Gender psychology: find a man who loves you all his life, and only a brainless woman will believe it.

For the rest of my life, please find such a person. ...

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I have swiped the screen more than five times.

Most of the reprints are girls.

To understand you, to spoil you, to spend money for you.

If you quarrel, you must admit your mistakes and be unconditional. He must cook rice, and you will appear among no more than three friends.

Everything must be reliable, and I will tell you every second.

Complement each other, get along comfortably, travel with you, and reveal the boy who fully undertakes everything for you.

This is really a good man.

Men want to find such a boyfriend.

Chicken soup is popular because there is a market.

Many people criticize chicken soup. Except chicken soup is illogical, many of them are poisonous.

The husband's duty is to support each other and grow together;

Dad's duty is to help you develop self-care ability, which is essentially different.

Moreover, you and your husband constitute a husband-and-wife relationship; I am a parent-child relationship with my father, and different relationships also require different ways to get along.

If you want to find a husband who loves you like a father?

Excuse me, can you be as filial to your husband as your father?

Nowadays, girls drink such emotional chicken soup, and some wild ways come out to tell you under the banner of emotional experts:

Men should spoil you and spoil you to the sky.

The slogan you shout will eventually be let go.

Because when you take them as truth, you will only feel that your lover doesn't love you enough, your friends are not real enough, and your family is not perfect enough.

Have you ever wondered who will pay for you in your next life?

In the stage of mate selection, such as college or a few years after graduation, girls will choose a boy who is kind to themselves and willing to devote himself wholeheartedly, but they are not happy after entering marriage.

I believe everyone is no stranger to the phrase "who wants to take shelter from the wind and be a harbor".

In feelings, everyone wants to find someone who will always spoil and love themselves. This is a gender-neutral question.

It is understandable that a woman wants to find a man who will be like a father and a brother all her life.

Relatively speaking, is it too much for a man to find a woman who looks like his sister and mother?

It is only natural that a woman is spoiled all the time, and a man who has the same idea will be called a "giant baby".

What is the wrong conclusion caused by logical thinking?

It's so romantic and touching, and besides, this man did it.

Yes, he did everything except the sentence "I love you till the end".

Those who always emphasize their sacrifices and contributions in intimate relationships are always full of grievances and complaints;

And people who are accused and blackmailed will also have anger and dissatisfaction.

The performance of the blackmailed party will directly affect the behavior of the "victim".

Some are afraid of losing their relationship, temporarily suppressing their dissatisfaction and constantly compromising;

Some people are unwilling to bear guilt and are used to pleasing others;

Some people always look for reasons on themselves when they encounter difficulties, and it is easy to blame themselves.

In this way, the blackmailed person is paired with the "sacrificed" person, so that the "sacrificed" person has no chance to reflect on himself.

Without reflection, there is no awareness; There is no growth without consciousness.

Only by self-reflection, awareness of their own relationship model and a clear understanding of the psychological mechanism of self-sacrifice can partners avoid the psychological trap of destroying intimate relationships.

A good relationship must be mutually nourishing, and it must be a balance between giving and returning.

So don't talk about "sacrifice" in any relationship.

We don't have unsatisfied love from our parents, but more from childhood.

We seem to be looking for a partner, but in fact we are looking for someone's characteristics and emotions to fill the inner hole of dissatisfaction.

When we put our love and happiness on each other, in fact, we have thrown away the key to happiness in marriage.

We often dwarf intimacy-think that intimacy is to provide support and love, just a tool to satisfy our own desires;

Love in a narrow sense-think that love means that others are good to me and I want to be good to others;

In fact, it is far from it. Intimacy and love are both journeys that ultimately lead us to find ourselves. They are a journey to complete ourselves, which is why we say that our partners and spouses are actually our own therapists.

Because only in intimate relationship can all our wounds and perfection be exposed and presented one by one, there is nowhere to escape, and there is no need to escape, because no one can escape from himself, so at this moment when we are honest with ourselves, we have ourselves and everyone.

If the relationship only pays, or the other party only takes, it is doomed to failure.

At a certain point, either party can't stand this unbalanced state and will leave, because the unbalanced state has created tremendous pressure and needs to be alleviated.

Unexpectedly, people who leave or interrupt this relationship are often people who accept too much.

Otherwise, people who give blindly will be angry, and those who receive will have great pressure, leading to the disintegration of the relationship.

The balance between giving and receiving is an art we need to learn.

Qin Xianglian is also at fault in terms of the balance between giving and receiving.

The existence of "relationship" is the dynamic balance of both parties' pay and income.

Because you gave him all the pressure.

Actually, it's not that you have a clear conscience, it's just that you passed on negative energy to him.

Girls should understand that the essence of marriage is mutual need, mutual adaptation and mutual support.

In the eyes of people who really love you and understand you, those defects that can be truly presented:

Your writing style, your stupidity, your timidity and your small temper are all the cutest and most interesting.

So the choice is right, not expensive.

The result of our efforts to get better is to have more choices, rather than having illusions to follow suit and grab more and more prices.

What you can get on tiptoe is goods, not love. Don't think that just because you love someone lowly, you can really bloom in the dust.

If you can live like Faye Wong, truly get rid of the fear of age, secular prejudice, traditional bondage, be spiritually independent, materially rich, psychologically strong, love yourself and live for freedom and independence, then it doesn't matter whether you marry or not, because you only belong to yourself.

But there are only a handful of people in the world who can live to be queen.

Most people, like you and me, still long for someone to give you warmth in three winters and someone to miss you in spring.

Of course, you can find a man who dotes on you as a daughter. I am also very happy to hear that your love has turned into a positive result and entered the marriage hall.

About the author: Mr. Xian Hong

Psychological counselor, tarot soothsayer, planetary energy eulogy therapist, freelance writer and trainer.

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