Whispering ‖ Find a hole in the tree and tell the secret.

I have heard a saying, "If we can't keep secrets ourselves, how can we expect others to keep them for us?" I am deeply impressed by this sentence. Since it is a secret, it must be something hidden that I don't want others to know.

However, people sometimes confide in others when they are extremely trusting. Once they confide, the secret will not be called a secret. In most cases, they will tell the secret to others through this insider who knows the secret, or even this person is your so-called friend. But you can't keep your mouth shut and dare not say anything. Then find a tree hole to tell your secret.

Talking is beneficial to people's physical and mental health. The pressure of life and work has exhausted us physically and mentally, and we always need a window to vent. If we can find someone else to vent, we can only lick it alone. Perhaps this is our secret, which weighs heavily on people's hearts. Find a tree hole for yourself and be your most loyal listener. Those words that lick alone can be confided in the tree hole. The tree hole will not spread or misinterpret, but will only share the burden of carrying secrets for you and make our hearts easier.

This tree hole may be our own diary or a trusted netizen, so that we can confide in it without worrying that the secret is no longer a secret. I once knew someone's secret in a very passive situation and felt sorry for the person whose secret was spread. Only the tree hole is the most reassuring, it will appear in front of you in time when you need it, contain your secrets and eliminate your negative emotions.

I don't know if you have ever had such an experience. Once someone told you some secrets he knew about someone in your ear, and then added "Don't tell others!" Perhaps, we have all had such an experience, knowing a secret about others, without deliberately asking for any news. Sometimes, it is not that we are full of curiosity to explore, snoop and gossip, but that we know some people's secrets without warning with the help of others.

What kind of conversation situation is it? I am having a good talk with someone, and suddenly, the other person seriously tells some unknown secrets about someone we all know. In this case, of course, it is a surprise, and it can be said that it is a jaw. I still remember that it was at school, a lightning and thunder evening. It happened that there was only me and another classmate in the dormitory that day, and the two of us chatted happily. Accompanied by a flash of lightning, she attached it to my ear and told me the secret of a classmate. Her words were no less than the lightning that flashed across the night sky, which shocked my heart and surprised me. Students who see the secret told in the future always have a strange feeling.

After that incident, I feel that Shudong is the best person to talk to and the most trustworthy listener. I remember there was a scene in the movie In the Mood for Love, in which the hero played by Tony Leung Chiu Wai found a tree hole and quietly told the secret in his heart. Then he blocked the tree hole with mud, leaned forward and left quietly, and poured out his heart, which was a farewell to the story between him and the heroine played by Maggie Cheung.

find a tree hole of your own and tell your heart. Of course, it will contain secrets that you can't tell others. The tree hole will always collect everything it hears without telling a third person.