What if the child can't learn to teach?

What if the child can't learn to teach?

A very popular saying in parents' circle, "When helping with homework, I jump like a chicken, and when not helping with homework, my mother is kind and filial." I think many parents feel the same way. Below, I sorted out the methods that children can't learn to teach, hoping to help everyone!

1. Don't teach after three times.

Generally explain the topic to the child, the child can't understand it once, the second time is a bit eye-catching, and the third time the idea is clear. If the child still knows a little after three times, he can pause first.

Because if you go on, adults will have a temper. In the eyes of adults, I can't understand such a simple question after reading it so many times. The nameless fire has come up, and temporary treatment is a more appropriate way.

2. Cut into or contact with real life with points of interest.

When I was tutoring my children, I found that they couldn't understand the problem. If I turn it into a life problem, the children will soon understand.

For example, about the distance. Just change the topic to the distance from home to school, the time from home to school, and how many roads to walk every minute. Make the problem concrete, and children will feel less abstract.

You can also turn the problem into something that children are interested in. For example, children like balls and change the topic to be related to balls. Children are more willing to listen and more attentive.

Adults should understand that children need time to digest.

Some children have good digestion. They understood these words on the spot. There are still some children who don't understand and need to be consolidated after class. Or nothing can be done in the same day, which takes a week or more.

I once asked my child's math teacher because the child was anxious because he didn't master a certain knowledge point. She said the same thing to me. She said do your best. Children's weaknesses may be obvious in unit tests. However, you will find that she will suddenly at some point. By the end of the term, she seemed to understand everything.

Of course, this is also for children who love to learn. Children who don't take the initiative and don't like learning are another matter. As long as you want to learn, you can't learn without learning.