Talk about drinking tea alone.

First, tea is just two postures, floating and sinking; Tea drinkers have only two postures, picking up and putting down. Life is like tea, calm when sinking, indifferent when floating, affordable and needs to be put down.

Second, when you are calm, you can hear your own voice. Perhaps, what you are crazy about is not what you really want, but just accommodating others or society; Perhaps, you are worried, and you don't really want to love or should love, but you don't want to for a while. When you sit down and watch the flowers bloom and fall, you will see clearly. Smiling at flowers is a kind of quiet happiness; It is a comfortable feeling to watch the flowers fall quietly.

Third, learning to accept disability is the maturity of life. No one is perfect, and regret is the normal state of life. In life, there are successes and failures, and there are gatherings and departures. No one can be blessed, absolute monarch. You can't have your cake and eat it, which is the helplessness of life. Mature people can face all imperfections indifferently, so they don't insist, try their best and live with fate. Pursuing perfection is a beautiful ideal, and accepting imperfection is a beautiful mentality.

You should always forgive all beings, no matter how bad they are, even if they have hurt you, you must let go to get real happiness.

5. The proper place in life is not close to money or power, but close to the soul; True happiness is neither wealth nor all the best, but a clear conscience.

6. We can't control other people's thoughts; We can't force others to do anything. The only thing I can do is to try my best to do my own thing, take the road under my feet and live my life according to my own principles. Even if someone mistreats you, time will not mistreat you, and life will not mistreat you! If you say that you have been wronged, it is also your imbalance.

Seven, a lot of things wait too long, often not what I originally wanted, cotton-padded jacket in summer, cattail leaf fan in winter, umbrella after a storm, and hospitality after a cold heart. Even if I get it, I lose my original meaning. If I want to see the scenery and meet people for too long, all my expectations will be exhausted. How to make up for the missed years, I can't wait for many things. Maybe things will change, so I have to do what I want.

Eight, nothing in this world can't be lost. What is left is the scenery, and what is left is the life. He who walks to the end is the right person.

Nine, the fortunes of life depend on each other, laughter and tears are intertwined, and you don't have to be too happy to get it. If you have some, you will inevitably give up others; There is no need to grieve for what is lost, and nothing can stay forever. Don't define the happiness of life by the success or failure of your career and the amount of income. They are only vassals and have no necessary connection with happiness. As long as everything is normal, no complaints, no jealousy, no slack, no indifference, happiness can be attached.

Ten, some things, you really didn't see clearly, see clearly, heartache; Some people, you really don't understand, understand and hurt. Life is a kind of confusion, a vague, unclear, confused and vague. There are so many things in life that you can't get used to. It's all asking for it. Look at it. It is not self-deception, but self-protection to cast a fog over life.