Heart to heart, love depends on love, and resist the ups and downs of fate together.

When we complain about the boredom or misfortune of marriage, in fact, we are all making the same fatal mistake, that is, pointing the root of marital misfortune at marriage itself rather than ourselves, which is really a great misunderstanding and also our sorrow. Who made the unhappy marriage? It's ourselves, luck and misfortune, all on ourselves.

6. Marriage is the grave. People who approach marriage are like approaching the grave of marriage. Is that so?

7. People in marriage are watching the colorful world outside, and many people have paid a heavy price for it. Marriage is not playing cards, shuffling is definitely a price to pay, whether you are right or wrong!

8. Love is an adventure, marriage is an insurance, and an affair is a good risk. What risks do you hope to encounter?