Brief experience of family education (for personal use)

In life and study, we often have our own experiences, so how to write them out and let them sing? The following is "Family Education Experience (Personal General)" compiled by me for your reference only. Welcome to read this article.

Brief introduction to the experience of family education (1) How to do a good job in the education of primary school students? The key should be to "prescribe the right medicine" according to the characteristics of primary school students. Pupils are like flowers in spring, innocent, lively and lovely, with poor ability to distinguish right from wrong, strong curiosity, strong acceptance and strong imitation. Therefore, parents should never use simple and rude methods when teaching primary school students. We should be good at guiding and try our best to stimulate their interest in learning, so as to change passive learning into active learning. They should mainly do the following work:

First, parents should put down their airs and be good at making friends with their children. Usually, they should use less tone of command and more language of discussion. For example, they can say, "Come on, dad wants to see why this is with you." "Let's draw together!" Wait a minute. Because children are timid, if parents often teach their children a lesson, it is bound to make them feel fear and disgust. If they dare not approach you, they will often have rebellious psychology. Not only do they not like what you said, but they are afraid to go to school.

Secondly, as parents, we should pay special attention to our own image, and we should not behave casually in front of our children, because primary school students have strong curiosity and imitation ability, and their ability to distinguish right from wrong is also poor. At home, parents educate their children and listen to the teacher when they get to school, so children think that what the teacher says is always right and what the teacher does is always a good thing. Who knows, the teacher invisibly set up a great image in the children's hearts, every word and deed. Because parents are the best role models for children, what parents usually say and do directly affects the formation of children's outlook on life and world, and has a far-reaching impact on the growth of children's future life path.

Thirdly, in the usual family education, we should try to be good at guiding and stimulate children's interest in learning. As we all know, children are active and playful by nature. As an education expert said, as long as you are interested in one thing, you will really study hard, do it seriously and do it consciously. Otherwise, they won't do things that they are not interested in, and it won't work to drive ducks on children. Only by being good at guiding children and stimulating their interest in learning can children learn more. Usually you can use your knowledge and imagination to make up some interesting stories or games to stimulate their interest in learning.

The experience of family education is short-lived. (2) Junior high school students are a special group. They are in a special age group, at the stage of semi-maturity, semi-naivety, semi-obedience, semi-rebellion, semi-independence, semi-dependence, semi-closure, semi-opening, budding adolescence and longing for heterosexual communication. Children of this age structure are most likely to go to extremes, so this stage plays a very important role in laying the personality charm of the whole life. For children of this age, our parents should be able to lower their bodies in an equal manner, communicate with their children, deeply understand their ideological trends, and reasonably guide their childish and wrong thoughts and behaviors, instead of blindly criticizing and blocking them, which will only be counterproductive and make them more rebellious and closed. Just like when a flood breaks its banks, the barrier can't stop it. Only with rational guidance can they run to the boundless river of life healthily and steadily.

As a parent, he must always pay attention to every detail of his words and deeds in daily life, and be a person who is consistent in appearance, responsible, dare to take responsibility, have goals, control and love, and ask him to be such a person. Children have their own independent thoughts and behavioral impulses at this age. As long as it is conducive to the healthy growth of children, parents should give them an opportunity to act independently and give them an opportunity to deal with problems independently. Among them, parents can put forward reasonable suggestions and guidance, respect children's own choices on how to deal with problems, dare to take corresponding responsibilities, let children have a deep understanding of the world and their own shortcomings, help analyze and summarize the shortcomings and advantages in practice, and have great social skills and psychology for children.

In junior high school, children should form good study habits and make detailed study and life schedules, such as when to get up, brush their teeth and wash their faces, do their homework, and have a rest. Only by strictly following the schedule every day can they form good habits, which will affect their lives. Let children realize the importance of learning and learn to master their own self-control, such as how to adjust the control of watching cartoons or playing games and writing homework and the control of time, so that children can grow up healthily in a positive learning environment with a combination of work and rest. Heartfelt thanks to all the substitute teachers! I am also very grateful to the school for providing this rare training opportunity for our parents. Thank you very much A hasty pen can still be seen hanging.

