A hedge between keeps friendship green. Who is worth making friends with?

Friends are not for use. With friends, we don't expect anything, and we don't impose anything on others. Don't do to others what you don't want them to do to you. Reduce your desire for interests and hobbies. Self-cultivation can help others. The communication between friends can be smooth. The friendship between gentlemen is as light as water, which is also vividly reflected in the friendship between Ba Jin and Shen Congwen. From acquaintance to acquaintance, they have maintained a profound friendship all their lives. But it depends on how you make a friendship between gentlemen as light as water. Living can be a spiritual journey, but physically, life is difficult to be alone, and there will always be some intersections. If you think you are a friend or want to maintain it, you should manage the relationship that needs to be maintained.

Because these two are gentlemen, they don't want and won't get any benefits from each other, so their friendship can be as long as water, from beginning to end. It is not suitable in that society, and the phrase "a friendship between gentlemen is as light as water" has been nothing more than a good wish when people want to communicate with each other for thousands of years. Never take it seriously, that is to say, once you take it seriously, you can't do anything in that society.

Even if you eat it many times, you won't be the host. Everyone has an objection. I think that friend has a good personality, is honest and low-key, is he not used to it, has he paid off his son's mortgage, and is he henpecked? He may have his own idea that a friendship between gentlemen is as light as water, and a friendship between villains is as sweet as water. When a person asks you and needs you, no matter what he is asked to do or say, he will still be at your mercy. Once you achieve your goal, you will turn your back on others. Therefore, to be a man, let the first three steps be beneficial first, and then let the third step retreat easily. Are you kind to me or indifferent? Are you kind to me or let nature take its course.

It's better to keep a proper distance, so that each of us will choose the rules of making friends that suit us. Of course, the premise of making friends lies in the sincere relationship between heart and heart. As the saying goes, if you are sincere, you will be deceived for a while, but you will never be deceived for a lifetime.