The experience of family education is short. (3) Children are the future of the motherland and the hope of the family. Today's seedlings are tomorrow's towering trees. Therefore, every pair of parents will care and guide their children with love and responsibility during their growth. However, although every parent wants to have a successful child and a successful daughter, they may not all get what they want. Recently, I listened to the course broadcast of Mr. Liu from Yiqi, and gained a lot. Children's education needs humanization. Society will make people, and there will also be "waste products". There will be a large number of talents in the school, and there will be some talents who have accomplished nothing. The final decision is family education. "Family is the first school for children, and parents are the first teachers for children!" The following is my family education experience:

First, create a warm and comfortable environment and create a strong learning atmosphere

(1) The family is the main energy source for children. Handle the relationship between husband and wife, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, create a harmonious family environment for children, raise and grow a family full of books and make the family full of laughter.

(2) Parents should pay attention to words and deeds and cultivate their children's good study habits and attitudes. As parents, we should pay special attention to our image. Parents should behave in a civilized way in front of our children. Because parents are the best role models for children, parents' words and deeds have a subtle influence on children and have a far-reaching impact on their growth. Please put down your mobile phone and electronic products. You can pick up a book and read it while the children are doing their homework. You can take your children to the library to read books on weekends and actively create a good learning atmosphere.

Second, cultivate children's learning fun, stimulate learning motivation and improve learning ability.

Children are like flowers in spring, innocent, lively and lovely, innocent, curious and capable of accepting and imitating. As parents, we should try our best to guide and stimulate children's interest in learning. As we all know, children are active and playful by nature, but as long as they are interested in something, she will really study hard, do it conscientiously and do it consciously. They don't want to do things they are not interested in, and it is impossible to drive ducks to the shelves for their children. Only by being good at guiding children and stimulating their interest in learning can children be happy and actively involved in learning. Really "enjoy learning".

Third, communicate with children diligently and effectively, encourage them more, and give them full love.

As parents, we should put down our airs, make friends with children, regard children as independent subjects, communicate with children as low as possible, use less imperative tone and use more negotiating language. Use more "we" and "what do you think" and less "you should", even if it is criticism, let the child feel your love for him. Because the child's mind is very fragile, if parents often give their children lessons, it will inevitably make them feel fear and disgust. If they dare not approach you, they will often have rebellious psychology and dislike what you say more and more. Give children more appreciative eyes, be good at discovering her unique advantages and strengths, watch her make a little progress, encourage her, patiently guide her, and support her with words and practical actions, especially when children encounter difficulties, not simply shouting or cynicism, but patiently enlighten and actively provide solutions to problems.

Finally, to borrow a teacher's words: "cultivate one's morality, cultivate one's oral morality, practice (behavior) and cultivate one's mind (thoughts, concepts, emotions and will)." Family (learn to help children grow up, improve their living ability, learning ability, deal with relationships, control their emotions, and create a family energy field) children will become more and more outstanding! "I hope all children can fly to happiness! Fly to success!

The experience of family education is short-lived. (4) The child grows from a hungry baby to a child who knows a little about personnel. This process is indeed the condensation of our hard work as parents, and there are also many puzzles. Let me talk about some educational ideas and experiences of our family.

First, provide children with a relaxed and harmonious family environment.

A harmonious family can give children a cheerful personality and is conducive to their growth. If the family is not harmonious, the harm to children is often greater than that of adults, which will make children lose their sense of security, easily form bad personality and psychology, and lack sense of responsibility and love. A good family environment can provide necessary fertile soil for their healthy growth. A harmonious family environment needs to start from our parents themselves, set an example, pay attention to their usual words and deeds, honor their parents, be kind to others, and play a positive demonstration role for their children. The influence of parents on children is one of the factors that can't be ignored in children's growth, which is subtle and lasting. Efforts should be made to create a loving but not pampered family environment for children, with more guidance and less control, more encouragement and less criticism, more tolerance and less harshness. A relaxed environment is by no means obedient to children.

Second, learn to listen, communicate with children on an equal footing and be their bosom friends.

There is always a generation gap between parents and children. Children gradually have the ability to think independently, and also accept a lot of information from China media, and have their own opinions, which are often too self-righteous. Parents should put down their condescending attitude, sit down with their children calmly, talk face to face, express their thoughts and communicate with their children on an equal footing. It is the expectation of every parent to expect their children to succeed, but we can't simply ask children to cultivate their comprehensive quality from one aspect, just like sometimes children's exam results are not ideal, so we should help them find reasons, set methods, set goals, blame less and guide more. After a long time, children will naturally regard their parents as bosom friends.

Third, let children learn to do their own things and establish the spirit of "hardship" from an early age.

Parents should let their children learn to take care of themselves from an early age, understand the hardships of life and establish the idea of self-reliance from an early age. They should not only cultivate the spirit of "hardship", but also cultivate the ability to live independently, so that they can become independent members of society. The more parents protect and replace, the more dependent and incompetent children are. Diligence is the seed of happiness, laziness is the bane of degeneration, and ease is the biggest enemy of children's growth and the biggest hidden danger buried in their hearts. Therefore, let children grow up in adversity, and the life after the storm will be more brilliant.

Fourth, strive to cultivate children's sense of social responsibility and dedication.

Combine specific examples in history and real life, let children be educated and enlightened, and understand that people can't be pure natural people. Children are required to have love, love the country, love their parents and society, love all people and things, and respect their parents and teachers. In this world, you can't just live for yourself, but also make achievements in society and be a person who contributes to society and has love for others. Because only by loving others can we get more people's love.

Five, often contact the teacher to understand the children's learning situation and performance in school.

Families and schools should always keep in touch and be consistent. Parents should take the initiative to visit the teacher at school, reflect their children's learning situation and ideological attitude at home, and ask their children about their learning attitude at school, whether they are serious in class and whether they speak positively. If your child is insufficient in some aspects, you can have targeted education after returning to China. We didn't do very well in this respect. Thanks to the teacher's timely contact, we have less detours in educating our children and less bad habits. Family education is the foundation and foundation of education. Without good family education, it is difficult to establish a good school education.

The experience of family education is short-lived. (5) In family education, after years of life and practice, I have written down little by little feelings. One is to record your thoughts and feelings truthfully, and the other is to communicate with parents and improve together. In my opinion, couples should pay attention to the following aspects if they want to educate their children well:

1, cooperation and coordination between husband and wife. First of all, husband and wife should be highly consistent in educational principles and concepts, such as strict requirements, no doting, honesty, no greed for petty gains, and so on; Second, cooperate with each other. After the child made a mistake, one side severely criticized it. Maybe the child didn't understand it at that time, or it was difficult to understand. The other party happily pointed out the child's mistake in private and said that mom or dad severely criticized you just now because they loved you so much. As the saying goes, one plays the bad COP and the other plays the bad COP. In this way, children will naturally understand criticism from the bottom of their hearts and admit their mistakes.

2. Politeness education runs through. Politeness is the basic symbol of politeness in contemporary society. Politeness education must start from the small aspects of life. First of all, parents should set a good example for their children, and children will form polite habits in a subtle way. Secondly, give children proper guidance and education when necessary. Remember, don't talk too much and make your child disgusted.

3. Develop good living habits. First of all, educate children to go to bed early and get up early, exercise properly, and never stay up late; Secondly, the diet should be scientific. Don't overeat, and you can't be overnourished. Let children understand that good living habits play a great role in people's health, study, work and other aspects.

4, pay attention to principles, can not be used to children. There is no child whose parents don't love themselves. What matters is how to love them. The results of children's development are different when they grow up, and the influence and education from childhood to extended family play an important role. Some parents and children make unreasonable demands, cry if they are not satisfied, and their parents are heartbroken and satisfied. In fact, this is the reason for the poor quality of their children. In fact, it is no longer appropriate to make unreasonable demands. It is even more wrong to make trouble if you don't meet them. When children make unreasonable demands, parents should resolutely refuse, and children may not cry so much. Children crying is often the result of parents' attitude.

5. Eliminate or reduce interference from ancestors. It is a common phenomenon that our grandparents spoil their children. If they don't live together, and three generations and four generations live together, young parents may be more concerned, because on the one hand, they have to educate their children, on the other hand, they have to educate the elderly, and it is often more difficult to educate the elderly than to educate their children.

6. Teach children to be tolerant. Encourage children to go among children, and encourage children to be modest, tolerant and generous in their interactions with children. Being able to let children invite friends to their homes, parents will warmly receive them, which will enable children to learn to treat others warmly, and the enthusiasm of parents will also make children feel "face" and confident among friends. Don't be afraid to make a mess at home, don't let your child's friends come to the house, and don't be afraid to be cold to your child's friends. That will make children lose face, make themselves look down upon in their friends, and alienate the relationship between children and parents.

7. Cultivate children's sense of responsibility, labor concept and hard-working spirit. At present, the most common phenomenon is that most teenagers can't work, have no spirit of hardship and lack a sense of responsibility. It can be said that most of the reasons come from family education. Let children eat well, dress well, don't work, and overprotect. These are the fundamental reasons why children lack a sense of responsibility, don't like work, and can't bear hardships.